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Okay, this is not going to be very pretty.
When I refer to the ‘n’ word, I’m pretty confident that most of you know what word I’m referring to, so let me jump straight into it.
A few weeks back I was at a high school taking pictures of the football team practicing.
In one area of the practice field the quarterbacks, four black kids, were doing some drills, while a white coach stood by and monitored them.
As I approached the area where the players were doing their drills I could hear their conversation, and I was both ashamed and appalled.
Here’s a sample of what the kids were saying, paraphrased of course;
“Yo man, that ‘n’ had on some new Jordans, they were hot.”
“For real? ‘N’ I want to get me some of those new black joints.”
“Man I know this ‘n’ that got like all the new sneakers and the sweat suit that goes with them.”
“Yeah man, that ‘n’ be ballin’ yo.”
Now keep in mind that this conversation took place in front of a coach and a newspaper reporter, and it never crossed either of these kids minds that what they were doing was socially unacceptable.
The ‘n’ word was tossed around like confetti in front of a white educator.
As sad as I was to have to hear that conversation during an official practice, it was even sadder watching the white coach having to endure that conversation and try to act as if it didn’t bother him.
I’m sure that the coach, who was probably in his mid-forties, has watched an entire generation of black youth evolve into something significantly different than the black kids he grew up with.
When that white coach was an student in school, he probably watched black kids work their butts off to prove that they were intellectual equals to their white counterparts.
The need for acceptance into ‘White America’ was a driving force behind the process of creating equal opportunity for blacks in this country.
Early civil rights pioneers worked tirelessly to educate their children in spite of substandard educational opportunities, so that future generations would be judged for their minds, and not the color of their skin.
There has been an effort by corporate America for some time now to incorporate the new “hip-hop” culture into promotional initiatives, as corporate America has recognized how much money black people are willing to spend on ‘fly-by-night fads and items that exacerbate the ‘gansta’ mentality.
So when I recently got wind of a grant that a local school was interested in obtaining that would be used to teach educators the rules of “Ebonics”, I was disgusted to say the least.
For those of you that don’t know, “Ebonics” (which by the way I’m forced to capitalize on my word processor), is defined by Dictionary.com as “Black English”.
Let me repeat that, Ebonics is defined on the leading online dictionary as “Black English”.
So this push by educators in several areas of the country is saying what exactly?
That white teachers need to be taught how black people speak so that they can teach them better?
I don’t know if that is more insulting than it is stupid, or vice versa.
The last thing that black kids today need is a free pass from having to distinguish when and where they might want to be cognizant of proper speech.
I’m sure that Buddy’s Pool Hall and Joe’s Car Wash might let you get a job without having learned the proper annunciation of the English language.
If you want career as a doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher or, for that matter, a door greeter you might want to brush up on traditional English, and maybe buy a suit.
Do I think that the educators who attempt to introduce these types of grants and programs have less than honorable motivations when they speak about how great it would be if white teachers could talk jive?
No, it’s just another case of how disconnected from the reality of the declining social etiquette of black kids, and further attempts to dumb down the system to allow more numbers of kids to pass through and receive whatever additional grants and funding that come along with higher numbers.
Sort of like EOG exams, another brainstorm of somebody that had no clue on how to properly educate children.
EOG exams do not come close to articulating what a child has retained in school or whether or not they have developed any social or cultural skills.
It is a test that says simply, ‘if you pass this test, then you pass this class’.
It’s funny how the leaders of our educational system put so much emphasis on exams that they themselves never had to take to get where they are today.
If you think that my obvious passion about this subject is a bit overboard, I invite you to visit a couple of web sites that offer Ebonics dictionaries and Ebonics translators and you will quickly understand my ire.
Black kids today don’t need to be told that if they don’t feel like speaking properly it’s okay; the teacher will learn to speak like them.
What they need is to be made to understand that it is imperative for them to learn as much, if not more, about the proper use of language as their white counterparts, as they are already starting the race from the back of the pack.
Don’t do these kids any more favors trying to recreate educational systems that incorporate the lesser dynamic of the black experience.
I know several dozen black men and women with the letter PhD in front of their names and they had to learn English properly and as soon as possible.
Comedian Chris Rock once said that he would hear white people talking about former Secretary of State Colin Powell saying things like ‘he speaks so well ‘.
Rock’s assertion was that is something you would say about a monkey, not a college graduate.
How was he supposed to speak?
Oh that’s right, with Black English.
Posted By: Curly Morris
Wednesday, August 6th 2008 at 7:18PM
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Wednesday, August 6th 2008 at 7:47PM
Curly Morris
#1 - Whats with the picture of Lil Wayne's mug shot as part of your post?
#2 - Like Sister above stated in regards to what you THOUGHT that White person was thinking, "So!"
#3 - Whats with this country supporting the factors that contribute to the negative issues we face on a daily basis? For example, you didn't mention the coach saying to them, "Hey, don't talk like that to each other while you're around me. You're NOT "N" even though you use it as a trendy Fad type of thing. You're greater than that. You're created in the image and likeness of God."
#4 - I wonder how it is that with so much TV that we as Black people watch, we still speak "Ebonics" or slag the way we do? Could it be that this language is not our native tongue? Perhaps we should be speaking a language closer to who we really are.

