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Sis. Jen...
It saddens me to hear of such...There is no basis a pastor or any male can find in the Bible for hitting a woman. To reconsile that it is OK for a person to strike his wife because the persons father resorted to such measures compounds the problem. First, the bleeding must stop...Hence, the purpose of the blog...then we need to include in high school academia social skills including measures in venting frustrations between persons dating and start there. There are many options a man can use, rather than resorting to physical violence like walking away, leaving out the door, putting his hands in his pocket, go run or jog, refuse to speak until the female calms down, go talk it over with his homies and many more. Almighty God intends this fault in the Black male to subside by stinging the Black male that engage in such immature tactics with a chastisement. But, please Jen...Do not charge all Black men with this behavior due to this incident, though, it happens all too often. And I do feel for you !
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Alright Brother Jamal,
I think this is good that you have pointed out that Black men shouldn't beat their mates whom Allah has blessed him with. This message is a truly note worthy message in my opinion ( not that I didn't like the other blogs if only for their entertainment value), because beating/hitting/striking/tapping another human being is just not what is beneficial. It's interesting that you you the word chastisement, because I was reading something from the Holy book the Q'uran regards this chastiment / beat that is taken out of context by well meaning men (is what I call them for the benefit of doubt) but nonetheless immature and ignorant persons.
I have been in relationship where the guy hit me and I would hit him... it took me a while to realize my worth that a civilized person doesn't resort to physical violence or physical abuse in order to communicate his/her point. Both of us at that time were searching for things that we both missed out on in our childhood... (Good men who I like to call FATHERS). His father happened to have been a pastor who beat his mother when he was married to his mom. Sad isn't it?