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I grew up in the South, the son of a Baptist minister, where you were expected to fit into this very narrow group of guidelines. Failure to 'fit in' was frowned upon by everyone and you were labeled, as well as recognized, as 'different', which wasn't a good thing. This meant that you stood out. The few of us who did stand out wanted to be recognized not because we different but rather for our uniqueness and brilliance. Instead, we were considered outcasts and were avoided.
Then I entered college, the placed I called, 'The Land of the Awakened Mind', where people were passionate about what they believed in and were willing to fight for their beliefs. I was no longer seen as 'different' but rather one of the gang. I now fit in instead of being an outsider. As a freshman, I joined the newspaper staff as an artist and reporter, and eventually becoming the editor-in-chief. This was a place where ideas were discussed and debated, where strategies were mapped out with success as the goal. This was the place where I learned how to network with other groups within the campus as well as at other schools where the goals were the same, always maintaining open communication. I found that even if we didn't agree, the bonds were maintained, and often strengthened.
I learned something wonderful about myself along the way, the need to find and understand the 'why' questions. This served me well, especially being a mathematics major. Throughout my schooling, I realized that the more 'whys' I could answer, the greater the degree of understanding I attained.
Upon graduation, I began teaching those students that, historically, had difficulty learning mathematics. They were always the disenfranchised, performing far below their capabilities. I looked forward to the challenge, that being, helping these students be able to do something that my predecessors were not able to accomplish.Those of you that are or have been teachers know that these students were assigned to the first year teachers, or to the more seasoned teachers who viewed it as some type of punishment.
My goal was to not only be able to do mathematics but also understanding the 'whats' and 'whys' of the things that were being asked of them. I am a firm believer in the statement, 'If you keep doing what you did, you will keep getting what you got'. For me, in order to have success, the only thing that made sense was to approach the subject from a totally different manner. The results, in a word, were amazing. They made dramatic improvements in only one year. Needless to say, different definitely worked for them. They became enthusiastic learners and because of them, more students asked to enter my classes.
Today, the United States has an African-American President. This is very different from the previous forty-three president.For the most part, the entire country is revitalized. His eloquence and brilliance have capture the hearts and minds of the disenfranchised, providing a source of hope for a brighter future by going about the job in a manner that is totally different from those who came before. People from all walks of life have decided to be 'different', to step up and work for a better tomorrow. Do you consider yourself 'different'? Let's be 'different' together and watch what we accomplish.
Posted By: George Milliken
Wednesday, November 19th 2008 at 10:08PM
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In logic, it is true that a statement is either true or false. However, it is the construction of the statements within the argument that determines the truth (or validity) of that argument. A single statement does not constitute and argument, its validity, nor its reliability.
Wednesday, November 19th 2008 at 10:32PM
George Milliken
I would be more than happy to help you in any way that I can. I believe that there is always more than one way to explain ANY mathematical concept. The goal for me has always been to find the one that makes the most sense to you. I am betting that your math teachers all explained the ideas almost exactly the same way, showing you HOW to do something rather than helping you understand WHY you are doing it. We can start whenever you like. By the way, do you have a webcam?
Thursday, November 20th 2008 at 7:30AM
George Milliken
Go to Wal-Mart and pick one up. They are all pretty much simply plugged into a USB port and go.
Friday, November 21st 2008 at 8:05PM
George Milliken
george you and I must talk ans math is my down fall, I am serious...CAn you really help those who find math difficult. I would be glad to be come one of your students. I Am SERIOUS!!!!!
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
Earl do you watch a program on the history channel that is called Naked Science? Just to night they had a scientist using some for of "gunius scale of Time measuring the universe using time as being like a rubber ball(bending time and space)and proving every thing was created in 7 days just as the Bible said. The program will be on again. Look in your TV guide and you could may be able to get your answer answered the way is was answered for me tonight, Now, it's that ironic I had just seen this question being answered using the Bible by a scientist to prove that very thing?
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
No George I do not have a webcam. I will talk with the person who does all of my computer setups about it. I am serious. I am number/math disabled. We will stay in touch as I am serious about this. And thank you for your encouraging me that I can learn, at last. Reading a math problem is even worst. Say, "a living nightmare"!!!
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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