WHEN WOMEN ARE FATHERS....

MIISRAEL Bride · Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 10:18AM · 424 views

When women are fathers too...Women are great mothers and they nuture their children with a most indiviual caring. However, many fathers are not living in the same household with their children and then it is when women are fathers too. It is something very unique to be presented with both the role of mother and father; and often so many women are filling the father's shoes. I am not condeming fathers who are there for their children because I know there are many fathers who are absent at home, but are present in their children's lives. For those fathers I highly commend; there is no finger pointing. Actually, I'm not pointing any fingers at any father. Only this is to spotlight those noteworthy "mother-father" who are raising their sons and daughters alone. You are not forgotten by your children and by others who know you're doing it alone. And too... for those great fathers who are terrific mothers!...I can feel you.

Alone when women are fathers..

HaPPY FATHER'S DAY TO EVERYONE.
--MIISRAEL

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robert powell Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 11:34AM

This one I do not have a great understanding.

To be a good father, in my opinion,

I have had to use ever part of my being, history and family to have chosen in my life GREAT Mothers for my Children. Without those choses I cannot call myself a father.

LikeWise if a woman wants motherhood she must use ever part of her Being, History and Family to choose Wisely a Man who will be Father.

I cannot see how a woman can be a father?

nor a father, a mother--

MIISRAEL Bride Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 3:49PM

I thought there would some who would not understand mothers being as fathers. A woman cannot be a man in the sense of fatherhood. Her role is associated with the father being barren in the raising up of the child. Where single mothers advert to association of taking on duties of both male and female in a household. Providing the living for the children, rearing the children, coaching and administering what a male 's role should be for children whose father is not present. In the present sense of it one would not understand if they have not lived the moment-- or experienced situations where the role was applying masuculine/feminine traits to the child as her/his main parent all in One.

Perhaps, it is not possible to see, often in single parents it is done to some degree.

Siebra Muhammad Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 3:58PM

Misreal, TRUE THAT!

Siebra Muhammad Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 4:49PM

I'm blessed to have grown up with both of my parents, I believe it's not who raises and teaches a child, it's HOW you raise them. My niece has been living with me for most of her life, and during this time she has never brought a D or F in the house.

Barack Obama grew up without a father in his home, and he went on to become a successful blackman. So did Min. Farrakhan, T.D. Jakes, and Jesse Jackson. This just goes to show you because a child was raised without a father in the home doesn't mean they will grow up to become a statistic. As long as they have morals and proper discipline, they can still become honorable and respectable adults.

jamal Abraham Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 8:26PM

No matter how hard she tries, a mother cannot be a real father. She can wear pants and lower her voice, but she still remains other than a father. The biochemical, sociological and psychological relationship between a real father and child is unique to a father and child and cannot be exactly duplicated by a female no matter how hard she tries.

MIISRAEL Bride Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 9:36PM

Thanks everyone! Generally I think there is a lot shared here. We know that literally women are not fathers. Your ideas also shared where women takes on the role because so many fathers are absent from the child's life. There is the gap where single parent women make decisions where as men would-- if they were part of the child's life. No, it does not make her to be the man, but merely is necessary for survival that "women have teach when a man isn't present." It all rolls back I believe, to when women are in the role of fathers; when they have to be. If there is no father in the house, she is cloned within her male instincts to guide. We do try hard as women to cover terrritorial intercisons to children without father figures, it is not "duplicating a man" -- WOMEN ARE ALWAYS AWARE THEY ARE WOMEN. Mothers are always mothers. Fathers are not always fathers. Those children who have both are truly blessed. Ye, t those who have one are blessed especially when they only one parent being their mother/father. It is my hope in sharing this fathers really earn the title of being called fathers again. You all have given and shared such wonderful insights.

I being a single mother have done the best I could without a father figure for my son. He knows I am always mother, and even if only in the sense of the word I was his father when I had to be. Much gratitude for all comments.

MIISRAEL Bride Sunday, June 20th 2010 at 9:54PM

Flowers and cards for all you wonderful DADS!

GEEZ!....YOU GUYS ARE GREAT!

robert powell Monday, June 21st 2010 at 9:44AM

males ejaculate---------------------Men that ejaculate are responsible Fathers and Husbands in the Family of Adaam

females receive ejaculation------Women that receive ejaculation are responsible Mothers and Wives in the Family of Adaam

males can be irresponsible of their seed------Men marry the female and make the children responsible to the Family of Adaam.

women can be irresponsible of their seed---Men marry the female and make them responsible to the Family of Adaam.

The Creator of Adaam in AlQur'aan asks the Sons and Daughters of Adaam to be EXTRA responsible to the orphans(fatherless or motherless)

MIISRAEL Bride Monday, June 21st 2010 at 9:52AM

I understand you Robert. I find the understanding in "responsible"

Fathers and Mothers.

Loved that...Let them be men and women and responsible parents.

"Those who are real Fathers and Mothers are because they are responsible for their children."