I have to admit I live somewhere out in the fantasy world when it comes to love and romance. Like many men and women I have had several disappointing relationships. I had to find a place where I could love fully without limitations. But I'm writing this to women and men. It is from one woman's view-- my own; and not necessary views of other men or women.
But when your man or woman says; " I love you" ....you want to believe it's true love. You want to be truly loved. Not in words only. If he or she says those three words...they shouldn't be coached into it nor, should you have to ask he or she: "Do you love me?
I urge you to be on your guard! By this I mean learning the difference of an infacuation and love. Infacuations are wonderful feelings, they are things you imagine of being in love with someone. These are thoughts of wonderful sharing and how you would like to share as much time with a person which may lead to possible committments of marriage. Love, however takes it a bit further. Love is deeper feelings of initimacy. Infacuation and Love is not s*x. s*x can be done without infacuations or any love at all. To be frank, s*x can be just "lustful love" with not emotional attachment. Daily, so many hearts are broken because they think that love is having a relationship of good s*x. I hope that I given you a little more clarification of defining feelings of infacuations of love and real love. You are opened to view your own comments on this one.
How are to you truly know if what your partner is telling you is true? Honestly, you can only know if you have believed he or she ; and by how his or her love has been displayed to you. Then many times these signs of love fade as a relationship grows. In turn, they tend to be less in loving you and become ones of where the love fades away into weary feelings. Of course, relationships can become full of other conflicts as well. So be careful and look for signs early.
True love is existing in hearts of many men and women and they really mean it when they say those magical words of "I love you." Lovers who become friends first, usually last, and choosing someone who can display integrity, trust, understanding and loving you for who you are inside and out. A relationship of love is based on not changing who you are, unless it to make you better in expressing your self esteem, not getting you to become what they'd like you to become to suit themselves.
When your man or woman says; "I love you" good skills of identifying love are helpful. I think that one should be cautious in affairs of the heart. I believe in commitments of love and in marriage. If, he or she really loves in your relationship, there should be a commitment to marry you too. I'm from "Old school" I don't believe in shacking. However, that's another topic for another blog.
Where did I find the fulfilment in my love? I found it in loving the Lord. When I perform as a bride and tell him "It is you that I love!" It's my love's cry and I have found a beautiful love and commitment. I love others too. Truly, deeply and sincerely.
I hope this blog has inspired you to love truly so that you can display true love to your mate as well as your maker. Always in promise keep love alive and thriving.
Love and Harmony,
MIISRAEL
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Posted By: MIISRAEL Bride
Saturday, August 16th 2008 at 10:42AM
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