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Good day, BIA readers! Happy Monday to you all! Today, the topic of discussion is one that many of us can relate to — crossing the boundaries of friendship and giving into curious, s*xual temptation. Being that the lapse of judgment, whether it be once, twice or many times, it’s with a “friend,” so you always have that friendship to fall back on should the romance fizzle or if one of you moves on, right? But the reality of the situation is, it’s never the clean break that’s pictured once the romance jumps off. Why? It’s simple, because things get too complicated! Someone catches feelings but because the lines of communication are now fuzzy, honesty is out the window. Since we’ve touched on communication, that gets sketchy also because it’s difficult to decipher if it’s okay to call or text after the boundary has been crossed. Everything gets foggy and blurry to a point where someone gets exhausted and taps out — forever making the friendship awkward, if it can be salvaged at all. Then, there’s the friends with benefits situation where you both get comfortable with each other, your “benefits” package has been going years strong and then you have an assumed, unspoken commitment — but not really! Because if one should move on you can’t get mad because you’re “just friends!” In rare cases, theses situations turn into beautiful fulfilling relationships but is romance or s*xual fulfillment worth the risk of losing a friend or worse . . . wasting your time? I asked our BIA readers what you have to say about this? Saint Jake
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Monday, October 11th 2010 at 7:21PM
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if i was single i would want the whole package !
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 7:49PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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you can find real live in a friend like this its called ''down by law'' !
when i was a teen i would tell my girl that i needed her to meet my friend
and try to kick it ! if you know what i mean !
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 7:53PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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Personally... it's ok for those who chose it.... BUT let me say it like this... what benefits a few hours of great intense s*x, if that...
no committment... no opportunity for growth (getting to really know the person you are sharing ((ones body which is a temple.. STD's )) .. I find it a waste of time and
a sign of no self worth... for oneself....
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 7:55PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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thanks D.... I agree... sharing that part of myself is a benefit... i share with the man Im into..
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 7:56PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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A WOMAN WILL ACT LIKE SHE DONT WANT IT BUT IF THE MAN PLAYING INSIDE OUT SHE WILL GIVE IT UP ,,AND IF IT ENDS SHE WILL TRY TO GO BACK TO FRIENDSHIP ! I PLAYED THAT GAME ! LETS BE FRIENDS ,,TODAY ,,TOMORROW I NED LOVE !,
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:19PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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Jake... no way.... as aggressive as I am.... I am not getting into the giving up the goods without a COMMITTMENT.... that's why I can sing D-I-V-O-R-C-E str8 down to the court room and the bank!
If that's all a woman is looking for ((selling herself short)) then go for it... but not only will she loose the man.... her goods... her self worth... but also the man
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:25PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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I work with men (friends with some).... in a trucking company... Only sista on the yard... I get offers...
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:26PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Men and women can't be just friends when s*x is involved... just my opinion.
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:29PM
Jen Fad
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but why jeopradize the friendship.... and as Big Mann Says... the job (omg!!... unpleasant/uncomfortable).... wrong .... wrong... wrong...
and why should women.... just give up the nookie... like that... forget that!!!
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:29PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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thanks Sista... Juicy!!! NO... NO... NO... it only serves as a benefit to you men
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:30PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Ladies are listening to Steve Harvey you know.... He says no nookie sharing... without... committment..... come on guys.... Jake where is your better half..... Is she reading this??? Sista Friend.... Jake needs a spankin'
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:32PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Jake... and I wished you a happy birthday.... just wait until I get up there.... Jen hopefully in February... Im coming home to New York!!!
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:34PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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I had a situation happen where I was invited to a church by this "hot looking" guy from my gym. Of course I went to his church and soon after that we were intimate. I tried to pretend that we were still just friends, but my heart was saying something else. Although we never discussed a r/ship, I felt in my heart that he was mine and when I would see him talking to other women I "felt" betrayed. Call me crazy, but hey this is why I don't think the friends w/ benefits works (especially for me). Still my two cents....
