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I Cheated Once And I’m Tempted To Cheat On My Husband Again. Help!! (462 hits)

By Black Love And Marriage.com on May 15, 2012
In Ask The Maat's (Videos),Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs

VIDEO: I started to watch some of of your videos recently and enjoy every bit of it. I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years. We are not legally married but naturally we are. Since my husband and I had our first daughter in 2007 our communication went downhill. All I wanted was to spend time wtih him and recconnect as a couple, bring back the romance in our life once in a while but it didn’t happen. I am a sensitive black woman and very emotional…that’s just the way I am. Every time I would bring up the subject he would start talking about finances, living from paycheck to paycheck, expenses getting out of hand. I am a stay at home mother of three children, youngest being 4 months. Back in ’08 I cheated on my husband. It started off emotional then I slept with this guy, not even a whole night. I felt terrible I wanted to do the right thing but didn’t want to be unhappy. I’ve started to talk to another married man with similar problems and yes we are attracted to each other, physically and s*xually. Am I wrong to have these feeling or is it showing me that its time to move on? I have to be careful since I have two girls 3 and 2 and a boy 4 months. I’m 26 and husband is 35. Please HELP!

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Yep you're wrong lady and you need to go get your noggin' checked for being a s*xual play toy for another woman's man!!!

She get a swift kick in the butt for this question. Go get your own man!
Thursday, May 17th 2012 at 9:24PM
Jen Fad

I didn't listen to the Maats’ clip on this one... I was so ANGRY just reading the title of the blog~Ha! I having a conversation with the person I know and she was talking about how young women in their 20's waste their youth on men who don't want to make commitments but want to use them for s*xual pleasure. The point she was making was that these women finally realize when too, late when they're 3 or 4 babies later in their 40’s and lonely that they should have been more serious in their youth. What gets me is that she (this lady I was speaking with) said these women who were playing around and sleeping with O.P.P. (Other People's Property) have the audacity to be BITTER & HATEFUL to the young girls who aren't wasting their youth by getting married and having families with men who want them and will commit.
Friday, May 18th 2012 at 12:45PM
Jen Fad

...Ok now that I'm finally listening to the clip, I was totally wrong about the lady ...she apparently is a married SAHM (Stay At Home Mom) with 3 children, but the man isn't meeting her emotional & physical needs because of financial stress. These people need to get counseling if they don't get it together.

In this wise, I believe the Maats' are right! If the man is willing to get professional help (which a lot of men aren't) then perhaps they can work this out, but if not... she needs to decide what the costs are for her of finding alternative arrangements. My biggest concern would be for the children if the two of them have to part.

Friday, May 18th 2012 at 12:53PM
Jen Fad