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I saw this coming months ago and decided to leave the site. I have more messages then I care to read, friend request that I have no desire to accept and nearly 2000 friend updates. As the saying goes " It takes two to tangle" and why anyone would go back and forth with someone that really does not know them or anything about them, is beyond me. What does anyone owe another? What does anyone have to prove to another on this site? NOTHING. Unless what is blogged about has actual facts, supported by data, documented proof then it is only a person's opinion. An opinion is just that, does not make it right or wrong, it's just someone's personal perspective based on their own life experiences with whatever topic is being blogged and or discussed. Based on some of the few blog titles I just seen, some of the comments made on them, it is no wonder the younger generation is in the mess it is in. LOOK AT THEIR MENTORS!! YES IT'S CAPS AND YES I'M SCREAMING THIS. The childish, petty and ego tripping nonsense that I am seeing on this site in the past few months is just sickening, which is why I left in the first place. Life in the real world has enough unnecessary, avoidable bs an drama, who needs to be bothered with the crap in cyberworld also! Like I said before: The saying goes " It takes two to tangle" and why entertain the nonsense. A person looks like a completely foolish idiot when they attempt to start a verbal, in this case a blogging and commenting fight, with someone that never responds to them at all. It's just them, writing mess with no responses and they are all alone just writing words. Basically, looking for a fight only to be let down, because no one is willing to entertain their pre-school antics. Starving for attention and using any means to get it, only to still be ignored. It's really not that hard to ignore someone that only looks to bring negativity, ignorance and drama to a forum. Just go on about your business of blogging, delete as one may and just keep it positive and moving right along. IT'S REALLY NOT THAT HARD!!
Posted By: Marquerite Burgess
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:02AM
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WHO CARES WHAT ANOTHER THINKS ABOUT THE RELIGION YOU CHOSE TO BE APART OF! YOUR BELIEFS ARE YOURS, WHAT YOU CHOSE TO FOLLOW IS YOUR CHOICE. WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN CROSSES TO BARE AND WHEN IT'S YOUR TIME TO ANSWER FOR WHAT YOU CHOSE, NO ONE ELSE WILL BE THERE TO ANSWER FOR YOU BUT YOU!
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:12AM
Marquerite Burgess
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WHAT I'M SAYING IS, THE MOMENT YOU DECIDED TO RESPOND TO THE PERSON'S IGNORANCE, YOU GAVE THEM POWER OVER YOUR ACTIONS. IT'S NOT WHAT YOUR CALLED, BUT WHAT YOU ANSWER TO. YOU HAVE A DELETE OPTION TO EVERYTHING POSTED ON YOUR BLOG, DELETE THIS IGNORANCE AND KEEP IT MOVING. WHAT POINT DO YOU HAVE TO PROVE TO THIS PERSON? THAT ALL IT TAKES IS FOR THEM TO CALL YOU A FEW NAMES OR ATTEMPT TO DISCREDIT THE RELIGION YOU CHOOSE TO FOLLOW AND IT'S GAME ON, TIME TO BATTLE. DOES WHAT THEY SAY CHANGE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE WITH THE HIGHER POWER YOU CHOSE TO FOLLOW. NO IT DOES NOT!
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:26AM
Marquerite Burgess
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SAINT JAKE, ONE CAN'T ATTACK ANOTHER PERSONALLY UNLESS THEY ACTUALLY KNOW THEM PERSONALLY. OTHER THAN THAT, IT IS PURELY SOMEONE MAKING COMMENTS BASED ON SPECULATION OF WHO THEY THINK (WHICH THINKING COMES FROM NOT KNOWING) SOME IS. AS TO YOUR QUESTIONS, THEY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT THIS BLOG IS ABOUT, SO I CHOOSE NOT TO ANSWER THEM.