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:35PM
Jen Fad
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the PBS special God In America is coming on tonight... I need you guys to tune in... Ive gotta watch it for my Philosophy Class ... we're on Religion, Intelligent Design and Evolution....
oh and back to this hur blog... Intelligent Design... I have knowledge enuff to know not to share my NOOKIE
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:36PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Jen... I feel you... girl I went through the same thing... and yes he and I worked for the same company.... It had been 5 years since my divorce and I wasn't looking for anything serious... so being that he was a hardworking brotha.. and Iets say... bad mistake
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:39PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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CYNTHIA SIS A MAN GOT TO MARRY YOU FIRST ? OR JUST LET IT BE KNOWN THAT YOUR HIS WOMAN BEFORE THE ANYTHING GOES DOWN ,,HE ALSO NEEDS TO KNOW YOU GOT A 6,,3 250 LB CRAZY MARINE BROTHER ON STAND BY ! LOL
BUT REALL Y WHAT IF YOU DATE A GUY AND ITS ALL GOOD AND MAKE THE COMMITMENT AND HE /SHE IS BAD IN BED ! OUCH ,,,
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 8:45PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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Jake... it's all good... Im just playing...
Big Bro... I never said that I wasn't going to test drive the ride...
I'm just not into the non-comminttment... relationships.... for one... Im too old for it...
Number too... I have sons.... and lastly... I know that I am a good woman well worth it... I want it all or nothing
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 10:32PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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saint you got jack ,,,,you better leave them fatal attraction girls alone
and them gold diggers is realizing there is a rescission lol
people coming up missing int the riverfront
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 10:44PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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ya got names test drive the ride
pump the brakes ,,,,
damn ,,,,
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 10:46PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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SHE IS RIGHT HERE
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 11:26PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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MY BABY KNOWS I AM ALL HERS ,,,,
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 11:27PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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WE ARE WATCHING THE FOOTBALL GAME JETS AND VIKS
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 11:28PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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ANOTHER WORD ,,TOUCHDOWN ,,,,FAVRE 500 NFL TD'S !
Monday, October 11th 2010 at 11:52PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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My brother, I have shared this many times and will share it again. The only way this can work for you is to make sure that black women demand that black men learn to respect black women and their families. Black women will also have to re-learn that do not have babies out of wedlock-it has to be a joint venue with an ideal that you are making sure you and he understand that if we do not do this, we are dooming us. Make sure that the one you choose has character, is from a home where there is a strong black male, is educated, respects you fully and understands that this black male is grounded in what truly is important-education, respect and friendship!!!
You will notice I omitted love. That comes with time. You will notice that I place the onus upon the black female because She has to make the choice, She has to agree with the marriage, She must decide what will happen. She has to decide if this is the correct choice, She is the one that has to decide that marriage does not make good unions-good people have to make the union good.The husband and wife have to be VERY close friends as well. THIS HAS ALWAYS WORKED FOR ANY COUPLE THAT HAS THOUGHT ABOUT BEING TOGETHER FOR LIFE!!!
This quote is from the former leader of the NOI, Detroit Red (aka Brother Malcolm)!!!
Tuesday, October 12th 2010 at 5:08PM
Siebra Muhammad
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I agree. The key to a good relationship is basic knowledge and the ability to ask questions...LOTS OF THEM!!!
If I knew then what I know now...
Tuesday, October 12th 2010 at 5:55PM
Siebra Muhammad
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Saint, I had to search to find this. LOL Anywho, I've never been one to consign to the " Friends with Bennies" nonsense. All the talking in the world does not change the fact that when two people lay and play, everyone comes up with feelings. I'm not build for giving up one of my most precious to some man (friend or not) and that is all it is. Trust, if he is getting some of my greatness as we use to say as children " We go together" because once you cross that line, there is no going backwards and people are no longer just friends anymore. Feelings do become a part of the situation and no matter how much people try to tell themselves that don't want anything more than what is going on, it never ends that way and the friendship is never the same.
