Attitude and Attitudes?
Take hold and evaluate you! When someone is whispering or telling you in your face you have an attitude what exactly are they seeing in you? Let's face it we all want to show for the most part a good attitude. To do that; you will have to examine yourself and then project how you want to seen. Although some attitudes are good, others may not be so receiving. Maybe you're not the charming light of a persons day, and maybe you just don't get it or even care about what others are thinking of you as far as your attitude. Attitudes can define you and cause to be liked much --or hated a lot.
If attitudes concern you somewhat and you're wanting just to sharpen your presence around others; you have to evaluate what intervals of your attitudes may need or require adjusting. Only you can do this for your own reason and for your own benefit. There'll always be others who'll have something to say about you. Don't let that stop you from being who you are inside. Changes an attitude does not mean changing who you are! It sharpens your ability to become more social and a more approachable person.
Start by taking a look at your expressions, your gestures, and how and what your conversations consist of. People tend to become tired of a persons who complains. Having negative words to say about any or everything usually turn people away. This normally requires correction and a constant watch on your own complaining. Don't take it literary that every word someone says to you has to have a reply or a rebuttal in return from you. Think of how you can say a positive response; or have more constructive way to wording your statement. You have to be willing to try, and of course the attitude you show can give you a more pleasing personality for you and for others. I'm only giving suggestions, none of these are written as instructions you can follow. If you want to change an attitude that you have-- it'll have to begin with you. I am wishing you one with a good attitudes, knowing when to react accordingly with discretion and responsible actions.
Thanks for reading.
If attitudes concern you somewhat and you're wanting just to sharpen your presence around others; you have to evaluate what intervals of your attitudes may need or require adjusting. Only you can do this for your own reason and for your own benefit. There'll always be others who'll have something to say about you. Don't let that stop you from being who you are inside. Changes an attitude does not mean changing who you are! It sharpens your ability to become more social and a more approachable person.
Start by taking a look at your expressions, your gestures, and how and what your conversations consist of. People tend to become tired of a persons who complains. Having negative words to say about any or everything usually turn people away. This normally requires correction and a constant watch on your own complaining. Don't take it literary that every word someone says to you has to have a reply or a rebuttal in return from you. Think of how you can say a positive response; or have more constructive way to wording your statement. You have to be willing to try, and of course the attitude you show can give you a more pleasing personality for you and for others. I'm only giving suggestions, none of these are written as instructions you can follow. If you want to change an attitude that you have-- it'll have to begin with you. I am wishing you one with a good attitudes, knowing when to react accordingly with discretion and responsible actions.
Thanks for reading.
And of course it is that much harder on boards (sorry, old term) like this, where you cannot see those gestures, eye contact, or hear the tone of words. I am impressed here to find one of the most civil forums I've been on.
And I so enjoy your posts, Miisrael.