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Who Was Marta Fernandez, ex- Black in America Member Booted From BIA because of You Know Who (Siebra)

Jen Fad · Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 8:39AM · 509 views
I was trying to be nice and mind my own business like I always do except when someone sticks their nose where it doesn't belong (( in my business)). I would just like to say that I've tried to give Siebra some time to repent of her evil ways (gossiping, back biting, causing division amongst believers, speaking lies, etc... the list goes on), but she has decided to pretend that she is sweet and innocent.

This is the story you all have been waiting for and here it is. Marta Fernandez was our dear Cuban sister who added much spice to our community with her intellect and feisty blog responses to many of us. She was born in Cuba and immigrated to the United States. A very successful Anthropologist and sought after speaker and lecturer from her days of teaching university students--- she brought all she had to this site...

But like most Black communities, we can't stand to see successful, beautiful, outspoken sistahs "drop it like its hot". Marta was our beloved sistah and the Top Blogger of the site for many months which caused others to be at odds with her at times, but none like other Black women. Why is it when Black women see another one of us doing well, we hate and become envious--jealous?

The story goes, Marta was at odds with someone who was "rolling back her numbers" who had administrator privileges and Siebra got wind of it. She pretended to be a Marta Sympathizer when all along she was looking to be at the Top Blogging Spot.

The rest is history... Congrats Siebra for being the Reigning Queen & Top Blogger for Both the Black Women Connect Site and here at Black in America! You deserve all you get.

Signed
Juicy Fruit

P.S. Marta this is for you with love my Cuban Friend-- Love Ya & Miss Ya Girlfriend-- This song is dedicated to missing you.

Beautiful Live Performance of Diana Ross Singing - Missing You
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkHXIipwlIQ...
Who Was Marta Fernandez, ex- Black in America Member Booted From BIA because of You Know Who (Siebra)

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Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:42AM

Jen...........

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:45AM

Cynthia.....

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:46AM

What does this have to do with me..... Jen this is not how you do it ....

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:47AM

Jen I have been following behind you on every blogggg....

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 10:09AM

Ok Cynthia

Tell me how its done? I'm all ears... (((you have my undivided attention))

Siebra Muhammad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 11:00AM

WELL, EXCUSE THE HELL OUT OF ME!!!

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 11:19AM

Oh so now you show up Siebra. I thought this blog would bring your trifling behind out of the shadows and there are no Excuses for You! Is that all you have to say ((nothing)) just as I suspected.

You are not even in my league you trifling excuse for a Black person. Next time you decided to be site administrator/peace maker (trouble maker), pick on someone your own size.

So what are you and your moms Irma saying about me in secret. I'd like to see some of those Emails>
[Tagged by Siebra Muhammad on 06/01/2010 2010
[respond] [block] [delete]
Hey Mom, please check your email as soon as you read this message. Thanks! ]

So why don't you post them and let us all see how sweet and how much of a peace maker you are?

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 12:28PM

@ Bro. Mozell

..."There is alot of work yet to accomplish"...

I know one thing, Black people have so much work to do with themselves before anything meaningful can ever be accomplished in the Black community by Black people. I agree this is petty and I knew it was when I addressed the issue.

But someone had to do it And I'm the Woman for the job. I personally don't give an iota about any numbers, but some people here Do. I personally believe in the Agree to Disagree phrase and I have done so on numerous occasions; however, this issue is fundamentally different in the sense that Siebra and Irma decided to form a tag team to gang up against me attempting to bully me into submission.

Jealousy and Envy will get them no where. Siebra and Irma can keep hatin' but it won't stop me.
I just wanted to send them both a message for which I know they have gotten loud and clear. I'm a heavy weight and they should stay in their own division (Featherweights). Ha!

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 12:48PM

Then Sweet Piece Maker/HNIC ---Siebra emails her moms Irma to tell her to check her email.... because there are things she can't put on Irma's Profile Page regarding me... see below.

[[[[Tagged by Siebra Muhammad on 06/01/2010
Hey Mom, please check your email as soon as you read this message. Thanks!]]]]