Thursday, October 14th 2010 at 9:41PM
Marquerite Burgess
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Marquerite ;
some people might not want that attachment but might say or do what it takes to get some of that greatness everyone has to take a risk of getting hurt /played ! there are people that just want that s*xual need fulfilled and can move on like its nothing
friends with benefits<<<<
Friday, October 15th 2010 at 1:26AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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@ Saint, Exactly and no they don't. @ David, I know the game, played the game and been played by the game. All in all, I do what a lot of women don't do. I pay attention to what comes out of a man's mouth and if she really listened to what he says and not what she thinks he is saying, then she'll learn exactly where his mind is, what his focus is on and the type of involvement he really wants with her. Trust and believe my father, brothers and nephews have taught me very well, in addition to life experiences and the wisdom obtained from it all.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 1:18AM
Marquerite Burgess
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@ Sister Marquerite
A man's mind is always in the gutter when he sees a pretty woman so a woman should never think twice about that. My advise is to tell young girls to keep their skirt tails down and their legs shut. End of story. No one gets hurt like that. I lost a boyfriend in highschool by taking my granny's advice. I "is" married now.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 4:03PM
Jen Fad
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like Madea says.... puttin out will only get u dinter and a movie..... Holdin out gets u so much more...And if your friend is truly your friend..... you shouldnt cross the line
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 4:09PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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@ Saint
Than't where you got it wrong. We (women) ain't pieces of meat like at an all you can eat buffet. The best cuts of meat are not cheap so that's why I like going to the Red Losbster or Steak House to eat. I might not get all I can eat, but I eat the best! You can take that check to the bank and cash it~~ now I'm talking trash! You betta ask somebody you heard me...
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 4:41PM
Jen Fad
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SAINT
WHEN A REAL PLAYER SET HIS TRAP
the first thing he is going to do is take a woman out her element by
going to a nice place to eat and let her see the finer things in life
and if she is worth it (looks good ) she might get to roll to a few hot spots
in the city but keep in mind she might be gold digging and he might be playing
the game is to be sold and not told so
i need a credit card number before i spit the rest of this game !
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 6:32PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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this is for free !!
always let a woman feel like she is the only one for you
train her how to give a good massage so when your together
she cant keep her hands off you !
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 6:38PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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I give great massages.... so....
Saint no that not gold diggin.... A Gold Digger is after a specific man (( with the finances)) Im talking about men and relationships in general... And let me not forget there are some brothers out there looking to be "kept" as well. It comes down to morals and common sense when it comes to given up the cookie.... Everybody only has one!
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 9:03PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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@ Jen, I have to respectfully disagree with you on that. It all depends on where a man is in his life and the same for women. There are some women that will look at a man and wonder what he maybe like in the bedroom. Yes, men will look at the skirt, but it is more than what's under the skirt that keeps a man's attention. @ Saint, I have always been the type of woman that gives the real sometimes it too blunt for some, but I am who and how I am and have always been that way. I cut no shorts or corners and what you see is what you get with me. I look at the quality of the character of a man, because at the end of the day that is what a person is truly dealing with. I don't just look at how he treats him mother, but how she treats him. @ David, people in general want to feel special, like they are the only one and no one else can make them feel the way that one person can. I'm not talking about s*xually either. I've never be impressed by material things or a man's money was not raised that way.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 9:04PM
Marquerite Burgess
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I see a typo, that should say " I've never been impressed by material things or a man's money. Was not raised that way.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 9:23PM
Marquerite Burgess
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MARQUERUITE
IM FEELING YOU and its good to see your a strong black sister and holding it down
stay strong ,,,,,
but there are some sisters that will try to play up on a happy meal or a trip to chucky cheese
thinking that they are smashing for there ration looking for a mark to come up on !
and there are men that want to be played just to have s*x ,,there are some hip squares out there and
will play the role to get what they want and in the end there is no strings attached !
now for those that are looking for love then its the dating game meet match love !
love is not for everybody it depends on what you want ! (that will be $20 charged to your account i cant keep giving you this game for free )
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 9:34PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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the real name of this is called kiss and dont tell
saint how many girls you have talk to just to see how far you can go ,,
and when they get all hot and bothered you step like its a fire in the building
run to the fellas and clown ! or made a bet that you can get da girl !
one thing about my sisters............... i love it when you say no ................5 min later you say ''no dont stop'' ! lol
yes we played these games when i was young im just looking back !