HI MRS. IRMA, I WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER, BUT I SEE SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE TO DIG IN THE GARBAGE, ROLL AROUND IN IT AND STAY THERE. YOU KNOW HOW I DO WHEN IT COMES TO NEGATIVITY, I WILL DELETE, DELETE, DELETE TO MY HEARTS CONTENT. (SMILE) AS TO THE PERSON YOU MENTIONED, YOU KNOW HOW I DEALT WITH THAT MERRY GO ROUND ALSO. IF HE FELT MISTREATED BECAUSE I WOULD NOT ENTERTAIN HIS NONSENSE, THEN THAT IS ON HIM. I DID NOT DO IT THEN AND SURELY WON'T ENTERTAIN IT NOW. (SMILE)
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:34AM
Marquerite Burgess
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YOUR WELCOME MRS. IRMA AND I LOVE YOU TOO. (SMILE) YOU ALSO KNOW I WON'T BE AROUND HERE LONG, I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO WITH MY TIME THEN BE BOTHERED WITH THE CRAP I SEE ON THIS SITE. THE ADMINISTRATORS NEED TO START DELETING AND BLOCKING ACCOUNTS FOR VIOLATION OF THEIR TERMS OF SERVICE AND USAGE AGREEMENT.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:41AM
Marquerite Burgess
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DAVID I UNDERSTAND WHERE YOUR COMING FROM. NOT SURE HOW OLD YOU ARE, BUT I KNOW HOW OLD I AM AND ALSO KNOW THAT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU EVER GIVE ANYONE POWER OVER YOUR ACTIONS, ESPECIALLY BASED ON WORDS. THIS PERSON DOES NOT KNOW YOU PERSONALLY AND NO MATTER HOW MANY WORDS YOU TYPE THEY STILL WILL NOT KNOW YOU. YOU DON'T NEED THEIR VALIDATION OF WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOUR NOT, IT IS NOT A BLOW TO YOUR MANHOOD IF YOU IGNORED THE IGNORANCE OF THIS PERSON(S) IN FACT RISING ABOVE THEIR CRAP IS WHAT MAKES YOU MORE OF A MAN. ONE TO BE RESPECTED. THE BACK AND FORTH IS CHILDISH AT IT'S BEST AND ACCOMPLISHES NOTHING, LACKS WISDOM AND MATURITY. A GROWN ASS MAN DOES NOT WORK TO PROVE A POINT WITH A FOOLISH IGNORANT PERSON. HE BASICALLY, IGNORES THEM BECAUSE HE HAS MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO FOCUS ON.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 12:48AM
Marquerite Burgess
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SAINT JAKE, I HAVE NEVER ENTERTAINED NONSENSE AND IGNORANCE AND THAT IS ALL THEY SEEM TO KNOW, THEY HAVE THEIR PLACE AND IT'S NOT IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF MY BLOGS. I DON'T EXPLAIN WHAT I DON'T WANT TO BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE TO. I IGNORE, DELETE, IGNORE, DELETE. IF COMMENTS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT MY BLOGS ARE ABOUT AND/OR I SEE PEOPLE ATTEMPTING TO DISRESPECT OTHERS ON MY BLOGS, QUESTIONING OTHER PEOPLE'S PERSONAL OPINIONS AS IF THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO THINK FOR THEMSELVES. I DELETE AND IGNORE.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 1:04AM
Marquerite Burgess
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WELL DAVID SINCE YOU CHOSE TO ATTACK, WHICH IS A CHOICE. FROM WHAT YOU STATED, THIS PERSON(S) USED WORDS TO BRING YOU IN AND CONTINUED TO DO SO UNTIL YOU RESPONDED. I PERSONALLY WOULD HAVE DELETED AND IGNORED THEM BECAUSE THEIR WORDS HAVE NO POSITIVE MEANING IN MY LIFE, THEY ARE WORDS OF NEGATIVITY WHICH I WOULD NOT ENTERTAIN.
JAMAL YES, WHO CARES. I DON'T CARE ABOUT ENTERTAINING NONSENSE, BS, IGNORANCE OR NEGATIVITY IN ANY FASHION. I HAVE FAR MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO WITH MY LIFE. THERE FORE WHEN I SEE IT, EVEN WHEN IT IS NEATLY DISGUISED IN IT'S WORDING. IT GETS DELETED!!
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 1:13AM
Marquerite Burgess
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SAINT JAKE, YOUR DIRECT RESPONSE TO MRS. IRMA ABOUT UNITING IS BORDERLINE. MEANING MY BLOG IS NOT ABOUT WHAT WHITE PEOPLE DO OR DON'T DO. I'M A FEMALE, I'M A FULL GROWN MATURE WOMAN, YOUR REFERENCE TO ME AS " SISTER" IS FINE WITH ME.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 1:21AM
Marquerite Burgess
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DAVID IT IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT YOU SHARED. MY BROTHER WAS MURDERED 9 1/2 YEARS AGO AND IT STILL SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY. I UNDERSTAND THE HURT AND PAIN BEHIND YOUR WORDS. WHAT I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT THEY WAY YOU CHOSE TO RESPOND TO THE WORDS WILL NOT BRING ABOUT A POSITIVE RESULT BE IT ON HERE OR IN THE REAL WORLD AND THAT SOMETIMES SILENCE AND IGNORING IGNORANCE IS FAR MORE POWERFUL THAN ANY WORDS.
