IF YOU WERE STEVE MCNAIR'S WIFE, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

I don't know what she should do...that's a personal decision. My heart aches for her and her children.

This is so difficult. As his wife, and for my children I would attend his services. The pain, hurt, and deception I would have to find a way to deal with..be it counseling, heavy praying--whatever, but yes--I would attend for my children's sake.

I'll be honest. As forgiving a person as I am, I would struggle with whether or not to grieve him or spit on him. That's a heck of a way to find out your husband has been unfaithful. I'm pretty sure that if I was her, I'd grieve him either way because regardless of the betrayal that is infidelity, she loved the man. And there are better ways to show it, but perhaps he loved her, too. She'll grieve...and she should. No matter how you look at this, it is a loss. And what's more, it's a loss than cannot be recovered or rekindled because he's dead.

My prayers go out to her and her family.

Blessings...

I will pray that this mother of four will do what is best for her children...because if she does any thing for short term plesures like thinking only of how she will look to the 'Jones" she will end up with long term pain for not putting her children first...

You are so right about counseling Marina, because at times like these when a child has no way to be able to fully understand the whys and what cause all of this drastic life change then they far too often begin to come to believe that they are the ones that cause all of this unhappiness...

This is why I believe that all should be centered around the needs of these childrenat least for now, because not only are they innocent in all of this they must be able to come to terms on their level not that of the adults, be they innocent of cheating or not.

The adults are responisable for all of this, and not thesse children...