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 9:45PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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here is the topic i got going on facebook right now
question to fb ,,,if you are single and go to church is it cool for someone to flirt and try to get a date while in church ? male/female yes /no what do you say ? they are all up in dar lol
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 10:03PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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@ Saint, I'm a Pisces and true to being me all day everyday and everyone that knows me, will tell you the same. @ David, thank you and yes there are some females just like that and then some. Unfortunately, what happens is a great brother's path crosses with too many females like that and by the time his path my cross mine, he is so jaded and assumes that all women are like the ones he decided to deal with, was taken for granted by and will look all the great women that are not like those. Hence, another reason so many really great men and women are still single. Full Grown Mature Women that know their worth, who they are, what they are about, what type of man they need in their lives does not look at a man's wallet.
As to your question, while the sermon is going on NO, lol. It does not matter where people meet, finding interest in someone does not stop at the church doors, but they should at least wait until they're outside and leaving before approaching someone about wanting to get to know them better. Sometimes, it is the older women in the church that may let a woman know that one of the men in the church is interesting in getting to know her better and what type of man he is.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 10:47PM
Marquerite Burgess
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Geez, I see another typo. Must be time for me to go to bed. Anywho, that should say " will look pass all the great women that are not like those".
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 10:54PM
Marquerite Burgess
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MARQUERITE
THAT DESERVES two high fives a chest pump ! Some people want to just play and have fun but i see your not a player type so you keep your man in a chock hold and he knows not to step over the line or else he is toasted... would you do like MJB and let him have it in public ? or when you walk him,,, he already knows how to sit and roll over ,,,,how do you feel if he looks at another woman while with you ?
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 11:02PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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@ David, lol at the chest bump. No I'm not the player type at all, but I love to enjoy the company of my man we can have all types of fun with each other. Laughing, joking and just being silly sometimes. Growing up and maturing does not mean one can have fun. I communicate what I deem inappropriate and respect what a man deems inappropriate. Yes, I'm a strong black woman that also knows it does not make we weak by having a strong black man do what he is suppose to do and that is be the man, the head of the home who knows that if he crosses the wrong line, yes he is toast. I don't think it's lady like to argue with a man in public like that, we can handle that at home. It's human nature to look at people when you're out and about, especially at the opposite s*x and if they're what one may consider nice looking it's normal. Being in a relationship and/or married does not mean a person become Stevie Wonder all of a sudden. Besides, there is a big difference between looking, staring and gawking with drool. @ Saint, lol on the typos and spell check. It is just a pet peeve of mine.
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 11:37PM
Marquerite Burgess
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I'm too dayum strong... men find it as a problem... too outspoken... too independent... too aggressive... oh well
Saturday, October 16th 2010 at 11:43PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Cynthia, a full grown mature man will not have a problem with it. Now as to the too independent part, no man wants to know that he is not needed in his woman's life. It's a difference, no a woman does not need a man to define her woman hood. I know for fact that I'm stronger than a whole lot of men, but I also know the strength of a full grown mature man. It's in his ways, words and actions. The type of strength that in the mist of a disagreement you will know when to just shut the hell up, not because he may put hands on you (only a punk would do some crap like that) but because you just know who wears the pants and you enjoy wearing the skirt and your stilettos. @ Saint, I will not sit by and let some man disrespect me with my permission. What some women does seem to understand is that they tolerate things from men that a man would never stand for from a woman. Therefore, I hold a man to the same standards that men hold women when it comes to committed relationships and marriages.
