I shouldn't have blogged about Domestic Violence.
Should have kept the secret a secret. I Should have let a woman whose head is being bashed into a wall right now suffer silently- not voice her pain.
Should have let all of "our boys" off the hook, should have not defended my sisters whatever color they are, or culture they belong to.
Should have joined the legions of other women who want to keep this undercover.
Should have defended every broken down, pitiful male that "can't handle his emotions,
but can handle a Glock.
Shouldn't have spoken up for the little angels who have to watch the frightening horrors, some staying by the side of a bleeding corpse at 2 and 3 years of age.
Should deny the love for our young children 11, and 12-year-old males whose moment in violence run the gamut of conflicting emotions--as to whether to defend their mothers or listen to her pleas to stay out of it and further confuse his mind (and soul.)
Should have enabled the brothers in abusing women, disrespecting their mothers and using women as a whipping boy.
Shouldn't have tried to explain, that violence is an emotional, psycho-chemical in balance.
Shouldn't have tried to educate and share my education in the area of physical abuse across all societies.
Should have LMAO at Rihanna like many and said yea **** you deserved it hahahahaha!
Shouldn't be surprised no one spoke in terms of "their own mothers" or "their own daughters"
in a clearly protective way.
Shouldn't be surprised that it's the victim's fault. It's her fault if she's hit, oh,but it's not "his" fault if he is hit-oh.
Shouldn't be surprised that women didn't stand beside me despite all that talk about unity.
But I am surprised at all the cry baby males, that came out of the woodwork.
However I am NOT surprised how little women think of themselves in the advancement of the survival of the species. Nor the qualitative and quantitative ego protecting mechanisms such as integrity, courage, honor and Self-worth, Self-actualization , Self -respect.
Less emphasis on butt size, weaves,and self satisfying pronouncements and more of the real big girl sense of self love based on courage is what appears to be missing. One can be strong, and still lack self-knowledge. So, ok you in your house do as you please, as for me in my house--nobody is getting abused.
Should have let all of "our boys" off the hook, should have not defended my sisters whatever color they are, or culture they belong to.
Should have joined the legions of other women who want to keep this undercover.
Should have defended every broken down, pitiful male that "can't handle his emotions,
but can handle a Glock.
Shouldn't have spoken up for the little angels who have to watch the frightening horrors, some staying by the side of a bleeding corpse at 2 and 3 years of age.
Should deny the love for our young children 11, and 12-year-old males whose moment in violence run the gamut of conflicting emotions--as to whether to defend their mothers or listen to her pleas to stay out of it and further confuse his mind (and soul.)
Should have enabled the brothers in abusing women, disrespecting their mothers and using women as a whipping boy.
Shouldn't have tried to explain, that violence is an emotional, psycho-chemical in balance.
Shouldn't have tried to educate and share my education in the area of physical abuse across all societies.
Should have LMAO at Rihanna like many and said yea **** you deserved it hahahahaha!
Shouldn't be surprised no one spoke in terms of "their own mothers" or "their own daughters"
in a clearly protective way.
Shouldn't be surprised that it's the victim's fault. It's her fault if she's hit, oh,but it's not "his" fault if he is hit-oh.
Shouldn't be surprised that women didn't stand beside me despite all that talk about unity.
But I am surprised at all the cry baby males, that came out of the woodwork.
However I am NOT surprised how little women think of themselves in the advancement of the survival of the species. Nor the qualitative and quantitative ego protecting mechanisms such as integrity, courage, honor and Self-worth, Self-actualization , Self -respect.
Less emphasis on butt size, weaves,and self satisfying pronouncements and more of the real big girl sense of self love based on courage is what appears to be missing. One can be strong, and still lack self-knowledge. So, ok you in your house do as you please, as for me in my house--nobody is getting abused.
I have to disagree with you Marta, YES you should have spoke about this very important issue that has and still permeates all over the world. Abuse in all of its forms be it physical, mental, emotional or spiritually is very damaging to an individual both males and females. Sadly enough some people have been so broken down internally that they don't even realize how affected they have been, but one can hear it in their statements or responses to issues like this. I can be more than certain that some of the people that blog on this site are still going through this and many have been there before, not all have been subjected to abuse, but I would not be surprised if the numbers are more than 50%. Like I mentioned before in another one of the blogs on this subject, I am a survivor of many things and having frank discussions about this subject it not a problem for me, but there are some people that say they are survivors and are in fact still victims of the abuse.
So as I started this comment I will end this comment with the same. Yes you should have blogged about this serious and very toxic issue that claims millions of lives every year in more ways than one, including by not limited to death.