I filed an appeal concerning my child support case with the New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division. I have complained verbally and in writing about the enormous amount of money that I was Court Ordered to pay for child support from day one. (April 23, 2001) I was required to send the documentation and case information statement to my ex-wife so she could respond back to the court and also to me. Here are her exact words back to the court. "It appears one reason he is attempting to go back that far is to denigrate Judge ____ _______'s reputation."
Apparently my ex-wife has long since forgotten about the time frame in 2003 when I was forced to pay her $1,650 per month for child support. After 30 days of work, she deposited $5,580 into her banking account. I only brought home $752 for the entire month. I'd consider that to be paltry wages for a licensed financial professional working in a telephone call center. The money was garnished directly from my paychecks through my employer.
I placed the blame on the Superior Court Judge who initially set my child support @ $285 per week. ($1,225 per month) But according to my ex-wife my purpose for filing the appeal is to denigrate that Judge's reputation. I guess it has nothing to do with the fact that my ex-wife fraudulently received about $57,000 more for child support through the state of New Jersey than she legally was entitled to over a period of 10 years.
I also included a personal check written out to me with her endorsement and hand writing on the reverse side that she had illegally cashed. I included another document with her signature and date attempting to remove me as the primary beneficiary of her retirement plan while we were still married.
Here are more responses from my ex-wife. "My ex-spouse is completely unreasonable to the point of obsession with this case. He obsesses over issues that occurred years ago. I no longer remember such issues."
It sure says a lot for her credibility. She no longer remembers cashing MY personal check for $373 or signing a request for change of beneficiary form even though she now has possession of these documents.
Keep in mind this same woman was Court Ordered effective September 1, 2008 to pay me child support because I now have custody of our son. It is coming up on three years and she is in arrears of over $16,000 in another state where she had relocated in July 2004. She still defiantly refuses to pay me the money even though she could write a personal check for the $16,000. She makes well over $120,000 per year in salary and bonuses and has amassed several hundred thousand in various retirement plans.
While she resided in New Jersey, she did as she pleased despite Court Orders. Hopefully in her current state of domicile this will be considered Contempt of Court. Why would anyone risk the possibility of court sanctions when they already have that money stashed away in a bank account is beyond me? I already have a copy of a letter written by her attorney in May 2011 acknowledging that the $16,000 in child support arrears is the correct amount still unpaid and over due.
We have now been separated for over 10 1/2 years. Despite a Restraining Order in place, she continues to bombard me with hateful e-mails and voice mail messages. In September 2009 when my younger brother passed away she called and left me a very heinous message on my home phone on the day of his funeral. She said, "Abe .......... you reap what you sow....... and you might be next!"
This week, I received five e-mails and two voice mails from her. A few threatened to take me back to court. I'll be sure to bring a recording of the message that she left when my younger brother passed away. Its saved on my voice mail message archives. My ex-wife had always been on good terms with my brother. Why she would call and leave me a such a derogatory message like that during my time of grief and sorrow, I'll never know.
She has a great professional career, a nice big home, a nice car and is financially set for the rest of her life. Why she can't stop the harassment and move on with her life is a mystery to me.
(to be continued........)
Posted By: Abe Morris
Saturday, July 9th 2011 at 4:55AM
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