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POWER & the FE-MALE (1408 hits)

I’m going to remind you of something that is very uncomfortable to you but it is very true and very real. Man was created by God to be ‘the head’ and Woman was made to be ‘his help meat (also meet). The interesting factor is that over the centuries ‘the man’ hasn’t even come close of being what God has created and ordained ‘him’ to be. The other interesting factor is that ‘the woman’ in small/medium/large part hasn’t quite done her job (properly) neither. I do want to add the fact that ‘the woman’ is much more than ‘a help meat (meet).

Each of us have an awesome responsibility, given to us by God, but doesn’t have the full understanding of that responsibility. Remember that when God gives you a responsibility and or a ‘gift’ you’re not to just receive it but also position ourselves to ‘give it’ for the betterment of others.

As I speak to you I do so in a unique tone but with a multiplicity of over-tones.

So I raise the following question to you: What is the real and only difference between a MALE and a FE-MALE? Perhaps the answer is implied in the following definition.

FE=Iron
•iron: a heavy ductile magnetic metallic element; is silver-white in pure form but readily rusts; used in construction and tools and armament ...

•Iron is a chemical element with the symbol Fe (ferrum) and atomic number 26. Iron is a group 8 and period 4 element. Iron is a lustrous, silvery soft metal. It is one of the few ferromagnetic elements.

•The Fe rune (Old Norse '; Old English ') represents the f-sound. It is the first letter of the Futhark alphabet. Its name means "(mobile) wealth"

Notice the term(s) ‘pure’, ‘used in construction’, ‘lustrous’, ‘soft metal’, ‘(mobile) wealth’.
•Pure and untouched
•Construction or constructive & creative
•Lustrous which means awesomely beautiful
•Soft (not hard) yet very strong
•(Mobile=movement, on the go…) wealth (priceless…cannot be bought, paid for or paid off)

The job of ‘the man’…the ’male’, as the head, is to provide all that is needed and necessary for ‘the woman’…’the fe-male’ to be who God designed her to be and to carry out the God ordained orders given to her.

As men we are to get connected and stay connected to the woman, the ‘fe-male’. In her we find the power uniquely ordained by the Lord for all of humanity.
She is uniquely designed, only by God, to be what she is and who she is.

Remember though (fe-males) this power is not your power, it is the power of God.

As you submit to the Lord (your total being) you then are empowered to empower those in need.

This conversation is not about ‘husband & wife’, ‘mutual lovers’, nor ‘dating partners’ but more so it is about ‘man & woman’, ‘the male and the female’.

The empowerment takes place when the male and the female are connected.

Woman (mother…sister…friend…the last to be created….) you are much more than what is expected of you. You are much more than what you’ve been given credit for. You have been authorized ‘to BE’ so walk in your authority.

Man walk as the HEAD that you are. Be the leader, partner, head, father, brother, friend that the Lord has ordered and authorized you to be.

Let us get connected and stay connected, whether times are good or bad, whether we’re happy or sad.

Continual connection assures a continuum of empowerment.

Stay connected and do stay blessed.

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Hello Doc and what a power blog indeed! Thanks again.
Tuesday, December 2nd 2008 at 3:30PM
Jen Fad
Greetings Brother West.
In reading your blog. The supposition of man being the Head of the house hold is based on a cultural dogma and mans physical nature. In the animal kingdom the male is dominant over the female. To use religion as a tool to drive your belief home creates greater division between the counter balance of ourselves. And to use the Norse translation of words for African people is to commingle philosophical differences between apples and oranges. Why not welcome in the Gods Odin or Thor as a foundation of ones belief system as well. One might find European women at their time of European Gods being worshipped, in a submissive and subservient position as well.
The Head of a house hold equates to Leadership and historically that function is not relegated to any paternal ideology. If that were the case, we as a human race would have been extinct millions of years ago. The laws of the universe dictates that we can not have one thing without the other. Yes, there are principles of power, and historically men have taken that power by virtue of the fact that we are physically stronger.
Sadly, Men who dictate the edicts of a religion, foster their own egocentric beliefs and ideas of what a God wants, because of our own insecurities in life.
We must praise our women as the Goddesses they are, just as we should expect praised as Gods within us as men. Thus is the true balance in life and part of our reason for being here.
Peace
Tuesday, December 2nd 2008 at 5:46PM
Dr. Okpara Nosakhere
Very interesting post. I do understand that some women do need to learn how to be a woman and stand in her position as God has called her to stand. I do thank you for the encouraging words however in most churches, most of the congregation are women. Women are workers in the church, and of course most of them are single and single with child (ren). Our strength comes from the lack of partnership. When you do not have anyone around to help you out, you become not only the help-meet, but you become the help. I agree with Tracye regarding men humbling themselves unto the Lord. Sometimes we just have to realize that there is only one true and real head of household, whom is also head of the church.
Tuesday, December 2nd 2008 at 9:18PM
Cheryl Hendrix
I grew up in a house where my grandfather went to work and was the major bread winner, my grandmother worked a little not much at all. She really didn't have to work at all, but she it was her contribution. She also kept the house, made sure all bills were paid, my grandfather's clothes were clean, he had his beer in the refrigerator, had a little pocket money, etc. When he got paid he brought her the check, she took care of the rest. He slept with a gun under his pillow until the day he died. He was one of the most wonderful men I have every known. I have yet to find a man like him! Are there any left????
Wednesday, December 3rd 2008 at 11:28AM
Janice Tuggle
My suggestion at this point, is for everyone to go back and re-read what the two Brothers,Okpara and Gary was trying to enlighten and convey.
Understanding of self, who you are, and what role you partake or should partake as Original People of the Universe.
We have been sadly mistaken,misled and confused.
The religion ,that WAS GIVEN TO US, is and was misrepresented.
Knowledge is ,and always has been.... powerful and will set us free.
We need to stop being fearful of the truth.
Peace.
Wednesday, December 3rd 2008 at 11:40AM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
Am I mistaken about this idea, no the FACT that the female gives birth to both male and female and feed each with her brest milk. Or has the male taken over this rolel I am sure that even the Holy Bible will not touch this as an un truth...The African decendants after being awy from Africa all of the hundreds of years can still no digest cow milk. Our body has not had time to mutate to drein milk with lots of pain,

Every member in my family has a reason to be there to make the family run perfect as every one has a place, a purpose, and a job to do to cause the family to be a well ordered united in love and respect for each other and the elders that raised us are the "head" of the house which is the "oldest member of the family!!!

Works perfect fro us. We all have out side jobes but home is a different lrder, rules, etc. as family is never changing. It just gets larger with Birth and smaller with sickness and death.
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
I believe the best way to handle this post is to treat others as we ourselves want to be treated...with respect and dignity and kindness that comes with a smile and a big warm, friendly hug and a hello.

Forget the head of house part if you are home relaxing with your family as they are equal as your loved ones...It Is a new day!!!!!!!Enjoy!!!!!!!
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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