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I caught my wife of 4 years having an affair with her co-worker. It was only after she began to stop sleeping with me and disappearing at night that i became suspicious . I asked her time and time again what was going on. She always replied “NOTHING”. She began blaming fatigue and medical reason for her lack of s*x drive. I know the signs of an affair. So i began having an affair with a young lady i always had a crush on for years (She owned the daycare my daughter went to). It was incredible s*x along with the fact i was fulfilling a fantasy i always had for her (she looks like Gabrielle Union) . She was willing to do what i wanted to do s*xually,did things to me that i never had done to me bofore and had a body that what put my wife’s to shame. So now we are both having affairs simutaneously. I knew she was but she had no ideal i was. s*x didnt exist no more between us(me & my wife). She (wife) even began sleeping on the couch when she came in late night after being with him so she could text him all night (later she confirmed it). So me and my friend decide to do it real BIG and get a room for the weekend. She would stay all weekend and allow to come back and forth from home to her as i pleased (She knew i didnt do overnights). After all she knew i was married but not happily. When we get to the front desk of the hotel i give the desk clerk my last name. The front desk clerk asked me if i wanted the same room i had last weekend? HUH? i tell her i didnt stay there last weekend in fact this is my first time there. She proceeds to show me my wife info from the weekend before and the fact she paid for the room with her bank card “WOW”. i was stunned,shocked and embarrassed as i stood there with my jump off. I proceeded to stay the weekend and do what i originally planned to do . i told myself its time to confront her it went long enough besides my side piece was getting really attached to me and even offered to pay for my divorce if i wanted one. I asked my wife to meet me for lunch she agreed. I began by telling her i had an affair first so she would feel slighted to tell me about her actions. i was right. She began by telling lies at first and then it followed by the truth. She told me it was a guy she worked with and that it was just s*x. I wasnt hurt but more shocked once i learned more details about the affair. We both agreed to stop and work on our marriage. Theres one problem they both still work together. I asked her what was she gonna do about that she assured me “It was over”. I didnt believe her at all . She was having an affair with him for about 9 months. You just dont stop COLD TURKEY especially when your the one paying for hotel rooms. I was right . I went thru her phone one day and discovered it wasnt over. We had a huge fight and she confessed that it wasnt over they were having s*x at their job. I was furious after all i had ended my affair and me and my wife began sleeping together. So if shes having s*x with him and me whose getting it more or are we getting it the same time (i found out later she was having s*x with us on the same day and was washing up at work before she came home to be with me). Dam i married a whore and didnt know it. I began seeing another woman i met sometime back after all i couldnt go back to my jump off i had already cut her off and i dont believe in going back on my hands and knees. So i began another affair. Hey why not? this new young lady spoils me to death,is loaded,is flat out FINE and knows my situation and offered to pay for my divorce as well. Me and my wife are fighting and arguing everyday until she comes home and tells the gentleman had been fired for messing with another co-worker in the same bathroom they would get it on in. I dont believe her plus i dont wanna leave my new love it feels great when im with her and i want for nothing. My wife goes thru my phone and discovers my new love interest. Im not even trying to hide it. So once again i cut off a potential winner to resume life with loser i married. I decide to call her job one day and ask for the gentleman. To my surprise he still works there. We begin to converse about the woman we have been sharing. He answers every question . He thought me and her were separated. Once he learned we werent he gave up all the goods. How they never wore protection,had a threesome,she bought him jewelry,she wanted to have his baby and they were still conversing on the regular but hadnt been intimate in weeks. WOOOOOOW was all i could say. Now she wants to love/be with me AGAIN because he learned what kind of liar she was and has cut her off. Oh she lost that job as well. yours truly, The whore lover Courtesy of Bossip Magazine
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Tuesday, December 28th 2010 at 10:34PM
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This is some kind of drama, eh!
Wednesday, December 29th 2010 at 12:45AM
Jen Fad
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@ Bro. Clark, I think the answer to your question is obvious... eh.
Wednesday, December 29th 2010 at 7:33PM
Jen Fad
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cause it takes one ... to know one... Ha!!
Wednesday, December 29th 2010 at 7:34PM
Jen Fad
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Yaw take sharing to a whole new level! UGH!!!! This is too nasty, both of you! All that cheating and swapping, why bother marrying in the first place? She did it to me, I did it to her, my God, this is ridiculous, pay for your own divorce and be done with it. Sounds like somebody like this!
Wednesday, December 29th 2010 at 9:30PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
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Bingo-Bango! That says a lot about the owner and ownership. Essentially, they are talking about themselves. What part of "Joined together" doesn't anyone get? And then you took an oath too, that really binded it! Wow! that's disgraceful! LOL! Better be careful, thats all I can say!
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 12:53AM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
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@ Brother Gary, [This is a text book case of "*****ISMS" and one of the main reasons the Black Family is destroyed and almost extinct. If that n*gga can turn a Ho into a house wife...Then he might have something..] Now that's deep. What kind of philosopher are you and what is the name of this philosophical thought or movement?
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 11:44AM
Jen Fad
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Scandelous indeed...this couple has no shame!!!
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 1:36PM
Siebra Muhammad
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@ Jen and Brother Gary, I must admit Brother Gary, that last statement you made, through me through a loop as well. You had me up to that point and then, ...pow! It was like a curve ball. Something I didn't expect. It does not reflect what you said at the top of your blog. Please bring clarity, everything else is on point! We wouldn't want to confuse the wise, would we?
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 7:20PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
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Brother Gary, Yes, Crystal! Thank you Brother for bringing this into focus for us. There is nothing like understanding and communication, by having this, it won't cause misinterpretations of whats being said. You are absolutely CORRECT! The magic word here is REDEMPTION, because there is none other for those who are lost. It is through Grace that deliverance and resurrection is made possible. That "Someone," that God sent after us during those lost moments you mentioned, was the "Holy Spirit" and because of the love, it was sent forth. We all need to know that we are not just a meaningless fragment in an alien universe, briefly suspended between birth and death, and only allowed a few short-lived pleasures followed by pain and ultimate annihilation. because underneath our outer forms(bodies), we are connected with something so vast, so immeasurable and sacred, that it cannot be conceived or spoken of. We need to know these things for ourselves. And for things we know not of... we need to ask somebody. Thanks for responding back to me so quickly. Darling!
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 10:08PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
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Hi Brother Mozell, I miss you! I talk to Marta everyday, she sends her love.
Thursday, December 30th 2010 at 11:12PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
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@ Brother Gary & Doc, I think I got 1/3 of what you guys were saying. This is some deep philosophy, eh! Redemption has to come to the both of the people in the above mentioned blog, because a Blind man can't lead his Blind woman unless one of them finds the light of illumination... QUICK, FAST, & IN A HURRY!
Friday, December 31st 2010 at 9:11PM
Jen Fad
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@ Brother Gary, [The teaching that the teacher brings must possess 3 elements in it in oreder to resurrrect a dead person back to life. It must contain life, light and power!] It's a MIRACLE---Blind Bartimaeus has been healed!!!
Wednesday, January 5th 2011 at 8:38PM
Jen Fad
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@Mother Goddess (hoping I am not seen as attacking if I just talk to you, lol)... Having read this theme of the blog when it was first posted, my mine went straight to does this person have any idea that the use of M-Y in wife means he takes direct 'ownership' of her therefore he must hold himself responsiable for his property?!? lol (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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@Gary and more of how we are all more alike when it comes to being natural as labels are placed on us...Buddhism says to be a Buddha one must have all of these qualities... 1. sovereign 2. teacher 3. parent (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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