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IS IT COOL TO BE A MISTRESS????? (1407 hits)

Why do so many women voluntarily put themselves in that position???
Cuz they're lonely.

It's a shortage on men.

They have no loyalty to other women.

She think he loves her more than he love his wife.

For some sick reason she believe he's gonna leave his wife.

Her ego is boosted so high cuz she's sleeping with someone elses HUSBAND.

Some how you always seem to forget, if he'll cheat on his wife he'll do it to you.

Posted By: DAVID JOHNSON
Thursday, February 3rd 2011 at 3:13AM
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I think in cases like this people should consider some of the practices of the 3rd World or Islamic people such as polygamy. At least this way the first wife will have a her status as the first wife which brings more respect and clout. The other wives can still have a piece of the man.
Thursday, February 3rd 2011 at 10:57AM
Jen Fad

Polygamy still has its place in society for nation building and for woman that accept the fact some men are polygamous. I believe we are e re-establishing this practice in the south and other parts of the country with acceptance from woman and men that are not just out their playing around.
Friday, February 18th 2011 at 7:41PM
Kim Spellmon

???
Friday, February 18th 2011 at 7:47PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

yep.. A Pimp! But I for one do not wish to participate in ((an open marriage))... I'm a liberal.. I believe in don't ask ... don't tell.... homos*xuality is not something I would practice... and I don't judge against people who do... Is it a sin??? Is lying ... stealing... killing a sin? Polygamy is still in use today... BUT also... Today we live in a culture where ... secrets are being kept... ((Down Low Brotha"s.... Bis*xual Females...)) and STD's are killing our people.....

The reasons for polygamy ... granted (Abraham) because his wife Sara was barren.... simply being able to bring forth child .... and the concubine was for.... oh you know.
Until the black man gets it together with one wife... Please having multiple wives in my opinion is ridiculous......
Friday, February 18th 2011 at 10:42PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

Well a pimp is more of a negative word for a man who I wouldn't even call a polygamist, but more of a womanizer for his own financial or personal gain and often doesn't even like women unless they are doing what he wants them to do for him. A polygamist as a man has more than one woman in most societies where it is practiced legally for the purpose of having more children and more than one wife is also often attached to his status in the village as a man that can handle the responsibility of more than one wife and many children. Yes America's laws are about population and mind control everywhere. It will not work though.
Friday, February 18th 2011 at 10:46PM
Kim Spellmon

ok... Sista Kim... tell me seriously what does the women get out of this? Whathappens if it's the husband who's infertile? Does the wife get to find another husband whom can give her babies? Im not familar with a lot of cultures when it comes to multiple marriages... I've somehow viewed it as man's control over women...
Friday, February 18th 2011 at 10:56PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

I am familiar with some of the reasons for the practice of polygamy for a man having more than one wife. Although I do know there are or were cultures where women were allowed to have more than one husband. I am less familiar with the reasoning behind this other than that they were royalty.

First of all their are s*x laws that coincide with divine natural law that tells us we should only be having s*x during the mating season from approximately March 21st to June 21st or so in the spring. I know this is a hard concept for us to swallow, but the animals which are considered lower than us follow this practice while humans have s*x all year long, I would say because of poor dietary habits and a s*x centered society. s*x is actually meant for procreation. Your s*xual energy runs through your heart and feeds your brain. The tree of life feeds the tree of knowledge. Ancient wisdom once taught us the importance of keeping our divine essence of body fluid inside our body.

When a mother conceives a child she is supposed to nurse her child for 3 years without s*x or else this interferes with genetic information being passed on to the child through the mothers breast milk. I don't know the period of time that a male is supposed to be celibate or even if he is, but in between time he could impregnate some of his other wives still within the mating season following divine natural law our children will be stronger and have much better sense if these practices were still followed. But we obviously have a long way to go to get back to this.

s*x shortens our life span and the lifespan of our children. We used to live to be at least 100's of years old. Polygamy is no uncontrolled s*xual behavior or the control of another person, that is just what we have began to think or practice.

Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 12:33AM
Kim Spellmon

oh my!!! Sista you have just messed me up! I don't know what to say.... Let me compose myself before I say anything more!!! Mating season.... 3 years of refraining...

