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Jake needs feedback for a special day- Jen, Irma, Clark, Gary and all others!!! (688 hits)

Today I was planning some finishing touches to my engagement celebration this coming June and have been working with my parents, close friends, and business owner colleague to ensure a pleasurable and memorable moment in the walk of life. I decided to do a romantic 4 star plus restaurant to pop the question early in the week to avoid large crowds on the weekends. Followed by a horse driven carriage ride at Central Park where we meet initially. My business partner has confirmed a Executive 2 bedroom Suite for a party of approximately 20 people in Manhattan in July. I believe it's proper etiquette to invite both parents without a doubt. The dillema I face; should this be a basic cocktail party with hors d'oeuvres and champagne, wine, and light alcohol beverages? My partner has hired a DJ for light sounds, jazz, classic, and light club, not to hot n heavy. Should we provide a meal beyond the classic hors d'oeuvres? Should I give Janelle a gift? Should the guest dress formal or business casual? Invitations will be sent by my business partner to the guests, recommendations on formats?, elaborate, medium, light, printed invitations and reply cards???
Finally I have selected the ring design and tried not to be over-the-top, thoughts on the attached picture?
Any other suggestions would be welcome as I am seeking guidance from a variety of people to get the event done right.


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Dear Saint:

Your Janelle is a very fortunate woman to have a man as thoughtful and caring as you.

I wish you both all the greatest good fortune you can ever want!!!

PEACE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH!!!






Saturday, April 9th 2011 at 10:22AM
Richard Kigel
WAY TO GO JAKE!!!
Saturday, April 9th 2011 at 7:24PM
Siebra Muhammad
Here's a poem you can use for that special day...

THE UNION OF HUSBAND AND WIFE

What is above the union of husband and wife
A union of such is a heavenly right
So sweet a union of life
A union void of friction and strife

Oh, that's a union blessed by The Most High
Just the thought of such a union makes one cry
To know your union is touch in such a way
Will forever eliminate the need to pray

What is above the union of husband and wife
A union considered to be an exclusive right
Joined at the head and hip, connected by the power of love
Discharged in a single stream of might
Awe, sweet heaven of pleasures and delight
Such a union worthy of restoring a blind man's sight

A union bringing the strongest man down to his knees
And a humble man smiling with glee
Such a union this is, even the enemy of God is pleased

Who can separated God's union of husband and wife
Woe to the surgeon using his finest surgical knife
For what God put together, let no man put asunder
Or you shall hear Mother Nature's warning
Going into her bag of wonders
Releasing the sounds of thunder

What is above the union of husband and wife
Why there is no math that can calculate such a height
Silencing the words of mortals impressed
Leaving them to make a shape or outline in the air
So looked upon it causes ones to stare

Wow God's union of husband and wife
Is a union destined for a blissful life
What is above the union of husband and wife
A light that shines so bright
Dispelling the darkness in the night

What is between the union of husband and wife
Space and opportunity for the rest of your life!


Saturday, April 9th 2011 at 9:18PM
Siebra Muhammad
And yes, you and Janelle have my blessings (smile)
Saturday, April 9th 2011 at 9:19PM
Siebra Muhammad
Jake your party gives off an excellent aura.. I suggest as far as dress office dress to semi-formal would seem appropriate. Yes, to the gift for Janelle! That'll be a perfect tone to the pre-wedding party. No dinner is necessary I don't think...The tone gives off a perfect setting.....AND CONGRATS goes highly to you both!

I love weddings and anything having to do with a bride!
That's so beautiful.
May God give you abundance and favor in your future unity.
Saturday, April 9th 2011 at 10:05PM
MIISRAEL Bride
@Saint,
Wow~ I've been working and almost missed this blog!!!! I'm almost speechless, if you can believe that. First off, I love that ring... it's beautiful! I agree with Brother Clark's response minus the cruise because I don't like them. Regarding the invitations, I'd go with elaborate invitations w/ reply cards. It's not everyday that a girl get's engaged you know!!
Sunday, April 10th 2011 at 5:32AM
Jen Fad
Congratulations Jake, Best wishes for you and your future bride. I would have made a comment earlier but you know how it is when the enemy keeps trying to play mind games with you. There is a picture that keeps flashing across the scene that resembles my dead daughters husband, on the Lake College advertisement. I started thinking about how the same preacher that married them reformed the funeral a year later. Anyway I had to pull myself together. I hope that you have a wonderful engagement party. Sounds like you're off to a great start on you new life together.
Wednesday, April 13th 2011 at 8:38AM
Helen Lofton
Thanks fo the invite ( in spirit) Jake...My advice is because you and your future Bide are already best friends then just go with you first thoughts about what to do in this case of making plans here...

"I" do believe the first thought is always the best thought. (smile)

All of my best to you and Janelle. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
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