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Black American MALE dating White Women: REVENGE or PERSONAL PREFERENCE (3009 hits)


Across America it is all too common to witness African American men with a white woman on his arm. Wild s*x and half-breed children result in this very odd couple. We read various reasons why brothers date and marry their once slave masters daughters, but they seem to all point to either getting back for the white man raping black women during slavery OR brothers want white women because they argue less than sisters and are better at oral s*x.

Whatever the reasons, brothers seem to rationalize why they want to mix with caucasian women. The problem with this interracial mixing is that it builds distrust of the black brothers and sisters. Then, it spawns confusion among the kids who are not sure if they are black or white. From a nation building standpoint; this type of interracial mixing will not advance the African origin human race thus must be avoided. What are your thoughts ?
Posted By: jamal Abraham
Saturday, April 16th 2011 at 9:43AM
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Sure, there is a certain amount of gratification a brother gets from snatching a white woman from the white man. But, there is no money or power in the new conquest. It is purely emotional and phychological. For example, Tiger Woods and OJ Simpson both married white women who were nobodies. Their marrying them did not bring these African Americans money, power and fame rather it brought disaster instead.
Saturday, April 16th 2011 at 1:34PM
jamal Abraham
As-Salaam Alaikum Bro. Jamal, I admit you are on point that is is purely emotional and psychological. Some of the greatest Black men our nation has produced have married White women. Other than the men you have mentioned above, check out the following list of famous Black men who married and/or dated White women:

1. FREDRICK DOUGLASS

2. BOOKER T. WASHINGTON

3. MICHAEL JACKSON

4. TAYE DIGGS

5. TERRANCE HOWARD

6. ICE T

7. REGGIE BUSH

8. CHRIS BYRD

9. TIM DUNCAN

10. JAMES BROWN

11. DON CORNELIUS

12. MONTELL WILLIAMS

It is one thing to date outside your race, but it's another to date outside your race and simply forget who you are and where you come from. It is these types of interracial relationships that I find disturbing, because these Black men (and I'm sure there are a few more out there) have often not dealt with their issues of low self-esteem and have little interest in respecting or gaining an understanding of Black women or their communities.

As far as Tiger Woods is concerned, Tiger knows now he ain't a Caublinasian (whatever that is LOL) at least to whites. He's a down home, ordinary to be kept in check black man.


Saturday, April 16th 2011 at 3:41PM
Siebra Muhammad
Wa-Alaikum-Salaam....Sis. Siebra......Black men figured chimes would sound, white men would be in awe and the financial doors in America would open. Neither happend ! They were just stuck with a stringy head caucasian woman with hair all over the bed and bathroom.

Wow...interesting account of the many reknown brothers who have preferred white women. And all these brothers seem to think they were so much above their race, since they had the white.
Sunday, April 17th 2011 at 9:47AM
jamal Abraham
Hello Siebra and Jamal,

How it is that both of you could think to straighten out Black Americans when both of you need to be straightened out your selves. What I mean is why do you all suck up to the Arabian people's prophet, religion, ways and customs when both of you are Black Americans and not Arabian people?

Why don't you all have the intelligence enough to ask God for your own prophet, religion and sovereignty on a fertile portion of this continent that we could call our very own country with borders? Why don't you all see yourselves similar to the children of Israel and since God helped them why then should God not help us Black Americans.

Secondly, you all don't know who you are. For instance, Siebra you all believe that you are an Arabian woman. Jamal believes that he is Arabian and an African-American. Saint Jake believes he is a Black Hebrew Israelite from the tribe of Judah. Ms. Thomasina believes she is a Colored woman. You all are out of your minds and have the gumption to believe you can straighten out Black Americans.

Please! Our first order of business is that we must desire to be a sovereign people on a fertile portion of this continent that we could call our very own country with borders and everything else will fall into place including interracial mixing.

I am the way, and besides me, there is no other way that Black Americans could ever become a real people in this world. I am Black America's first genuine prophet. I am not a messenger. I am a prophet the same as Moses was to lead his people out of bondage and slavery in Egypt.

So, you first need to deal with why you all are Arabian wannabes. Why do you not want your own religion, LIFE as the Arabians became proud and felt special to have their own religion Islam?

What say you?

Sunday, April 17th 2011 at 10:32AM
Harry Watley
Harry, you rattle like a child's toy. There is no substance to what you speak about me being an Arabian. A muslim in Indonesia remains an Indonesian. A muslim in Germany remains a German. A muslim in Madagascar remains an AFrican and a muslim in Bolivia remains a Bolivian. To say that I remain an African American though a muslim. If you have a premise to make a claim....try using a sound premise and not one that falters on idiosyncracy and blatant stupidity...OK.....
Sunday, April 17th 2011 at 12:15PM
jamal Abraham
The choice remains with the individual Brother Jamal. People are free to love and be with whomever they fall in love with. Simple.
Monday, April 18th 2011 at 1:27AM
Jen Fad
Hi...sis. Jen....I do realize what you are saying....only that the need of the whole is greater than the need of the individual. That said......the Black race as a whole has problems loving each other and acting in unison. The need to correct that....is greater than the need of one brother wanting to get his nuts off with a white woman and further damaging the love fabric of black loyalty and unity.
Monday, April 18th 2011 at 8:52AM
jamal Abraham
Great point!
Monday, April 18th 2011 at 12:08PM
Siebra Muhammad
@ Brother Jamal.

