High school is still a great transition period for students. They are trying to uncover who they will be in the future. High school students need special attention too. Parents benefit when they take time to study their high school student’s ups and downs. You should take time to get to know things that make them light up with interest. It’s great when you notice what gets them excited and ask open ended question. An example of an open ended question is, what do you know about using Facebook. An open ended question will get your student describing what they know. Take the time to talk about their future plans. It’s funny how high school students are surprised by how much you know.
One of the best ways to get the attention of a student is recognizing their accomplishments. Show up at events where they will be acknowledged no matter how small or big. Even if you student thinks it’s not necessary for you to show up its good to attend there event. Your high school student still wants to know that you care. They will look for you in the audience when they see all of the other parents are attending. Here are ten more things:
1. Take time to allow your student to teach you something that you do not know
2. Take your student to an event that is involves their potential career
3. Involve your student in organizations that promote leadership and success outside
4. of school hours
5. Engage your student in clubs at the high school
6. Visit another city and go on a tour
7. Practice using words that are positive
8. Brainstorm a plan for success in high school
9. Discuss how you can help your student intends to get the best grades in all
courses
10. Don’t give up even when communication is difficult
11. Look for free cultural events that you can attend
The four years in high school will go by faster than what you think. There are so many things to do but you can benefit most from observing your student. Talk about the benefits of writing down goals and implementing them. Talk about the many fun things that you have experienced in your own life. Remember that sometimes it’s hard for a student to imagine you in high school. The instruction methods have changed over time. It’s important to be aware of the changes. To keep your student motivated offer advice in small chunks. Watch your student have success then offer more advice.
Finally, take time to get alone with your student one on one by putting it into your schedule. Plan a time to eat together during the week. It helps to foster great communication and motivation when you offer good advice. Take the time to let your high school student know that you are available.
Dr. Stephen Jones is an educator, keynote speaker and author. He has written the Seven Secrets of How to Study, The Parent’s Ultimate Education Guide and the Ultimate Scholarship Guide. Visit him at
http://www.studyskills2u.com.
Posted By: Stephen Jones
Wednesday, October 24th 2012 at 5:21PM
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