They say the OLDER the black woman, the MEANER the black woman. ...huH ?

humph!

Of course, a mature sista with class who can leave her baggage where it belong is a luxury.

oh.... ok... that sounds better..... ((wink/smile))

J you gotta tell me about Egypt... I always wanted to get stationed over there... Now I have to wait until I get my degree ....

I dont see the older women in my church huggin their bibles.... Most of them are lookin at the younger men or the ministry staff!

I'm talking about when they leave the church walking to their car.

lol.... I see them trying to hold their dresses/skirts in place.... the splits too high... or the skirts are too tight...

Im trying to figure out what the mature.. older men... see in all of that....!!

Enlighten me please!

what is this lol

If it is going to be "bs", excuses, hard luck stories, baggage on top of meaness, why not go for the "bs", excuses, stories, niceness and youth. Again, these are not my personal views but the general mood of the brothers. As Father...I sense the issues facing my people.

wow... you have your work cut out for you.... Im glad Im not one of "bs-ers"

oh... D ... I think this is about the mean spirited lonely older sista's waitin on Jesus!

HORSE PUCKY! Older women are not always meaner! I have met some to most beautifully kind old/older... women and all of them are very active and happy! Those small catergory of women you see J are very few, and if they are mean it's because they need to shown some kindness. Try bringing them a rose J! You'll see... how you can have them show you their sweet natural personality. Grumpy Old Men? Well... there are some of them too!....[Smiles]

I HAVE MEET A LOT OF OLDER women if they are grumpy its because someone has done them wrong and they are hurt but that ice can be broken with kindness and love !

That's refreshing, Miisrael, to hear. Of course, when an older black women speaks to another woman it is differant then when she speaks to a man. And man does have something to say of "his" impression of older women. But, you seem like a nice mature woman, so no reflection on you. I'll have to counsel the brothers to send a "bunch of roses" more often. In the mean time, older black women run the risk of not having a man to enjoy the second half of her life. Which I would like to "change".

Certainly, older black women have been hurt. The thing here that makes her so "mean", is that she seems to hold GRUDGES FOR WAY TO LONG. Grudges should last maybe a week at most month but never years and years and years and years. It wears her down and others around her. She needs to blow it off to experience and start smiling again.

Perhaps...an act of kindess is what they need. I contend you try and if they don't get kinder...it's not much else you can do for them. You have shown a genuine act of charity.

Irma
You tell him like it is girl, He's already in trouble for exposing the Jesus aircraft!(lol)

Helen, there is no magic to the the Starship named Jesus. It is a product of engineering and science ingenuity therefore has to go thru the normal stages of design/drafting/modeling/testing/pre-assembly/final assembly

Irma, I was speaking about the church and the older women walking back to their cars after church service. Yes, I do go to the church sometimes...to hear what they are saying, scope out the ladies and hear some very nice gospel tunes.

It doesn't matter whether there is magic associated with the AIRCRAFT

The Starship named Jesus is more a flight craft than an aircraft in that it is NOT aerodynamic in principle.

you know... I'll never walk to my car from church again holding my bible... I betta let Deshonne carry it for me...

jAMAL ARE YOU SAYING YOU ALLOW WOMEN TO DO SOMETHING WITHOUT YOUR PREMISSION?!? LOL LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERY DAY. (SMILE)

...OH AND jAMAL ARE YOU SAYING THAT THE mUSLIM MEN ARE NOW ALLOWING WOMEN TO WALK UNESCORTED TO THEIR CARS?!?...

OR ARE YOU SAYING THESE WOMEN ARE NOT ATTACKING THE BLACK MEN FOR NO REASON EXCEPT THEY ARE OLD AND GRUMPY?! OR WILL YOU JUST DELETE THIS AND ACT LIKE YOU REALLY HAD A LEGIT REASO FOR THS BLOG'S THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE?!? (otfl)

@Helen this must mean he is way ahead of his ten year schedual does it not since he already has his air craft...is this true Little Abe? Great that your project is doing so very well! (smile)