I don't need Irma nor do I need Siebra to Validate me. ((period)))

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 12:56PM

Jen you made your point so lets leave it alone ok...........

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 12:58PM

Ok.

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 1:04PM

I think you are more disappointed than upset! So now it's done... Mozell ...lol

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 1:34PM

alrite.... im getting ready for my anatomy class... I'll be back around 5ish!!

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 2:21PM

@ Bro. Clark

..."OK Jen, after reading that thread, I see what you mean however IMHO I would say it appears to be more of a misunderstanding than anything else"...

There is always misunderstanding everytime Irma comments on my blogs because she Never seems to understand my blogs so if that being the case she shouldn't be commenting. She attacks me or as she puts it Educates me. This is exactly why I've tried to ignore her since the last blow up.

http://blackinamerica.com/cgi-bin/blog.cgi... Irma Robinson Your Behavior Towards Me Is Very UnBecoming Of An Elder Person!

@ Irma

..."THE LAST THING "I" WOULD ACCUSE MARTA OF IS BEING A COWARD OR SOMEONE WHO DON'T KNOW HOW TO FIGHT HER OWN BATTLES"...

Now isn't that the pot calling the kettle black... Why is Siebra trying to fight for you then? Answer that question, eh.

Siebra Muhammad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:15PM

Just one question about the guestbook comment you're referring to and I'm going to sit down and rest myself:

How do you know whether or not Irma and I are gossiping about you (or anyone for that matter) behind your back? Hell, I could have been referring to Min. Farrakhan's speeches, President Obama, BP, or another matter. You shouldn't assume sister...

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:26PM

i missed my class you guyssss..... you know i get emotional....
SO EVERYBODY COOL IT...

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:27PM

@ Siebra
Don't try to play me! You know that's your forte -----talking about people. I'll be Asking the questions here--- This Is My Blog. So where are those emails or better yet apologize like a good little Black girl. I'm waiting...

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:29PM

@ Cynthia

How in the world did you miss your class? OMG, I'm so sorry love. Can you call your professor later? I'm really sorry, please forgive me for making you emotional because that wasn't my intention... only to make Irma and Siebra emotional.

I'm so sorry. I'll stop with this pettiness. Forgive me please sister.

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:47PM

Yes... because I am so emotional.... You are forgiven.... NOW go check out your page with the Platters I took over it!!! ... Im good.... Im not worried about the old doc... I have the gift of gab... and a nice pencil skirt and top that is just as appealing... Redd hair and a smile... and I'll make up some excuse... it's all good.... Now I just want this to stop... ok.... we can all agree to disagree... and i think this is the best time to make that blog... and all of us can vent and tell each other what it is that irritates the other... Craig hates my typos... Jamal says he has to tape my mouth shut... Harry says Im wishy washy.... Robert (oh my GOD/ALLAH) he ...whatever... I don't care..... So now is the time to clear it up and let it go... speak now or forever hold your piece....

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 3:48PM

peace....Craig has gotten me all paranoid about my spelling and use of wrong words... Heck I don't proof before I post

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 4:00PM

Bro. Craig got me on a few typos, too. I can't wait until he makes some. Yes I guess you're right. It is all good. So you like the Platters, eh.

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 4:05PM

No... don't like them... too depressing.... I love me some Marvin Gaye... Fantasia... Temptations.... Kashif... Switch.. before DeBarge... Billie Holiday.... Earth Wind and Fire... Minnie Ripperton...

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 4:08PM

You know Marvin... Lady Day... The Temptations... Switch (DeBarge Brothers) they were troubled souls... There were a lot of dark days within their careers...
I think about their indurance...

Phyllis Hyman... Miss Patti.... Fantasia (she's gonna be dynamite)

Jen Fad Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 8:54PM

@ Cynthia Don't like the Platters --- Blasphemy ((giggling)) I love me some Marvin Gaye, too. He sang one of the best renditions of the Nat'l Athem To Date. Smoothe Marvin.

