Commentary:
It's really not a new issue that there are boyfriends OR girlfriends that are very abusive. I am often moved to such domestic violence to the peak that I am sore at heart. I despise any of ending in a death of someone because he or she didn't want to let the person move on and be unattached to their once lovers.
Recently, I overviewed 2 strong cases of boyfriends that have killed their partners, or ex-partners. The news stories shows there is no race barriers when it comes to such actions. Cases are being reported in all races of people. These killings have no Black and White only couples.... and even there are those untold stories of boyfriends being abusive that are often so silently hidden.
Around this time of year it almost a mystic of increased cases during the holidays. Family and friends are ripped apart with senseless murders and so much even senseless loss of life. One case I read of even involved killings of a young woman's family member her father, then the suicidal lover.
As a person of a once abusive more verbal relationship, I know that these cases are more as just as or more extremely dangerous. When the time for breaking up there is always the fear that a woman is at a much greater risk of danger. How and why do such men or women find it so hard in letting go? Is it related to the one emotional grip the controlling fist? I've certainly search for reasons, but to none that a certifiable to murder. Relationships that hurt and or kill are never the right hand answer. Anger is a foot stool that is controlling and in the bibical account the instrument of evil. One who is angered should be managed with help and calmed to control which is letting go and letting God resolve you.
Perhaps, "I think of to myself;"... if those cases of those who kill would have taken time...to only examine themselves within. Would if he or she wanted to be freed without harm? Would death would be in his or her top choices of letting go a relationship gone bad? I have no real answers, but offer some kind of wisdom. ... Try within self to be a much better person to be careful in choices of partners and watchful in choosing characters knowing love does not hurt or kill.
That is a relationship of another kind.
This ends this commentary.
Thanks for reading.
MIIS
Posted By: MIISRAEL Bride
Tuesday, November 30th 2010 at 10:07AM
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