But let me ask this.... Is this the reason some African Cultures believe in circumscision of females... by way of removing the clitoris, because females are not to have pleasure from s*x?
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 1:32AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

circumscision of females; circumscision of males are the Monotheistic Practices given The Family of Adaam(as), from Ibraheem, Musa, IsaIbnMaryam thru Mohamed(asm)

----FGM---is a term used by paganChristian europeanThinkers who gave us the SAVAGERY of 1492-1864 slaverAmericana; as well as negra"MISTRESS"----

paganChristians have denigrated the beauty and feelings of WomanHood that Muslim, Jewish and African women Achieve--

Muslim, Jewish and African women--- ALL have MORE CHILDREN AND MORE PLEASURABLE EXPERIENCES WITH THEIR Husbands, than europeanChristian non circumsized men and women.

"Proof is in the puddy"

-be responsible Believing Men and Marry the woman, or women of your and her choice and do not commit Adultery.

Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 10:51AM
powell robert

I heard about this around 1999... Tyra Banks and Terry McMillian talked about this ..

Islamic Republic of Mauritania in North Africa... 40% mixed Moor/Black; 30% Moor; 29% Black.... is another country... they have some wild out practices!
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 10:52AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

Robert what do you mean? Explain to me... so that i can understand... female circumcision is a practice passed down from Adam?
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 10:56AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

I agree 100% with Miisrael.
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 11:21AM
Steve Williams

male and female circumcision is a practice of Monotheism.

the critics of this are always proved wrong, Scientifically and Biologically;

male circumcision is healthier than non, and female circumcision is healthier than non AND AtTaurat, The Laws of Musa, AlInjeel, AzZaboor(which miisrael and steve above list), and AlQur'aan are very specific about this Healthy Human Practice.

AND more children are conceived by circumcised male/female --- So, my opinion and history, better Pleasure for Male and Female Married Partners.......................

Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 11:37AM
powell robert

oh no! no! call me narrow minded on this subject... I don't like mutilation of any sort..
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 12:06PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

I know it is still important in some African cultures for a women to be virgins. I don't believe in the mutilation though but without your clitoris I am sure you are less s*xual and may concentrate more on raising your family. It is a form of s*xual control to me unless the woman agrees with the procedure. Men need to control themselves too. Some say circumcision stems from religious beliefs. Maybe the circumcision/mutilation topic deserves some research. Maybe it is beneficial. To control your s*xual energy normally takes a lot of spiritual practice because it has become naturally harder to do with the chemicals and pollutants we are eating or breathing and of course all the things that come into our worldly vision.

So back to the mistress. The mating season is almost here, so who is this mystery mistress? What does she get out of being the other women?
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 1:29PM
Kim Spellmon

well... i'm not into group s*x.... or open relationships... nor swinging.......
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 1:38PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

Healthy s*xual practices are good. A lot of people don't like to talk about infidelity past our present. I guess I was always too selfish to ever be into sharing. Abstinence is a good spiritual practice but normally not promoted like c*ndoms.
Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 2:09PM
Kim Spellmon

again, ladies---you listen to WHO.

nonEuropean paganChristians call something mutilation--

The Creator of Adaam(as) and Believers call it male/*female circumcision.

Ask a Believer, ask a Doctor, ask the source NOT the gossip.

Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 5:54PM
powell robert

the africanSlave girl did not have a right to choose the MASTER---she did not have the right in 1492 and in 2011 the Mistress is a dangerous medical risk.

Sunday, February 20th 2011 at 6:00PM
powell robert

uuummm My Lady you ask some thought provoking questions.. I don't know how to answer them... I just find alot of "s*xual diversities" different my morals... I have never gotten involved in affairs, sharing, cheating... any forms of abuse, mutilation, superiority, depriving women of their rights nor desires...

For me... polygamy isn't the answer... children being married off and forced into s*x. I don't agree that I should allow my children to start exploring s*x without proper education and protection.
Monday, February 21st 2011 at 2:05AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis

Maryam the Mother of Isa was a child as we label in English in 2011.

She was given---- for HER DEVOTION to the Creator of Adaam(as); by The Creator of Mankind--------- a Miraculous Womanhood and MotherHood.

Again, I ask WHO do you get your info from?