@ Irma

I plead the fifth... because anything I say I kknow you will misunderstand.

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:06PM

oh.... yes.... I have his video.... and he has this one song... Come Get To This... that was only released on his Let's Get it on album... I finally got an original dvd remastered copy..... oh he is my favorits... in life and death... Luther too

and thanks... plead the fifth....

@Irma ... let it go..... o tay

Cynthia Merrill Artis Wednesday, June 2nd 2010 at 9:07PM

you know Jen .... Irma we women are so emotional..... We have to adapt to the man's way!!!

Richard Kigel Thursday, June 3rd 2010 at 8:58AM

Adopt the man's way?

Right!

Like the men in charge have done such a wonderful job in running the world.




Jen Fad Thursday, June 3rd 2010 at 1:56PM

Oh Yes Fist Fighting ... sounds unlady like Ha!

robert powell Sunday, September 26th 2010 at 1:22PM

jenFad--Inspiration, Dedication and Scholarship

I wanted to restart your other blog--triflingSiebra---That one should have more HITS---but with respect to my loveIrma.

anyway---while I was away I read all, almost all your Blogs--

YOU THE BLOG QUEEN!!!!!!

various subjects, news, opinion, social discussion and Large amounts of BIA Hits on all of them.

Thank you -- Missing You

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

..."I" know better than to ask isn't this about about Marta and her being a BIA top blogger?!?...(smile)

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

Doc, is there any meds. advice to be able to get someone to stop listening to their own self LONG ENOUGH to try and get them to realize a person can not determine what another is doing by changing words, meanings, actions, and every thing else around???

you know like for the zillionth timemy saying I am not responsiable for another person's ( Siebra or Jen's or yours or Clark's Mozell's) behavior and especially someone who is telling me /"I" know what another person did (without knowing taht person had done someting like sending me an email as I have no set time of day or night to answer my emails or my comment page...and exactly why they did something and even ore serious is the belief that I don't live my own life?!?

When "I" say "I" have no idea what a preson is syint or trying to prove by replacing me inmy own life..."I" maean what "I" say...can you help as you are our family doctor, Dr. Artis. (smile)

All I know is Jen sent me a comment which the next time I went back tomy comment page it was gone...as a logical person who only deal in FACTS...I will never say that Jen deleted her comment off of my comment page, because not only do I not know, I don't care. it has nothing to do with my survival needs, nor can it serve a legal tender.(smile)

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

THIS FRIENDLY ADVICE MAY GET DELETED...BUT...

MARTA IS THE LAST PERSON "I" WOULD SAY HAS SO LITTLE SELF-ESTEEME TAHT SHE WOULD ROLL OVER AND ALLOW ANOTHER TO DEFINE HER OR HER WORTH AS A HUMAN BEING AND AS A GREAT BLOGGER...

OR SOMEONE WHO CAN NOT TAKE LEMONS AND MAKE LEMONADE OUT OF IT...AND, NOT BE ABLE TO MOVE ON PASS SOMETHING THAT IS PETTY "I SAID", "YOU SAID" PETTY B-U-L-L!!!!(SMILE)

ROBINSON IRMA Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM

aNYONE WHO CAN NOT EVEN ANSWER A QUESTION ON THEIR OWN WORDS/ THEMEOF THEIR OWN BLOG IS ALWAYS GOING TO BECOME A PROBLEM WHEN RATHER THAN ANSWER IT TURN IT INTO AN EMOTIONAL OUT BURST...BUT, "I" WILL REPEAT MARTA IS THE LAST PERSON THAT "I" WOULD PUT OUT THERE ON THE WWW. THAT SHE IS DEPENDANT AND SO DEPENDANT SHE MUST HAVE SOMEONE ELSE TO SPEAK FOR HER...

THE LAST THING "I" WOULD ACCUSE MARTA OF IS BEING A COWARD OR SOMEONE WHO DON'T KNOW HOW TO FIGHT HER OWN BATTLES...(SMILE)

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