A White Woman's Opinion of Black Women
White women's opinion of black women & a
> brother's response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep!
> Thumbs up to this black man. Enjoy.
> It seems that an article was written to Sister 2
> Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a
> response from black
> men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more)
> !!!
>
> Dear Jamie:
>
> I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of
> your Black male readers.
>
> I am a White female who is engaged to a Black
> male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't
> understand a lot of
> Black female's attitudes about our relationship.
>
> My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
> amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were
> either too
> fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too
> materialistic
> or carrying too much excess baggage.
>
> Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I
> was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and
> dine me and
> give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about
> us being with
> their men, why don't they look at themselves and make
> some changes.
>
> I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide r
> emarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear
> from some Black
> men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
>
> Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for
> one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson
> Beckford,
> Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry
> Belafonte,
> Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius,
> Berry Gordy,
> Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...
>
> I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a
> little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly.
> Don't be mad
> with us White women because so many of your men want us.
> Get your acts
> together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat
> your men better.
> If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
>
> Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
>
> RESPONSE
>
>
>
> Dear Jamie:
>
> I would like to respond to the letter written by
> A Disgusted White Girl.
>
> Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old
> black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious
> universities in
> Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in
> Business Management.
> I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently
> purchased a
> house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of
> successful black
> men.
>
> I will not use my precious time to slander white
> people. I just want to set the record straight of why black
> men date
> white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons
> why black men
> dated white women was because they were considered easy.
>
> The black girls in my neighborhood were raised
> in the church. They were very strict about when they lost
> their
> virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
> impatience to wait,
> brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy
> without too
> much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
>
> Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date
> white women because they are docile and easy to control. A
> lot of black
> men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall
> weaknesses, have become
> intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are
> afraid that our
> woman will be more successful than us, make more money than
> us, drive
> nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear,
> many black men
> look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
>
> I have talked to numerous black men and they
> continuo usly comment on how easy it is to control and walk
> over their
> white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want
> A Disgusted
> White Girl to know that not all successful black men date
> white women.
>
> Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington,
> Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair
> Underwood, Kenneth
> 'Babyface' Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris
> Rock all married strong
> black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous
> white men, in
> and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire
> black women
> over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David
> Bowie to name a
> few.
>
> I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be
> misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that
> you are some
> type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like
> Hatsepshut
> and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in
> Egypt, yo u
> were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and
> beating each other
> over the head with clubs. Read your history!
>
> It was the black woman that taught you how to
> cook and season your food. It was the black woman that
> taught you how to
> raise your children. It was black women who were breast
> feeding and
> raising your babies during slavery.
>
> It is the black woman that had to endure
> watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten,
> killed, and
> thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes
> against them:
> being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still
> They Rise!
>
> It is because of the black women's strength,
> elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never>
> date anyone except
> my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that
> captivates and
> draws me to them . It is not the fact that they come in all
> shapes,
> sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
>
> Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing
> about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and
> nurturing souls,
> their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles,
> their
> willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their
> determination
> to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring
> great pain
> and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black
> women.
>
> I honestly believe that your anger is geared
> more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If
> this were
> not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons
> to darken your
> skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't
> you just be happy
> with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your
> lips, hips, and
> breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so y ou can
> look fuller
> and more voluptuous?
>
> I think that your anger is really a result of
> you wanting to have what the black woman has.
>
> BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile
> woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give
> you a call.
> But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman.
> Someone that can
> be a good wife and mother to my children.
>
> Someone who can be my best friend and
> understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I
> am looking for
> a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the
> bill.
>
> No offense taken, none given.
>
> Signed, Black Royalty
> Wow!! We must pass this on to make the day of
> the Black Queens of our
Posted By: DAVID JOHNSON
Sunday, December 5th 2010 at 8:59PM
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