What up BIA FAMILY! What do you do when a chick is stalking you? I was seeing this girl for a while and at first, she seemed like a very intelligent likable woman. Shefs divorced with a child and Ifm single man, never been married, no kids. I should have went with my gut instincts about our age difference shefs 29 and Ifm well into my 30Œs and I always thought she was a little immature and needy. The red flags started to show up on facebook and thatfs when I really shouldfve known she was out there. Ifm a cameraman and I do a lot of work on music video sets and award shows and I post a lot of my work on my page. I purposely avoid putting anything personal on my page because I donft want everyone in my business. Well on every single picture I had up, she left a comment like goh baby youfre so amazingh or gI just love this picture of youh and gyoufre so talented.h Then she started riffing on my picture comments with one of my co-workers who happens to be a female! Ifve known her for years and shefs become a close friend of mine so her getting ugly with her was just stupid. Then she started calling me asking why I didnft pick up her calls the first time or text her and tell her that I was working. When Ifm in work mode, Ifm focused. Ifll get back to her but when Ifm done and I definitely donft need my phone blowing up on sets! Before things got any worse, I told her what was up and said I thought it would be best that a.) we take things a little slower and b.) she remove me from her friends list. She flipped out and called me all kinds of names and said that I was taking advantage of her and that she never wanted to see or speak to me again which was fine and I thought that was the end of it. But why is she driving past my place and hanging around my neighborhood when she lives on the other side of town? She even left a note on my car at Target saying that she noticed my car in the lot and wanted to gdrop a note.h This scares me a little because shefs a certified stalker. How do I stop this without aggravating the situation?
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Friday, October 15th 2010 at 8:12AM
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