OUT OF RESPECT, I WILL DELETE IT FOR YOU.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 1:31AM
Marquerite Burgess
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Marquerite,
Good to see you again! It's Steve Williams, but I have taken to writing under my nom de plume. Sorry you had to see this mess, but Reginald Culpepper has issued a warning to all, and Sister Irma has provided her words of wisdom, and now you. I think that things will improve from here on out. Hope you stick around for a while. I can't guarantee anything, I am only one person, but Sister Irma is giving me anger management lessons, so I hope I am right.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 7:27AM
Adam Fate
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Hello Steve, now Adam. I won't be here for long and was hoping that when I returned, this site would have improved but that is not the case. It makes no sense that all this mess is going on in the first place and although Reginald has issued a warning it is beyond me that grown people have to be warned about their behavior on a blog site , as if they are children in need of a time out or something. All of the drama and crap that I've seen is going from maybe a total of 2 or 3 people, 4 the most and yet it is at least a million or so people on this site. If a person does not get along with another person, then avoid said person. It's no reason to purposely antagonize someone and that is what some people are doing to others. Totally immature and ridiculous behavior that shows a lack of self control on the part of the people who are antagonizing others. It's mean spirited and is a clear reflection of how those people actually feel about themselves.
It's childish like one of the commercials when the child starts by saying " He's looking at me, she's touching me" things of that nature.
It would be ideal, if people would refrain from using this blogging site as a way to place their personal short comings on others, to antagonize others and all of the other negative things that's been going on.
Anywho, control of a person's actions, words, behavior and/or responses begins and ends with the person and known as Self-Control. If you recall, I don't entertain the nonsense and will delete the mess the moment it arises and will continue to do so as I see fit, when it pertains to the content and comments on any blog I post.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 7:57AM
Marquerite Burgess
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Hello Marquerite, it's not like it used to be...in a long time, but I'm delighted to hear from you even in the mix of the "blog wars." I'm still trying to spread words of peace and prayers in hopes it will settle down. Hope you're well. Good to have you back even for a short visit. Please, don't stay away too long!
Much Love...
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 8:12AM
MIISRAEL Bride
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Hello Miisrael,
It's disgusting to say the least. Continue to do what you do, in the way that you do and those that appreciate, respect and look forward to your kind and loving words, will continue to read and/or comment. I am very well and hope the same for you and yours. Not sure how long I'll be here, but i have missed you and much love to you also.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 9:10AM
Marquerite Burgess
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Peace Sis. Burgess, glad to see you are doing well!!!
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 10:28AM
Siebra Muhammad
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LOL Mrs. Irma, you know me well. (smile) Sis. Siebra and peace unto you also. Thanks and I hope all is well with you also.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 10:58AM
Marquerite Burgess
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Sister Marquerite it's been 6 months since I last read from you when you said you were done with this site~ Ha! We miss your presence here. ((hugs))
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 2:14PM
Jen Fad
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Hi Sister Jen, aww that means a lot ((hugs)) to you too. I see nothing has changed in that time frame and the same reason I decided to be done is the same reason, I will leave again. I have enjoyed the dialogue with you and a number of the from the beginning BIA members. I may drop in every now and then, but not as often as I use to.
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 2:34PM
Marquerite Burgess
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Hi Sister Burgess.... so nice to finally read from you...
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 2:41PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Hi Sister Artis, it is a pleasure to meet you and thank you. :)
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 2:43PM
Marquerite Burgess
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LOL. Mrs. Irma, thank you, I am honored (smile) and ok to DOC for Sister Cynthia. (smile)
Wednesday, September 15th 2010 at 9:26PM
Marquerite Burgess
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M.B. TELL US WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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sAINT WHY ARE YOU LEAVING, m.g. DON'T BITE...BUT TRUTH CAN CAUSE SOME DEEP PAINFUL HURTING WOUNDS...SO THE BEST THING TO DO IS BRING YOUR MOST POWEFUL DEBATE MATERIALS IF YOU DO COME BACK...BUT BE FULLY WARNED ALL YOU ARE GOING TO GET IS MORE OF INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO LIVE IN THE REAL WORLD.
