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Hoodwinked and Bamboozled: New Research SHATTERS Myths About The Availability Of “GOOD” BLACK MEN!!! (322 hits)



By Black Love And Marriage.com on August 12, 2011

In Love & Marriage


By Team BLAM

Finally, there’s a statistical analysis of relationship dynamics in the black community that offers a ray of hope instead of the persistent “gloom and doom” prophesy about black marriage that we’ve all become too familiar with. In light of a recent article in the Wall Street Journal suggesting an unconventional approach to marriage woes for black women, a good friend of ours, DeShuna Spencer of Empower Magazine, published an article earlier this week by Dr. Ivory A. Toldson and Dr. Bryant Marks that challenges the media propaganda about black marriage and asserts that there are AVAILABLE and ELIGIBLE black men.

Below you’ll find some of the statistical data presented by Dr. Toldson and Dr. Marks in their Empower Magazine piece. Trust and believe you’ll be surprised by what was found.

WHY ALL THE FOCUS ON SINGLE BLACK WOMEN

For example, we examine ABC News, Nightline feature article, “Single, Black, Female — and Plenty of Company.” Taking this statement literally, we should understand that single white women have more “company” than single black women. In the US, 6.2 million black women have never been married, compared to 16.6 million white women. Therefore, a single white female has 10 million more counterparts with whomto enjoy single life than black women.

WHERE ARE THE “GOOD” AND “SUCCESSFUL” BLACK MEN?

Nationwide, although more than 800,000 more black women than black men have at least a bachelor’s degree, almost 200,000 more black men than black women earn more than $75,000 per year. In America,725,922 black men earn more than $75,000 compared to 528,204 black women; 100,000 more black men earn more than $100,000 than black women; and black men are twice as likely to earn more than a quarter million dollars. Therefore, if we define success in terms of education, there will never be enough black men for black women, but if we define success in terms of income, there is still some hope for black love.

Education increases the chances that a black male will earn a higher income but does not completely determine income. Several occupations that do not require a college degree are overrepresented among six figure black men. The top five occupations for black men who make six figures without a college degree are: (1) managers, (2) truck drivers, (3) police officers, (4) construction workers, and (5) bailiffs, correctional officers, and jailers. Interestingly, rounding out the top 10 are janitors and building cleaners; a profession that accounts for 1,431 black men who make six figures.

A LOT OF BLACK MEN WHO MIGHT BE MARRIAGE MATERIAL ARE GAY

From our data, we can estimate that578,533 (4.8 percent) black men and 2.5 million (3.4 percent) white men are in cohabitating relationships with other men. When comparing only white and black men who have college degrees the percent who are cohabitating with men is 2.6 percent for both races. We understand that only a small percentage of the total homos*xual population cohabitate, however this is evidence against the theory that homos*xuality is overrepresented among college educated black men.

SUCCESSFUL BLACK MEN ONLY WANT WHITE WOMEN

Eighty-eight percent of all black men who are married are married to black women. When we use the census to compare household economic status between black and interracial couples, we find that 8 percent of black males who are living at or near poverty have a white wife, and 9 percent of black males who are middle class or better have a white wife. Among married black men with a personal income of more than $100,000, 12 percent have a white wife, 83 percent have a black wife, and 5 percent have a wife who is neither black nor white. Six percent of married black men who are high school dropouts have a white wife and 92 percent have black wives. Among black men with college degrees, 10 percent have a white wife and 85 percent have black wives. Among black male professional athletes, 72.8% are married to black women, 22.2% are married to white women, and 5% are married to women who are neither black nor white.

BLAM Fam what are your thoughts about this data? We at BLAM personally feel that it’s refreshing to see some news that’s encouraging when it comes to relationship dynamics in our community. YES…WE KNOW WE STILL GOT A LOT OF WORK TO DO. If nothing else, we hope that you take from this study that ..

1.THERE ARE “GOOD” BLACK MEN WHO ARE AVAILABLE.

2. ALL BLACK MEN AREN’T LOSERS.

3. MEDIA PROPAGANDA IS REAL AND SERVES IT’S OWN AGENDA

4. THERE’S HOPE FOR BLACK LOVE AND BLACK MARRIAGE.

To read the entire article visit Empower Magazine.

P.S. Great Piece DeShuna


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I was telling my relative on this past Friday that one needs to be sure that we're not writing off good men. When she told me that he liked to spend his money gambling at the races, I asked her why she didn't cut to the case from the start and tell me that he was a gambler from the start?! There is no life to build with someone who is addicted to gambling all the family money away on horses and whatknot. For the most part, there are available men out there who if one prays hard enough that one's path cross, that special someone will show up in no time.

Here's what I prayed and confessed on a regular basis regarding a good man who would be marriage material :

~God is preparing the perfect mate for me, and when the Spirit of God causes our paths to cross, I have favor in his/her eyes.

~The Holy Spirit leads and guides me for my steps are ordered by God.

~ I choose to keep myself Holy until marriage. ( Well I tried to keep myself holy and pure, but I fell short at times.)

~ I only think those things that are true, honest, pure and of good report. (Not there are no good men out there, not all men are dogs, not most of the men are gay, not successful women can't find husbands, ect, ...)

~I am a child of God, loved by my Father. ( Saying this helped me to overcome the void left by not having the love of my biological father in my life.)

~I live a victorious, overcoming life. ( God had my back although I was single at the time.)

~Every need in my life is met. ( My bills were paid, I had food on my table, and a roof over my head without the help of Sugardaddies, drug dealers, prostituting, or making myself available for men to use me or "buy me" with gifts... If I did slip up with a booty call, we were using each other. Ha!)

~Jesus Christ is lord over my spirit, my soul, and my body. ( I slipped up at times on this one especially the body portion... whew... Jesus helped me to overcome the missing the mark by my conscious decision to guard my eyes and ears from romance novels, racey magazine covers, suggestive music lyrics, television programs with s*x scenes in music videos ect... stuff like that!)

~I walk in divine health; sickness and disease have no place in my body because I am covered by the blood of Jesus. (I exercised alot and ate properly.)

~I am committed to be diligent in the things of God, because God is a rewarder of the diligent. (I made sure to pray for people as well as help people which is the reason I'm a nurse because I like helping folk.)

~In Jesus Name, I walk by faith and not by sight. ( No matter what, I kept believing that my man was going to cross my path even though I was meeting attractive and successful men but they were not marriage material.)


Now I've put all my business out there. ... It don't matter now, because I'm married with kids. These things worked for me and I know they will work for any young woman who will WORK the confessions in prayer, too.






Sunday, August 14th 2011 at 6:15PM
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You go boy on finding your woman! Lol
Wednesday, August 17th 2011 at 11:57PM
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