[Monday, April 18th 2011 at 8:52AMJamal Abraham....
The need to correct that....is greater than the need of one brother wanting to get his nuts off with a white woman and further damaging the love fabric of black loyalty and unity. ]

Men have been getting their 'nuts' off for centuries with all kinds of women and as the saying goes,"You can't teach an ole' dog new tricks."

Monday, April 18th 2011 at 2:38PM
Jen Fad
Hello Jamal,

Before I begin let me compliment you on your superb rationale to Ms. Jen when you said that the need of the whole is greater than the need of the individual.

Okay, Jamal a so-called Muslim in Indonesia will always be an Indonesian. Likewise, a so-called Black American Muslim as Elijah was and you are will always be a Black American. The reason behind what I am saying is that a genuine Muslim must be the same race as Prophet Mohammed was.

Since a so-called German Muslim could never be a real Muslim because he is not Arab it stands to reason that the German is misled to believe that he could be a Muslim. I know that I am right because Prophet Mohammed came specifically to the Arabian people since God rose up Prophet Mohammed out of the Arabian people common sense would tell you that if you are not Arabian Prophet Mohammed, Islam and the Arabian ways are not your way. Therefore, no other races other than Arabian people are authentic Muslims.

Jamal since you are a Black American and I am your genuine prophet and our religion is LIFE then you would be a believer in the religion of LIFE or a LIFER. You definitely cannot be a Muslim since you are not an Arab man. Now, if you insist on being a Muslim it is because you do not know any better and you have been misled.

Jamal you must give up Islam and accept your own. Your religion is LIFE. I am a believer in the religion LIFE or you could simply say that I am a LIFER. In other words, I want life for myself and Black Americans as Prophet Mohammed wanted Islam for his Arabian people. Why do you want something that belongs to someone else is baffling to me and at the same time you want to sell yourself as a father of a new nation but you has the Arabian people's religion of Islam? Something is wrong with your thinking. It seems that you can rationalize on Ms. Jen level but you cannot rationalize on my level, why is that so?

What say you?

Monday, April 18th 2011 at 4:28PM
Harry Watley
1. FREDRICK DOUGLASS

2. BOOKER T. WASHINGTON

3. MICHAEL JACKSON

4. TAYE DIGGS

5. TERRANCE HOWARD

6. ICE T

7. REGGIE BUSH

8. CHRIS BYRD

9. TIM DUNCAN

10. JAMES BROWN

11. DON CORNELIUS

12. MONTELL WILLIAMS

all Look Different from Different Times, with Different Occupations but ALL are the SAME as siebraJamal, bushClinton, popeGraham and Harry----paganChristians, a byProduct of slaverAmericana--1492-1864

Tuesday, April 19th 2011 at 8:21AM
powell robert
Jamal,
Could it be the same kind of gratification the sister get from marrying not being raped by the white man? Her choise instead of being forced? I think you are running the double standard. You are letting the bro off the hook.
Wednesday, April 20th 2011 at 3:14PM
Thomasena Martin-Johnson
"I have had very little sympathy with the curiosity of the world about my domestic relations. What business has the world with the color of my wife?"

--Frederick Douglass in a personal letter to a friend after his marriage to Helen Pitts Douglass.

"Helen and I are making life go very happily and that neither of us has yet repented of our marriage," he continued.

All the evidence points to a happy and supportive marriage for Frederick Douglass until the day he died.

Anyone can ask the same question:

WHAT BUSINESS HAS THE WORLD WITH THE COLOR OF MY WIFE (or husband)?




Wednesday, April 20th 2011 at 4:29PM
Richard Kigel
@Thomasena.........Come on......What...there is no double standard.....Please read what has been said. Did I not say the need of the many reins supreme ? After 111 hits, much has been said....and the divine order of little Abraham has been made very clear on the brothers.
Wednesday, April 20th 2011 at 10:03PM
jamal Abraham
@Richard....how are you doing...hope you are preparing for the upcoming summer months. Anyway, I understand what you are saying....but, you and I both know that we do not live in a box. The world is all around us. It is human nature to seek out other people's business. A human society is social in venue. If a white man is living with a black woman in a house, people, be them neighbors, drive by traffic or friends WILL TALK. The point of this blog is what they will be talking about. There are many members of my race that speak of Frederick Douglass as an uncle Tom. Imagine to be labeled that way. This is not necessarily my views but, people were talking. It did cause a disturbance in his family and in his life no matter how much he may have tried to conceal it. He could have avoided all that drama and stress related to intermixing, had he married a soul sister.
Wednesday, April 20th 2011 at 10:09PM
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