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The Queen's Chair: The Whole Tiger Woods Affair

Marsha Jones · Thursday, December 3rd 2009 at 9:44AM · 333 views
I'm not a golf fan. Nor am I a fan of Tiger Woods. I blame this on his mother. I'll tell you why.

When Tiger's star was on the rise, his mother made a very public statement about how black women weren't "good enough" for her son. She addressed her comment specifically to supermodel Tyra Banks. Tyra Banks not only is black, but she's beautiful and rich. I could see if they weren't compatible, but how could she say that Tyra's not good enough?

Then I'm thinking if black women weren't good enough for her son, why was Tiger's father suitable enough for her? Was that her way of having a better life in this country. In case, you aren't aware, Tiger's mother is of Asian descent and is no longer with Tiger's dad.

Tiger Woods never refers to himself as a "black" man. He developed a new phrase for his multi-ethnicity. Yet, he sent a text to one of the many women he's accused of having an affair with and asking her: "If she had ever been with a black man?" So much for being color blind.

I feel bad for his wife. I feel worse for his children and am happy that they are too young to really understand what is going on.

I'm annoyed that Tiger Woods thought he was "above" scandal because of his celebrity. That's the reason all the scandal is exploding because of his celebrity as a black golfer. Duuuh? He's won every major tournament and brought an unfounded interest to the game of golf.

I'm disappointed that Tiger couldn't man up to his wife about this after five years of marriage. Obviously, he didn't take his wedding vows seriously. If you're going to cheat; you might as well get divorced. If there are problems in your marriage, fix them. Talk to your spouse. And we're just getting started, people.

Woods has supposedly had a mistress for three years and he has slept with a variety of other women. He cancelled a tryst with one of his "women" because his wife was in labor with their child.

With everything that happened to Kobe Bryant and Michael Jordan, you would think that Woods would have learned from example. He didn't. Tiger may lose some of his endorsements because of a morals clause. His image is tarnished. Tiger, was it worth it?

When you are black, famous, and out in the spotlight, you have to be cleaner than clean. What should have been a private matter between Tiger and his wife is now fodder for the media. Tiger's mom didn't teach him that.

I blame her partly for the mess that he's in now.

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Jen Fad Thursday, December 3rd 2009 at 2:38PM

[I feel bad for his wife. I feel worse for his children...]

Me too Sister Marsha. I would never want to be in that position ever nor would I want any other woman to experience the sting of betrayal. I hope things will work out for her though. It's a tough situation regardless for both Tiger and his family. Many powerful men have fallen. Tiger isn't the first and he certainly won't be the last. Thanks for the blog Sister Marsha.

Jen Fad Friday, December 4th 2009 at 6:41AM

Here's something I thought that you would be interested in...

And here are some of the other startling terms and conditions of Elin's employment as Tiger's wife. It requires her to look happy and pretty and includes a lifelong gag order.

The lawyer familiar with the couple’s negotiations told The Daily Beast that Tiger also has agreed to shorten the original prenup to seven years from the date of marriage, meaning it will vest in another two. And the revised agreement provides for a staggered schedule of payments spread out over five years that could be worth upward of $75 million. So for Elin to collect $80 million, she’ll need to stay with Tiger another seven years, be a dutiful wife in showing up with him at social events and in public as if they were still the perfect couple, and sign a nondisclosure form that will prevent her from ever telling her story. Even if she lasts only two more years, she’ll still walk away with nearly twice what she was entitled to under the original prenup.

http://www.businessinsider.com/tiger-woods...

Marsha Jones Friday, December 4th 2009 at 9:00AM

I heard about this, Jen. Doesn't sound like a marriage at all...but rather another business deal.

Marsha Jones Friday, December 4th 2009 at 12:06PM

I agree!!!

Marsha Jones Monday, December 7th 2009 at 2:53PM

Irma: You're right. The media hasn't found a love child yet, but they have fond 7-9 women who pretty much look the same and they are all in the service industry (no pun intended). What I just find disappointing and repulsive is that before he went searching out for these other women, he should have talked to his wife and partner first. He's in this mess because he didn't and he's handled the situation badly. His wife is humiliated, his children hurt, and his hard work is slowly going down the drain along with his finances.

Marsha Jones Monday, December 7th 2009 at 4:04PM

Ouuuuuchhhh!!!!

Marsha Jones Wednesday, December 9th 2009 at 9:51AM

He should have just kept in his pants and he wouldn't be in this mess...I bet he's thinking that now!!!

Marsha Jones Wednesday, December 9th 2009 at 3:37PM

I heard the same thing. However, we'll never know for sure. The same thing was said about Michael Jordan.

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

Marsha, what lessons did Tiger's wife's mother give her on how to be an object of a child under the full control of his mother,and who is only interested in having someone as long as they are not Black and is willing to do all of his biddings for which she will be able to live like the rich,famous, beautiful people do?!?

Or, maybe that being a nonblack igh priced call girl pays so much more that being a White prostitute?!?

I have said all of that to say this, why is it so hard for the public, us to see the both of these people as fully capable of thinking HUMAN adults which is just what all of this hearsay is all about not seeing them as...(smile)

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

...remember Minister Jesse Jackson???!!!? so far the gossip has not mentioned a Love child of Tiger Woods...SHAME, SHAME, SHAME???!!!!!? or just more convenient to over look some as long as the massmedia is willing to do so????????!!!!!!.Give me a break...

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

Sorry, but there is no way I can even picture a Christian wife and husband sitting down with each other discussing their extra panters in s*x with each others because this is breaking the commandmnts of their faiths...I can see them trying to hide their natural manner of making tsure thatthe human race does not become extenct though as the Christian way to do, but don't get caught...know if one does get caught and seek forgiveness and the whole nne yards of our social believe on FORGIVENESS.LOL

Clark your comments on Tiger are priceless.(smile)

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