Marriage is the Creators' GIFT to Adaam, to Mankind-----For Survival----A knowledge that was not given in a Cave(dark, dirty, hidden) but in a Paradise(lighted, beautiful and open for all of Creation to witness)

YaAllaah, shukraAllaah, AlHamdullillaah................

Monday, February 21st 2011 at 8:33AM
powell robert

Some how you always seem to forget, if he'll cheat on his wife he'll do it to you.

Monday, February 28th 2011 at 3:53PM
DAVID JOHNSON

..."I" believes it all boils down to who lives your life? example,

Do you have enough self esteem to live your own life by your rules of what makes you happy , safe and content...or do you depend on others to determine your self worth / your happiness for you instead ?!? (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA

...and, I am sure all of us have at one time or another have been defined as something/ some person, we are not in real life. ..correct? lol (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA

...now I will say this and leave...

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF TEH FEMALE IN YOUR bIBLE...AND WHY THESE ROLES SO DEMEANING TO THE FEMALE ...(AS REGULATED TO BEING A s*x OBJECT AS I BARING CHILDREN..MALES IN SPECIFIC WITH NO VOICE IN WHO SHE IS FORCED TO SLEEP WITH AT LEAST A MISTRESS CAN MAKE HER OWN CHOICES OF HER BED PARTNER...WHICH TO ME IS A GREAT STEP UP TO NOT BEING JUST A s*x O-B-J-E-C-T )

AND SO UP LIFITNG TO THE MALE HE GETS ALL TEH RIGHTS TO CHOSE THEIR s*x OBJECT DOES HE NOT UNLESS HE DIES THEN HIS BROTHER AUTOMATICALLY GETS AN ADDITIONAL s*x OBJECT AS COUSTM OR RELIGIOUS RITES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!? (NUP)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA

@cYNTHIA, HAVE YOU EVER FOUND IT NECESSARY TO CONDEMN THE JEWS FOR THIS PRACtice or again is it just the female that the negative like pain in child birth...when in reality the pain comes from our body separating to give birth...

brest feeding is a form of birt control that maybe has lead to this false image of there must not be any s*x going on...or maybe even a way to calim we in the Black race are not intellegant enough to have know about birth control????

lets see if we were having s*x back during the man living in caves then maybe it really does have s*x having to do NATURAL BEHAVIORS ...with the survival of the human race rather than man made behavoir...LIKE MEN RAPING WOMEN...MEN OF TEH CLOTH RAPING CHILDREN...YOUNGE CHILDREN HAVING HARDS FOR NO REASON AT ALL BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING ABOUT THIS AS A MEANING JUST IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH PASING URINE SO THE BODY WILL NOT BE POISONED FROM RETINTION OF THIS MATTER IN TEH BODY AGAIN SOMETHING TO DO WITH SURVIVAL OF TEH HUMAN SPECIES?!?

SLEF CONTROL CAN NOT BE REGULATED BY MAN OR GOD'S LAWS BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE H-U-M-A-N NATURAL BEHAVIORS AND WE ARE ALL I-N-D-I-V-I-D-U-A-L-S...

NOW IS GETTING A DIVORCE WIPING OUT YOU HAVE BEENSLEEPING WITH MORE THAN ONE SPOUSE...DO PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY CAN NOT HAVE CHILDREN STOP HAVING s*x...s*xUAL DESIRES...OR DO WE JUST OVER LOOK THIS AND REWRITE THE MARRIAGE, HAVING CHILDREN RULES EACH TIME..."I" DO KNOW THE POPE REJECTS VIRGIN BIRTH NOW THAT IS IS BEIND DONE...AND AS I JUST SAID, DO WE JUST REWRITE THE RULE BOOKS ON WHY , WHEN, HOW TO HAVE s*xUAL DESIRES AS OUR SCIENCE POEIABILITIES CHANGE THE REALITY OF LIFE IS A PROCESS AND SOCUAL RULES HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH NATURAL INSTINCTS TO SURVIVE AND TO BE HAPPY WHILE LIVING/ SURVIVING???

now i really will go tis time.lol (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA

@robert, another man made social behavior m-y-t-h is one can not/ is illegal to kill their ownself. After all how can you control a dead person?!?

Any one can chose the hour of their deat just as sure as a murderor , the prison warden , war , your lover can do this..."I" can kill myself any time I c-h-o-o-s-e to do so because I am in control of all of my behaviors. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA