ARE YOU REAL A MAN?
Every adult should take the responsibility in advising the young members of society on s*x and its place. I am reminded that there are those of us who are adults but wanting in ways of s*x. We should be reminded too or better still we should be taught where we are lacking. In responding to the discussion I wrote to the young woman these words. “Thank you Lyn for I followed your conversation on s*x. Your question is clear and now you need to know. When the devil takes up a mind of a man he thinks of a woman in terms of s*x that is small indeed. When God takes up a mind of a man he thinks of a woman in a bigger picture, in totality of humanity and the commandments of God s*x is part of that thinking but it cannot be the only thing one ever wants from a woman.
The best is to love her, to protect her, to respect her, to adore her and to discover her inner treasures. Dr Randy Simmons says the treasure in a woman is in her inner soul and deep in her secret places in her heart. In the heart of a woman there are more places that society will never understand. One needs to seek to understand a woman from God’s point to realize those secret places. She is a Treasure Island. A wise traveler lands on a Treasure Island and cherishes it. He values it and takes ownership in protecting and claiming that Island. Systematically starts to dig gently to unearth the treasures in that Island. A woman is a Treasure Island. She is such a gold mine in life. The best education for anybody who has chosen to be with a woman in his life is the need to educate self on the treasures in her.
s*x is the last thing of them all to think of a woman you are out to love. It is ignorance and short sightedness to think of a woman in terms of s*x. Don’t get me wrong for bed and s*x will eventually be the last place you will end up together in the right time not just the night time. A small mind thinks bed and a higher mind sees the joy and beauty a woman is to the bigger picture of humanity and life with her for eternity in the totality of creation. Every woman should understand that anybody thinking bed is too small for a woman's time. That is not worth your time and value. A woman's value is far beyond bedroom.
A woman is and must be above fulfilling the s*x dumb functionality to a man. If a man equates love to s*x and says no s*x no love. That means the man is not right for you. s*x has its place and that place is not the condition to love. Because you love you may get s*x but you don’t get s*x to love. Neither should any woman give s*x to be loved. If being loved depends on you giving s*x ! I say there is no love there. A young person asked me recently what comes first, s*x or love? Without thinking it is should be love. As a Christian this question does not even arise for s*x is a preserve.
I want to add that s*x is the desert of relationship. For people of God you know the guidelines as to when s*x is permitted and when not. Anybody seeking to blackmail a loving woman to s*x as a way of maintaining love is cheaper in thinking than any woman deserves. Every woman needs true love and an understanding. What s*x means to a woman is a topic that should be discussed on daily basis. On the contrary many are doing s*x but not discussing it. Our people are perishing for lack of knowledge. Don’t be among the lost people in ways of s*x.”
After I wrote this to the young woman, she asked me this question. “Are you really a man? I have never seen men who appreciate women you are so different that am beginning to wonder what you are. Thanks & and good night.”
This is the tragedy in our world. I advised a young woman but after reading my words she went to bed doubting if I were a man. This is because we have failed a woman that much even when we say the right thing it sounds wrong. We have gone that low. I pray and believe that we turn our eyes to the face of God. Speak with clarity and guide with honesty of our hearts and beliefs. When our children fail because we did not care to speak plainly on matters of s*x we have robbed them of knowledge and heritage. s*x is the number one cause of divorce, the cause of murder of many young women in the world. And the greatest source of both pain and joy in the world. Not to talk to our youth and those lacking in s*x knowledge is doing society wrong. With prayer we need to seek God to show us how we can work with our s*xuality so that the joy of s*x does not become the source of our misery. God bless you.
Posted By: DAVID JOHNSON
Tuesday, October 19th 2010 at 7:18PM
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