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:03AM
Marquerite Burgess
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i missed all this ..i was on facebook and they are going off i ask them is it ok to flirt in church,,,,,, and they went in seems like everyone is on line tonight !
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:14AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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cynthia
there is nothing wrong with you and all that
hell sounds like you just need to up your game and snatch someone thats just as strong
my wife is a strong woman and believe me she is stacked and fine got a body like trina and a brain like computer at the age of 47 she works out and run one of the businesses but knows how to be a real woman and will go off with out cussing you out
she know how to do her thing i say all this to say i know what a strong black woman is i got one !
remember we was talking about those shoes
she got the legs to wear them 6-7 inches high !
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:26AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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I gottcha Sista... I've met some no so full grown mature men. I don't have a problem with a man who knows how to act, think and do as a man... I'll always need the "real" man... but no way will I hook up with a brotha who doesn't have a clue.... As for Independence... I just am confident that I can do my thang... handle my own.... and Im strong enuff to handle the home front.... if ever my partner was in a situation.... he can rest assure... I got a hold on it
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:27AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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wow!!! I haven't tried on any that high.... If I wore a pair like that.... those old wolves I work around.... couldn't handle it....
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:28AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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jake not the jet blue tonight ! lol
cynthia look out he might have a good point there ! and some hand cuffs !
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:29AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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well I too have the hand cuffs... blind folds... you name it
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:30AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Saint.... Baby Bro.... If you take a flight down here.... and get a wiff of me and my splendor.... I'd have your lil young behind sprung.... ((wink))
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:32AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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SOMEBODY going to the cyber jail tonight ! lmbo
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:52AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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it might be ONE of these people on facebook i ask them a question and ill ask you guys the same
DO WE NEED A DRESS CODE IN CHURCH ?
SOME OF THE LADIES LOOK LIKE STRIPPERS
THE DRESSES IDS TOO SHORT OR TOO TIGHT
WHAT DO YALL THINK ??
YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEEPEN DEACONS IN THE CHURCH !
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 12:58AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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Cynthia, I know what you mean about handling your handle. I've been handling mine since I was 14. If you have not done so, read through some of the blogs I have posted quite some time ago. @ Saint, My parents (daddy is 93 and mommy is late 70's) have been married for well over 38 yrs and still act like high school teenagers in love with each other. As to your ?. A relationship is a partnership, ebb and flow it's not about keeping a check list on who does what. I have no issues with spending my money at times, I don't really do the club thing and I have no issues with buying just because things. I say this, can a man love me to the same depths if we had to live in a cardboard box as he would if we were living in a 4 bedroom house.
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 1:01AM
Marquerite Burgess
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MARQUERITE
THAT IS SUCH A BLESSING TO HAVE YOUR PARENT KICKING IT LIKE THAT AND I LOVE THE FACT THAT YOU DONT PUT A value on the relationship love is love good or bad some people put a $ sign on everything and cant stand each other but stay for the money or they dont want to be alone so they take anything thats thrown at them ! good comment maybe someone will read all this and wake up ,,,now i know why i requested you friendship like lil sis CYNTHIA YALL KEEPS IT REAL ! LOL
SAINT SEE YOU T MORROW
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 1:34AM
DAVID JOHNSON
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David I know the scriptures say come as you are.... But I believe anything one wears that tends to get attention and is a distraction for the congregation should not be worn at church....
Plus I hace those old chrisitan southern up bringing.... Women don't wear pants/jeans to church...
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 2:19AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
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Interesting conversation.
Clearly, men have a very different approach to this subject than women do.
And clearly, it is a dangerous occupation--to talk about and to participate in.
Some things are better kept private. What two people want to do behind closed doors is their own business--as long as innocent people (like others in a relationship or children of one of the partcipants) don't get hurt.
Having said that...when you play with fire, don't be surprised if you get burned.
