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The problem I have with Black men who date or marry white women and other races is that they never want to take full responsibility for the choices and decisions they make. To them, everything wrong in the blackman and blackwoman's relationship is the BLACK WOMAN'S fault. I'm tired of some of these men playing the victim card. Some Black men who date outside their race play a very big part in their own demise.
What these black men need to do is be a man and acknowlege the fact that they F*ck up sometimes. That's all I'm saying. Accept their part in the situation. Many of them make dumb choices and decisions and then totally ignore their role in it. Be a man and acknowlege your role in it. Not place the entire blame on the black woman but at least accept your part.
Tuesday, March 6th 2012 at 11:33AM
Siebra Muhammad
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Whether another human being married a green woman or a blue man, I could not care less; a small percentage of humans have been cross marring since the don of time, and nobody on earth has the power to do anything about it. Why must I consider expending any of my energies as to why this happing?
However, I would be interested in knowing why young brothers, who went to Sunday school and church for 5 or 7 years, yet; they have know problems getting a gun shooting another young brother down the street, who had 5 or 7 years of Sunday school and church going too.
PS I want be on here long...
Sunday, March 11th 2012 at 7:12PM
Henry Mitchell
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Here's a thought.. I do feel that Black/African-American women in America are often undervalued. Of course there are those of us who devalue ourselves (and no one is going to treat you better than you treat yourself) BUT I am thinking that there is some truth to slave mentality. Regardless of whether we choose to acknowledge it or not, we do "act out" what we take in from our community, our families and popular media. In turn, we perpetuate that position in our discussions and actions with our children, peers, family, friends, etc... SO, if we look back at slavery and look at the value placed on women there is a psychological "value" placed on white women over black women. For a black man to marry or even desire a white woman it was taboo, something he was forbidden from and only only the "top men" white men could obtain an white woman. On the other hand, black women were property not a prize. White men who desired black women could take us, use us... and dispose of us at their discretion. That sets up a psychological disparity between the values associated with white women versus black women. However, we can't address it until we acknowledge it and so many people do not want to talk about slavery and its psychological implications.
Tuesday, March 13th 2012 at 10:27PM
Andrea Parker
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@Henry Mitchell- I do not thing the problem is about people dating and marrying whom they love. I think there is a problem with people who purposely exclude people who share their heritage out of disdain for their race. THAT is a problem. Not because it affects me (I don't care who people love) but because it is sad to have that much self hate for oneself. Self hate is a form of mental illness.
Tuesday, March 13th 2012 at 10:33PM
Andrea Parker
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Mr. Carroll, you need to not pick a fight that you are not prepared for. The clownish nature of your article speaks for itself. You are one of the black men that I am referring to who should take responsibility for your own actions, and stop using the black woman as a scapegoat for your own childish bull ****. You are carrying on the slavemaster's tradition of urinating, spitting, and flushing us down the toilet. The things that you have written do not add up, and if I were you I would be ashamed to write it. You should be ashamed of yourself for driving a wedge between the black man and the black woman. We're all you've got!
You are one of the few black men that I am referring to who blame the black woman for everything wrong in your life. You need to start taking more accountability for your own life! You are foolish for hating us, because in hating us shows that you hate yourself! Most of you (if you are not "biracial") came from the very womb of a black woman! So how can you hate your source and not hate yourself! You need the piss slapped out of you!
Monday, March 19th 2012 at 10:32AM
Siebra Muhammad
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@Henry Mitchell, I gather those sunday school lessons teach that the son of God did not die a natural death...which carry on to Malxon X...
In the days of Christ they had notguns nor did they hang the less thans with ropes from trees thay made cross' from those trees to accomplish this...
And, I am so glad and grateful the during the days of Malcom X the Black female was seen as a person and not just a carrier of aides and her womb seen as a killing field for her child or to be disrespected as our mothers as we do today. (NUP!!!)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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@Andrea, spoken like a Queen full of self-love and self-respect. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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