American Stress: Moving Black men to drugs and Black Women and hair loss

you are kidding me

He's hilarious isn't he Sister Cynthia? Black men have always been under-employed in America so this isn't even news worthy. Whatever concerning the hair weave and all that~~~ that's not due to alopecia ~~~ but due to hauir fashion and styles for Black women.

Brother Jamal you have to hire a good PR firm. I think that's what Rev. Father Amos does. Why don't you consult him to help you. That's what its all about~~~ Black people helping one another out, eh? ((giggling))

Black women look so rediculous with these hair weaves. And the Chinese women are laughing all the way to the bank. Imagine how much money a black women could make if the tide was turned. Say she had the long hair and sold it to the chinese women. Chinese women are smarter than that. They would want to know how to grow their hair long. What man wants a bald headed woman. Sure, there are some....but in the new world, black women will not be bald headed and have to purchase their hair.

Jerry springer made millions on his TV show watching Black women's hair flying across the stage. Who are you kidding....a bald headed women is not fashionable...and those weaves are not fooling nobody. I can spot a hair waive a 1/2 mile away. So the white women are growing their hair; the Asian women is growing their hair: WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THE BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA THAT THEY CANNOT GROW THEIR HAIR DOWN THEIR BACK......WHITE people in America got her stressed out.

In Islam, the hair is a delight...so much that the Muslim sisters are asked to cover up their head...because men get aroused over a sister with pretty long hair.

As-Salaam Alaikum Brother Jamal:

I happen to be a sister with naturally long hair and I can tell you men do get aroused over a sister with long hair (smile). I see nothing wrong with a woman wearing a hair weave, I think women are beautiful regardless to how they wear their hair.

However, It does bother me is when I see some of our sisters sporting weaves and suddenly get to the point where they forget who they are and resort to "fixing" other things wrong with them (simply put, go through the plastic surgery BS).

The other thing that gets me is when I see our sisters talk a game about how they are all for supporting Black businesses, but if they were to see two beauty supply stores on the same block, the Korean-owned store is the first thing they go for.

I WONDER WHY?

The news is that in the homeland planned for America, the stress level will be brought down significantly. Medical scientists have discovered that stress can be a disease if not brought under control...and it could even lead to death. Stress is nothing to play with and Almighty God Allah plans to make the new world as a paradise which includes a reduction of stress intensity. Being at peace with oneself, ones culture, ones heritage and ones government brings about the conditions for growing what God has intended all women to have....a good length of hair. If she decides to cut it, then it is a choice.

Sis. Siebra...Wa Alaikum Salaam............Its amazing to see all the hair pieces that the Koreans have in their hair supply stores. And you are correct....Our sisters purchase much to keep the Asians in business, to the demise of their own people stores. Sort of like a self-hatred in disguise.

No doubt Black women can be beautiful with our without long hair....the point of this blog is to attribute the short hair prevalent among black women as not innate...but rather due to the stress that white authority keeps black women under in America. Multiple jobs, problamatic children, counter-positive men, blatant prejudice and bill collectors are enough to drive a sister up the wall sometimes.

Another thing Siebra...you know and can feel the stares of men that gaze at your hair. Surely, you can feel it like no other feeling according to my blood sisters. Apparently, Allah(God) has shown you mercy for you to have the pretty long hair. But, in the New world established by Black Americans in Africa, black womens hair will grow and yours will grow "even" longer if you desire.

My cousin always say... If you can't grow it.... Sew it!! I personally do not wear weave... I wear my hair relaxed... and I color it... I cover it when it rains or when it's hot... other than this... it's for all eyes to see... WHO cares is a nother man looks at my hair.... ONLY ONE man can rub it or run his fingers thru it!

Your hair looks real nice, Cynthia, only in the New world it would grow down you back. Although, not sure whether you could stand all the added attention with all the attention you get right present.

Wow, what an interesting concept! Stress equaling hair loss for women. Hmmm, good one, sir.

I've got nothing to add here BUT this: yesterday, I SWEAR a slim, fine caramel colored sister walked past and nearly blew my mind and her hair was short as mine (not to mention salt & pepper colored). No fake hair dye. No wig. No weave. She was naturally beautiful and it was all about her femininity and obvious attention to her weight and other things. Just my $0.02's worth.

Now...take that same "beautiful" salt & pepper colored women and put hair down to the middle of her back...and tell me what you got ? ............................................................... Thats the point !

As India Arie stated in her song, I am not my hair. Men who fall for long hair (weaves) are shallow in the first place. Now that's my $0.02 worth.

Thanks Jamal for the compliment.... As for attention... Im oblivious to men's attention ... What is most important is that I have MY man's attention.... I think that's worth $2.00....

What man likes weaves, wigs and extensions, Jen....thats probably more a woman thing.

I'm in the military and I weave my hair protect my natural hair from relaxers and breakage. I have a head full of hair and it's not short. Unfortunately, weave are necessary when you wear head gear. Also, afros are not encouraged. Some women where wigs because their hair have fallen out cancer treatments or taking medication that deters healthy hair and hair growth. So, I try not to judge; but I am quick to let my sister know if her tracks are showing; because if she look good I look good. White women where weave too.

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