Topic of the Week: For Better or Worse My Foot!!!

This one I can speak on. 5 years ago I went into cardiac arrest and woke up 8 weeks later with a trachea, lungs that were almost useless. My life completely changed. I could not provide the life my family was acustomed to (financially or physically. People would comment to my husband that they did not know if they could deal wth it. Or she is lucky. My husband let that stuff cloud his judgeme

sorry...as I was saying he let the hype cloud his judgement and all hell broke lose we seperated many times and this summer after he filed for divorce and I realized he wasn't worthy of the wife i'd been my health took a turn for the worse.
God don't like ugly and I guess like walking pass a mirror he saw himself . And it hit him that his family would rather be homeless than live with him; and i changed him and it eventually allowed us to like each other, than care and now we are living together again.

What happen to for better or for worse, the party saying it din't believe that would happen to them some made it through and others didn't. They forgot they were friends and not mere partners

As Sherry said her husband let others influence his judgement. My family has generations of long marriages (even through all that they went through) and one concurrent theme is communication and trust. When a loved ones stops communicating and trusting that this is where they want to be whatever relationship they are in will be doomed to fail.

You know the song "Stand". Well after many a surgery that I have had my husband of 10 years, just 10! Is still here with me, providing for his family and taking care of his wife. Only a weak man or woman would walk away from someone that they claimed to have loved so much that they just had to be with them, then one day their physical appearance or capabilities change and like the wind their love flies out the door. Maybe, just maybe it's me, but is that true love? My husband has been there for me through my cancer, shoulder surgery, etc. and I am confident that he is my soul mate until the Lord decides to take one of us on home. Work that out! Praise Him!

Oh, and one other thing, if something were to happen to him and he became ill and his income was needed, we know how to move to a smaller home and let the expensive vehicles go. It's nothing but material wants anyway. I'm wondering why we even brought such a large home these days. That's love!