SAINT, i DON'T THINK YOU HAVE SEEN ME USE THE WORDS stuck on stupid HAVE YOU? OH, WELL, (SMILE) AND i HAD BETTER GET SOME SLEEP...m.b. PLEASE STAY A SHORT TIME. IT WOULD BE A GREAT WELCOMED CHANGE. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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...BECAUSE SOME TIMES "UNITING" CAN LEAVE OUT A PERSON BEING AN INDIVIDUAL. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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BE CAREFUL...REMEMBER HOW IT WAS SAID ON A BLOG NOT LONG AGO ABOUT bLACKS CAN NOT UNITE...WELL THIS COVERS HOW SOME TIMES WHEN A NOTHER bLACK PERSON CALLS SOME ONE 'SISTER' OR 'BROTHER' WITH OUT THEIR PREMISSION IT CAN BE TAKEN AS AN OFFENSE....EDUCATION IS GOOD AT ALL TIMES. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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THANKS MY BEAUTIFUL SISTER...AS "I" HAVE DONE EVERY THING IN MY POWER OF CONTROL TO HELP TRY TO BRING SOME FORM OF LOGIC INTO THESE EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS OF LATE ON THE SITE AND SO FAR HAS BEEN IGNORED ...I AM AT PEACE...
AND, AS MY GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS SAID, "WHEN YOU HAVE DONE THE BEST YOU CAN DO SAY ,WELL DONE" (SMILE)
AGAIN THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR STOPPING BY. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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wHAT A GREAT MORNING THIS IS,
It is so wonderful to start my day reading comments from both you and MIISRAEL...
well good and bad because "I" know this site will still be posting blogs with themes of "WHY CAN'T BLACKS UNITE/ GET ALONG"?!?...
how can we unite when those asking these kinds of questions because they run from situations where we are united...but "I" am one who has faith that Marguerite has taugh a few people that when it comes to putting a stop to abusing CHRISTIANITY, BLACK UNITY, IS ACTUALLY SOMETHING THAT WILL NOT STAND...ITNEVER HAS AND NEVER WILL BECAUSE THE MUSLIMS, CHRISTIANS, BUDDHIST, WHITE AND BLACK PEOPLE ON THIS SITE WILL DEFEAT THOSE KINDS OF DEVILS ONCE AGAIN...
THEREFORE TAKE YOU BLACKS CAN NOT GET ALONG TO YOUR NEST STOP ALONG YOUR PATH IN TIS LIFE...YES WE CAN. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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I do love these kinds of TEACHING MOMENTS example,
M.B. is not one to try to use / abuse with a weapon of 'small mindedness! (otfl) (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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Thanks for coming and showing this site why their bull has cause so many like you to just leave...and again thanks for the help you gave me with my Christian prejudices. Lov you so much.
OH WELL WE DO HAVE HARRY AND JAMLA TO KEEP THE HITS COMING LOL (SMILE)
ME "I" WOULD LOVE A RETURN TO THE GOOD OLD DAYS OF THIS SITE. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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mY SISTA, SO GOOD TO SEE YOU...the last time I saw you you were saying this...
but, you were wrong as this site has gotten much, much worst...
so far this is the only site of them that is in this shape...
SO GOOD TO SEE YOU. (SMILE)
(by the way I have not seen Harry for a few days...but I am sure he is going to stay away from your blog...he may just do his thing a post one about how you mistreat him though) (otfl) (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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FIRE BALL BUBBLE S-T-I-N-G-E-R-S (I THINKK FASTER THEN I CAN TYPE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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...OOPS FIREBALL STINGER BUBBLES, BECAUSE WE ALSO CALL HER BUSY BEE AND HONEY BEE. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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CYNTHIA...M.B. IS MOTHER GODDESS WITH FIRE BALL BUBBLES. (OTFLMAO) SO YOU WILL HAVE TO EXPLAIN TO M.B. WHAT I AM TALING ABOUT YOUR SELF CYNTHIA(SMILE0
@ M.B. WE CALL CYNTHIA DOC. (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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Thank You for your Courage ?
'.......It's really not that hard ....... to bring negativity, ignorance and drama to a forum...Just go on about your business of blogging, delete as one may and just keep it positive and moving right along.
IT'S REALLY NOT THAT HARD!! ......"
------- And you are the judge of the positive and negative in the world?
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BUT
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