Ladies,
As men, we really do appreciate the great efforts you put into looking your absolute best. The aura of a woman is always surrounded by s*xiness when her being in marinated with confidence. We appreciate you squeezing your feet into those Nine West and Red Bottom shoes so that those calves are looking tight, we appreciate you grinding through that two hour workout to ensure when you slide on that dress it fits just right. (If you use Body Magic, that’s cool too… you still looking good), we appreciate you budgeting your dollars so you can have that hot hair-do and we appreciate you wearing those perfumes that smell as sweet as the flowers in heaven. The truth to the matter is, men don’t have a clue what you’re wearing… but the most important thing is… we know YOU LOOK GOOD in whatever it is.
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED: You have got the man’s attention
Now, at this point, you’ve only got our attention. Basically, you’ve got the attention of our brain. Since you all (woman) say we (men) have two of them, this is a dangerous situation. At this time we are thinking about you, (because that’s what brain does, it thinks). You are only in a man’s head. (Read between the lines) You are only in his head. It’s at this point that a REAL MAN makes a decision but the real decision lies within you (the woman). A REAL MAN is not seeking to explore your sacred sweetness, because it can only resolve the desire of the head. Only a man who is a virtuoso of s*xual desideration would have those intentions. But there are questions that arise. Are you willing to compromise yourself, will you curtail the substance of who you are to please his brain? If so, a REAL MAN will reject you anyway. No man wants a woman who will discount, discredit, or devalue herself… even if the intent was for the purpose of pleasing him. What you have ultimately decided to do is please his brain (whether one or two) and if you really understand how the brain works you’ll understand this… it learns something then it must move on, in order to keep evolving it must keeping learning, it must keep seeking… it must keep moving. (You’ll get that sentence later) So here is some sound advice, don’t try to satisfy our brains, they are ever evolving, and besides… we got two of them remember? (Only REAL MEN will catch that)
WHAT REAL MEN REALLY WANT
If you want a REAL MAN, enthrall his mind. Be the reason he can’t sleep at night because of a stimulating conversation you both had. Be the reason he revaluates himself and questions God if he’s the right man for you. Be the reason that if he’s not the man that he should be, that he ask God to renew in him the right spirit for the ability to lead you. Be the purpose for his prayer. You haven’t ever heard anybody ask, “Did I cross your brain today?” The question is always, “Did I cross your mind?” Be the reason that when the game is on, he can’t even pay attention because you have captivated his thoughts in such a manner his (brain) can’t even focus on anything else. (Oh, you just missed that) Let me break that down for you. If you can pickpocket his mind or possess his thoughts to the point where his (brain) can’t even focus on anything else, you don’t have to worry about him cheating when you do get in a relationship with him. Hence the saying, “MIND OVER MATTER”, if you got my mind… it don’t matter what the other woman wear, it don’t matter what she say, it don’t matter what she do, it don’t matter how she smell. Ladies, I charge you to conduct a humble introspection of yourself, and ask yourself this question… “If God has a man out there for me, am I just in his head?” Any woman can get a man’s attention, but what she does after that is what makes all the difference in the world.
S. Edmonds
Posted By: Shakeim Edmonds
Saturday, March 23rd 2013 at 10:51PM
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