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[T.D. Faison vs Blogger on Equal Parental Rights for Father's...] It's funny to me that the 2 examples you've given is the same in the box thinking that is tearing our families apart. Those terms and laws don’t fit every situation. So what your telling me is that there's nothing to protect the father's who don’t believe in domestic violence and do pay there child support. Are you telling me that there shouldn't be...Come on...? With that type thinking has put a number of those same children (male) in prison from single parent homes. Regarding (women) without that father figure in their lives, have either ended up in a number of abusive relationships emotionally and physically. In that endless search for the male figure that's been snatched from their lives and in his place a check, rules and just being a sperm donor. All really not having the child's best interest at heart. Look it's a hard road to travel for a man that loves his child (ren). Maybe you should stop photocopying information to me and really know both sides of the struggle. Because again it took two to make these children not the government. I'm really sick and tired of society using a few examples to make precedence for law. What about the child who came from being unwanted by there dad and he grows up and vows never to ever let their child experience the hurt they felt. Then to have people like you and a system tell them you have no rights and if you want any you have to pay. Then after he pays to take her to court and if she decides not to honor the judgment, nothing happens to her. He has to pay again to take her back into court thousands of dollars just to again fight for something that you obviously feel that we as men don't even deserve. Which are equal rights to our children. You had to points earlier that you numbered. I seemed to have overlooked the number where you mention how the other two points really helps the child in learning "Family Values". Oh, yeah you never mentioned those words...

Posted By: T.D. Faison
Monday, March 9th 2009 at 8:39PM
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I am not sure if your the one going through this or if it is in response to anotehr person plight. What I find astounding is the fact that no one actually has paternity of their child until it is established by a court system. The same court system that once blood work or what ever method indicates who the child (ren) father is, then discusses custody be it shared or with the mother or father. The fact that a court system is the determing factor in any of this, considering it had nothing to do with process of making these children is the bigger issue. Unfortuntely, this is what appears to happen when people are not married and making babies. As to the rights part of it all, I know all states do not have the same laws in that area, but in New Jersey unless one of the parents actually sign over or relinquish their rights, it can't be just taking away. Even if one of the people end up incarcerated. The are a number of factors that can contribute to why someone can lose their custody of their children and their are many groups that help men fight for their parental rights. Each circumstance is different. As for nothing happening to a woman for not honoring a judgement, I can't speak in this case, but I have seen a many of judge come down hard on a woman for doing so. I say, as emotional of an issue this is, when dealing with it, it must be all business and all of the ducks must be in a row, documentation, documentation.
Tuesday, March 10th 2009 at 8:50AM
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