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 11:39AM
Richard Kigel
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hay rich
are you married or are you a old player trying to spit game ?
sound like a og player to me ...
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 1:26PM
DAVID JOHNSON
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@ Saint, I'm an modern woman with old fashion values. What I see in today's young men and women is disheartening to say the least. This new age thinking is destroying and driving a major wedge between male and female relationships. @ Rich, of course men have a different approach. WHY? From the time a male child is born he is basically conditioned to separate his emotions, not display his emotions or anything else that has to do with him acknowledging that he is human and not a cold-hearted robot. If he falls, it's usually addressed with " Stop Crying, suck it up ,be a man, men don't cry that is what girls do and my all time favorite. Stop acting like a girl" things of that nature.
Sunday, October 17th 2010 at 2:19PM
Marquerite Burgess
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Saint, let me take a wild guess...you are not and have never been the parent of a child between the age of say 10 years old and 21 now have you?!? lol (smile)
One has never lived who have not had one child at this age much less more than one...(smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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Please dON'T GET ME WORNG SAINT, i AM NOT ONE WHO BELIEVES THE s*x IS ONLY TO BE AMONGE MARRIED PEOPLE TO HAVE CHILDREN...I STICK WITH IT IS HUMAN NATURE...JUST BE FULLY AWARE TAHT BENEFITS COME IN DIFFERENT PACKAGES SOME Good SOME BAD, EXAMPLE...angry / deadly HUSBANDS AND WIVES, AIDES, AND HAS ANY SEEN THE MOVIE "fatal attraction and the many copys of this original film...just always be careful...o.k. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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Saint you know my take on you are the only expert on yourownself...it is much like I wanted to comment on david's blog on s*x and money, but i did not because my answer on that mattere is it all depends...woh decided for these two people to marry in teh first place, them or someone else...me, I am the typeof person if I was out for themoney then I would have sense enough toknow there is always a balance to every thing...me, if I wanted to have one, none, more than one s*x partener then only I can dictate this...
but if someone is the one who dictates your life then you are going to stay stuck so just be happy with it...or get the hell out of it and be happy ...lol (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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QUESTION...WHY DO PEOPLE WANT TO HAVE s*x IN THE FIRST PLACE...AND WHY DO WE NEVER EVEN TALK ABOUT THIS AT ALL...LOVE, CHILDREN ECT. IN HUMANS DON'T REALLY MATTER...REMEMBER MOST IN THE 'ANIMAL' WORLD WHICH WE ARE A PART OF ONLY HAVE s*x IN SEASON AND WE WANT TO HAVE s*x AT ANY TIME OF DAY OR NIGHT ...
EVER LOOK AT THIS AS IT IS ALL HAVING TO DO MORE WITH SOMETING TAHT IS ACTUALLY N-A-T-U-R-A-L...THAT WE ARE TRYING TO SOUCALIZE AND EVEN LEGALIZE...?!? (SMILE)
"NOT TONIGHT I HAVE A HEADACHE". LOL ...MORE ACTIVE DURING THE YOUNG AGES WHEN THE EGGS ARE FRESH...
i SURE AM NOT FUN AM i BUT AS i AM PAST THE CHILD BEARING AGE...i HAVE NONE OF THESE HANG UP...AND BY THE WAY I NEVER HAVE HAD THEM...I AM A FREE SPIRIT AND I MAKE MY OWN RULES. (OTFLMAO) (SMILE)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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i am only joking with Saint and I wish him all of the luck in the world. but as a friend girl likes to say, "those girls you fool around with I would not f_them with your d__.lol...
Me I am very, very choicey where I expose my body and it is not any nad every where., because it is the only one I have.lol(smile)
you are young yet Saint have fun and be care free . "K". (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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@david, that is funny, have fun Saint, better hid the computer from your lady friend righ tnow. over confidence will get you every time...remember Tiger woods and he has $$$$$$$$millions did not good against th wrath of a female now did it?lol (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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