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Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man REALLY?????

Kenya Stevenson · Wednesday, March 28th 2012 at 4:29PM · 802 views
Yes I Have read the book, & It good book, But as you know Steve Harvey
is a comedian and you have to take what he's say with grain of salt.
There are some funny spots & some of his insight is to the point.
What I have learn in dating men in the most part JUST SHOW UP! It not that hard
I will buy a new dress, then he will say That Nice! I will get my hair done
and he will say "Did you lose wieght? Are you kidding me!! It boobs.butts,
& Legs for some guy, There are few guys you date who are a gentleman
Holds the door, take your chair.& even stand up when you walk in the room
Then just when you think you have found the right guy HE'S GAY!!!
Come on Give me a break.. Where are the men?

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Kenya Stevenson San Jose, CA

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Rori Nelson Wednesday, March 28th 2012 at 4:51PM

Well Kenya all have to say is Mr Right is Somewhere out there as the song gose!

Siebra Muhammad Thursday, March 29th 2012 at 3:16PM

Good post sis!

Siebra Muhammad Saturday, April 7th 2012 at 5:14PM

I viewed clips of the "Think Like A Man" movie on Youtube, and the movie's subliminal message is that the entire topic is worthy of laughter and that the black woman is the butt of some kind of joke (no pun intended).

No disrespect to Steve harvey, but let's be real...I mean do we REALLY have to have a comedian release a movie to address the subject of black male-female relationships when the statistics are as grim as they are?

powell robert Saturday, April 7th 2012 at 5:21PM


Yes -- siebra, a comedian has to make a living, talking at coloredCartoons................

hey any of the three of you butterflies have ALL the female beauty attributes a MAN, could ask for

i got 10 children and would love to have more, siebra has turned me down; but alexandra knows i like the tall, able to bear beauties vs the rori types............

and i will forget that your writing is terrible.................



Siebra Muhammad Saturday, April 7th 2012 at 5:32PM

You got 10 children...who gives a **** LOL. Besides, how can you say our writing is terrible with all the chicken scratch you write here? My 4 year old cousin writes better than you do!!!

Kenya Stevenson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 3:59AM

How old are you Robert 60 ,2,3,4,5 you want it C'mon Being it
This Butterfly has teeth I'll bite your fool head off,and I don't mean little Robert!!
WTF!!!!

Kenya Stevenson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 4:15AM

What is your Problem!????

Rori Nelson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 4:21AM

Rori Types What are you talking about!??? YOU DON"T KNOW ME!
What Is your PROBLEM ROBERT!!!!

powell robert Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 8:44AM


i am a MAN!

we are on a wwweb internet site, writing, ALL "Now" your writing

this continuous female, 30 something single, no children gossippy, innuendo is why YOU negras ask the question, "Where are the men?"

you castigate and demean men................and dont know one when you see or read one...........

your COMPREHENSION is lousy

your OLDE stereotypes are the Heart of BIA Preamble, smash stereotypes!

CHANGE in writing abilities, CHANGE in thought analysis, CHANGE to the Leadership of a MAN

forget me, BUT at least

look at Our Leader Baraaka Hussein Obama, and start there ---




Rori Nelson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 2:30PM

Hey Robert. This is Rori's WIFE writing this response. My husband is a king among men. He's kind, thoughtful, supportive, handsome, funny, and the best I could have ever hoped for. Please do not post hateful remarks, especially when you don't know the person who is writing. These short posts do not share our character, just simply short and incomplete opinions on a particular subject. Personal attacks don't promote communication or increase understanding. Sharing opinions CAN educate, but shoving them down someone's throat never will.

Rori Nelson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 2:45PM

A man, huh? A man teaches, not ridicules. A MAN respects, not disrespects. A MAN takes responsibility for what he says and what he does. Bullying is NOT an answer to anything. And that's what you are doing. When someone makes a mistake, they own it. Kenya apologized, but yet that wasn't good enough for you. You decided to mis-treat her and disrespect her. My wife said it best, to be a king among men, you step up to your responsibilities to educate and be respectful. My wife taught me a valuable lesson today, when you impune someone's character they have tendency to fight back. But she taught me to remain calm, not let words inflame my anger. This blog was meant for fun; you turned it into a diatribe of disdain. Very, very disrespectful!

Siebra Muhammad Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 2:50PM

TEACH HARD MR. NELSON!!! EAT HIM UP LIKE A CHERRY IN A GAME OF PAC-MAN!!!

powell robert Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 4:45PM


Mr. Rori Nelson

I have NEVER disrespected any female------

if i did, unintentionally; i ask the forgiveness of Allaah................

I have read on BIA some writings by 'women' that are stereotypically foulMouthed, 3AM ghetto corner cartoonish......

and to those 'women' or 'men'------------------

BIA purpose is to SMASH stereotypes, i am following the lesson plan................

my writing/commenting style is based on their, she/he/it writing; i do use adjectives to describe those writings and comprehend their meanings...........

any highSchool Literature Teacher of 1st YEAR Literature Professor would ask any student to do the same to the writing they require of the student-----I WAS AN 'A' student in Literature and I had a published writing in my University Professors 5th Book...............

sorry, if you or others take analysis of your writings PERSONALLY, but we are on the wwweb.......

Our President Baraka Hussein Obama has asked Americanas, lets change, lets grow!

and do tell your wife Hello, and ask your wife to be taught and entertained,

I LIKE READING............................ its educating and relaxing.................


Rori Nelson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 5:29PM

@Saint Jake -
Kenya, as nice as she is, is NOT married to Rori - that would be Karen Nelson, married 17 years this coming July. Karen does not have her own user, as this was her first time looking at the site.

Rori Nelson Sunday, April 8th 2012 at 5:51PM

Kenya Stevenson is a friend. I've known her about 15 years. I've known her family longer than that. I have DJ'ed several functions for the Stevenson family and off & on I have done DJ work for the family. She is NOT related to me or my wife or my sister in any way. She is just a friend, that's all. I hope that clarifies things.

Kenya Stevenson Monday, April 9th 2012 at 4:30AM

To Rori & Karen
Rori,Thank you for your love & support Thank you Karen for standing up for your husband
I need to take note,( How to back your man.) Karen you are a lucky lady to have a great guy like Rori
When I meet the right guy & have children I'm going to teach them what
you said in your blog( A man huh?) your words will live in my heart forever.
Love you Rori & Karen Thank you for being a friend!

Kenya Stevenson Monday, April 9th 2012 at 4:52AM

@Rori
Tell Thomasena Got her message. Thank:

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