Lastly, Blacks are the way we are because we were brought here and had our culture and literally our minds (patterns of thinking) removed! And replaced with what? The thinking of the oppressor? No. The thinking of a slave. So now you have a Black being with a generic, self terminating mind created by those who saw us only as property less than that of a dog!

Sure, we go to school and try to learn to be better formatted for the world in which we live, but for many, nearly most we still find something lacking and so we rebel! How do we do this? The only way we're allowed to...We rap about how tough we are, how great we are, how beautiful we are, how we are "The Sh.." And why? because society tells us everyday in its business world, its television dramas that lack our presence, its news stories, that we are nothing. So when a Lil Wayne or any rapper lashes out, when young Black boys get excited over the latest most expensive shoes, its because in either engaging in over egotistical bravado or having the best we feel like we really are something other than the nothing we've been reared to be.

Peace
Wednesday, August 6th 2008 at 11:19PM
Anthony Stewart
It's a shame that Ebonics is defined by Dictionary.com as black English. Whoever made that association needs to be tied and feathered. There's no such thing as black English. We black Americans are just trying to regain our cultural bearings in the wake of past slavery and ongoing oppression. We need things that we can call our own.

But as we endeavor to regain our bearings as African Americans, it is important that we not forget our connection to Africa, the motherland. While current conditions in Africa may cause people to believe that even African Blacks have lost their bearings, we must all remember that Blacks were once communal rather than warring tribes. Contemporary Blacks must do whatever they can to foster more community in America and Africa.

Be blessed, and continue to be a blessing.
Wednesday, August 6th 2008 at 11:38PM
J. A. Faulkerson
Black English Venacular meets all of the requirements of a language including structure and grammer, it also has pronunciation, grammatical structures, and vocabulary in common with various West African languages.

My questions is what did you do when while this was going on? Just standing there listening? If at no time, you took the time to confront, interject or say anything to these young men, then what is the purpose of voices your concerns here. How do we read these blogs, continuously talk about helping the community, having unity and doing things to bring about solutions and change for the way we as a people are viewed, if you stood there and said nothing to these young men.

What in the world does Lil Wanye have to do with this blog?

Wednesday, August 6th 2008 at 11:49PM
Marquerite Burgess
Sorry Jeffrey, it is. What we as Black Americans, African Americans or as I say the permanently tanned people need to realize the degree of mental conditioning that we have received and still continue to deal with.

Thursday, August 7th 2008 at 12:00AM
Marquerite Burgess
What's up my N word is slang, not Black English Venacular Danielle.
Thursday, August 7th 2008 at 11:51AM
Marquerite Burgess
I'm probably not going to be popular for saying this, but I do think it matters to the degree of struggle that white people witness (and a great many, if not most) fought to not see happen: THEM calling us N--a and treating us a substandard human beings. If the man WAS uncomfortable, it could easily be as Curly said in his blog. It could really be that he's thinking about all that was going on back then...when our mothers/fathers and grandmothers/grandfathers were fighting against the very image of substandardness that so many are breaking their necks to perpetuate today.

I know the adage of "Just because I say it about my brother doesn't mean YOU can," but the more this issue of the "N" word is raised, and the more WE don't care what WE call ourselves, the more I don't care what THEY call us. If YOU see yourself as a N, what's wrong if they call you what YOU call you?

Plus, we sometimes only see things from our point of view. The point of view of the person next to us matters sometimes because if that white coach had stepped out and said, "Why are you kids talking like that? Do you not know that your grandparents fought hard to get the respect that you have? What would they say if they heard you talking to each other and about each other like this? Do you know how long they fought and how many lost their lives for that word and line of thinking to be obliterated?" ...someone would probably have become really angry when the appropriate response would have been, "You know what? You're right. We shouldn't be talking like that period."

I think it's worse that the white coach witnessed it because he was on the other side of that coin during the Civil Rights movement. Enough of us don't think about that. If the coach turned around and said, "You n--as is right. Those shoes ARE tight," they'd have been ready to fight. (I understand why, but again, it takes me back to if you call you that and that's what you are, then why be mad if the next person says it?)

Blessings...
Thursday, August 7th 2008 at 7:46PM
Dee Gray
Obviously many of you completely missed the point of the entire article. I couldn't care less whether the coach was white or black it was the fact that firstly the kids had no business speaking that way in front of any educator and secondly the fact that kids today seem to have no discern for proper social etiquette...I'll finish the rest on another blog.
Thursday, August 7th 2008 at 9:09PM
Curly Morris
Curly, I agree. However, my disdain goes a lot deeper than the lack of proper etiquette.

Blessings...
Thursday, August 7th 2008 at 9:31PM
Dee Gray
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