Pointing fingers at someone? Name calling back and forth? Saying things that are rude and nasty? Have you been guilty of these things? These reponses are a few concepts of the verbally abusive individual. Well, that's like "The pot calling the kettle black."
"Hay pot you're really black!.... Oh yeah! Well ..kettle you're blacker!"
"I'm not as black as you! No...you're blacker than me!"
You'll find many times people will do just that, and just possibly you and I have at one time or another been included in the people. Quickly one can be to point a finger at someone else when they have the same kind of actions. Attitudes, appearances, and the social aspects of us all can be included in name calling. I was told that sometimes if a person is verbally abusive they are often talking about how the feel about themselves.
Insults to injury is never considered as appropriate behavior. If there is a verbally abusive person you are often in contact around before you wish to retaliate consider another approach and don't fall into the trap of doing what they're doing. If they are cursing you doesn't mean you have to curse back. As in one of the most recent topics I mentioned how talking too much without diplomacy can become a tongue of dangerous tales and lies. The same can be applicable in words that abuse.
Name calling is an instrument designed for destruction if it is generated with hateful undercurrents. One must never consider name calling as having any good or positive effects, and it should be avoided. If a person is calling names; I suggest that some action be taken to remedy his or her unruly tongue. Always consider other feelings and watch what you will say. [Counting to 10 might help] You can easily slip into ring with The Fight of the "pot and the kettle."
And Disqualified....."You're... BOTH OUT!
"My punches made the darkest rings on your face.....Oh no they didn't!... my punches made even darker rings on your face!!" "Oh yeah!....Yeah!" Pot you're Black!...Kettle, you're Blacker!
Someday, I'll be finished writing these little notations of sayings, Until then...well
oooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I'll blow out bubbles OOOOOOOOOoo..
What did the Pot and Kettle fail to see?
BEING BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL.... AND SO IS PEACE.
May peace be with you today... all day.
LET'S REMEMBER TO MAKE PEACE WORK.
Posted By: MIISRAEL Bride
Monday, August 23rd 2010 at 3:11PM
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