Should have kept the secret a secret. I Should have let a woman whose head is being bashed into a wall right now suffer silently- not voice her pain.
Should have let all of "our boys" off the hook, should have not defended my sisters whatever color they are, or culture they belong to.
Should have joined the legions of other women who want to keep this undercover.
Should have defended every broken down, pitiful male that "can't handle his emotions,
but can handle a Glock.
Shouldn't have spoken up for the little angels who have to watch the frightening horrors, some staying by the side of a bleeding corpse at 2 and 3 years of age.
Should deny the love for our young children 11, and 12-year-old males whose moment in violence run the gamut of conflicting emotions--as to whether to defend their mothers or listen to her pleas to stay out of it and further confuse his mind (and soul.)
Should have enabled the brothers in abusing women, disrespecting their mothers and using women as a whipping boy.
Shouldn't have tried to explain, that violence is an emotional, psycho-chemical in balance.
Shouldn't have tried to educate and share my education in the area of physical abuse across all societies.
Should have LMAO at Rihanna like many and said yea **** you deserved it hahahahaha!
Shouldn't be surprised no one spoke in terms of "their own mothers" or "their own daughters"
in a clearly protective way.
Shouldn't be surprised that it's the victim's fault. It's her fault if she's hit, oh,but it's not "his" fault if he is hit-oh.
Shouldn't be surprised that women didn't stand beside me despite all that talk about unity.
But I am surprised at all the cry baby males, that came out of the woodwork.
However I am NOT surprised how little women think of themselves in the advancement of the survival of the species. Nor the qualitative and quantitative ego protecting mechanisms such as integrity, courage, honor and Self-worth, Self-actualization , Self -respect.
Less emphasis on butt size, weaves,and self satisfying pronouncements and more of the real big girl sense of self love based on courage is what appears to be missing. One can be strong, and still lack self-knowledge. So, ok you in your house do as you please, as for me in my house--nobody is getting abused.
Posted By: Marta Fernandez
Sunday, February 15th 2009 at 11:55AM
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