HAVE YOU EVER FOUND YOURSELF IN THE WOULDA, SHOULDA POSITION?!? These local paper headlines had me in this
position until I recieved counseloring from one of my senior leaders..." DRIVER PULLED FROM CAR IN ELLIS LAKE..."DEATH DOESN'T TAKE A HOLIDAY OVER WEEKEND" ...this is part of tWO day's of my local news paper's article...The woman whose car went into Ellis Lake in the cove next to the Appeal-democrat has died, Mayssville police confirmed.C.I. 63 of Yuba City was headed north Sunday on D street when her Kia Forte ran off the north side of 14th Street into the lake at about 4:15 p.m.Ellis Lake is about 15 feet where the kia ran off the road...Anglers at the lake Monday said measures should be undertaken to make the lake more safe...
2003 a school bus full of Russian students went into the lake...DNA testing in 2002 of a human skeleton was identified as a resident of Georgia who had gone off into this lake two decades earlier...
NOW HERE IS WHERE THE WOULDA, SHOULD, COULDA COMES IN...CHINYERE IJEOMA WAS A DEAR AND CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAD JUST LEFT ME BEFORE SHE DIED...SHE TOLD ME SHE DID NOT FEEL WELL FOR WHICH I had ASKED HER TO LAY DOWN AT MY HOUSE UNTIL SHE FELT BETTER...SHE SAID NO THAT SHE WOULD BE FINE AS THE PROBLEM SHE WAS HAVING COMES AND GOES ALL OF THE TIME , SO SHE WOULD BE JUST FINE...
CHINYERE FOR HER TO BE ANY PLACE NEAR THAT LAKE WAS TOO FAR OUT OF THE WAY OF HER GOING HOME THEREFORE SHE HAD TO HAVE BEEN DISORENTATED...THOSE WHO SAW HER CAR GO INTO THE LAKE AND WERE THE FIRST RESPONDERS SAID SHE WAS SLUMPED OVER THE STEERING WHEEL AS SHE WENT INTO THE LAKE....HER CAR WAS A 2010 HAD IF SHE HAD BEEN A WAKE SHE ONLY HAD TO PUSH A BUTTON ON THE STEERING WHEEL AND HAD A PHONE ...THE PEOPLE AT THE LAKE COULD NOT BREAK ANY OF HER WINDOWS AND HER DOORS WERE ALL LOCKED...SO THEY HAD TO WAIT UNTIL THE FIRE DEPARTMENT GOT THERE TO BREAK INTO THE CAR...
AFTER COMING OUT OF SHOCK LEARNING THAT THEY WERE UNABLE TO REVIVE HER AT THE HOSPITAL...THE WHY DIDN'T I TAKE HER CAR KEYS HIT HOME HARD!!!!...IT IS GOING TO TAKE A WHILE FOR ME TO COME TO TERMS WITH I HAD TO HAVE RESPECTED HER WISHS THAT THIS WAS NOT SERIOUS AS IT HAPPENS A LOT...YOU SEE MY FRIEND C. I. ABOUT 8 MONTHS AGO HAD, HAD HER EAR DRUM REMOVED BECAUSE IT HAD GOTTEN SO INFECTED AND SO OFTEN IT HAD BECOME A THREAT TO HER LIFE...HER HAVING A PROBLEM WAS ABOUT HER EAR BOTHERING HER WHICH MUST HAVE AFFECTED HER SENSE OF DIRECTION...NOW I DO EXPECT THE ARTOPSY TO SAY SHE HAD HAD ANOTHER STROKE AND THAT THE PROBLEM SHE HAD WAS HER EAR HAD HER DISORIENTATED BEFORE THE STROKE OR HEART ATTACK OR SOMETHING THAT HAD HER UNCONSCIOUS AS THAT CAR WENT INTO THE WATER...
SHE DID NOT SUFFER AND SHE HAD LEFT ME ON SUNDAY WITH A SMILE AND AN I LOVE YOU FOR BEING SO CONCERNED ABOUT ME COMING FROM MY DEAR FRIEND, CHINYERE IJEOMA.. (SMILE)
2003 a school bus full of Russian students went into the lake...DNA testing in 2002 of a human skeleton was identified as a resident of Georgia who had gone off into this lake two decades earlier...
NOW HERE IS WHERE THE WOULDA, SHOULD, COULDA COMES IN...CHINYERE IJEOMA WAS A DEAR AND CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAD JUST LEFT ME BEFORE SHE DIED...SHE TOLD ME SHE DID NOT FEEL WELL FOR WHICH I had ASKED HER TO LAY DOWN AT MY HOUSE UNTIL SHE FELT BETTER...SHE SAID NO THAT SHE WOULD BE FINE AS THE PROBLEM SHE WAS HAVING COMES AND GOES ALL OF THE TIME , SO SHE WOULD BE JUST FINE...
CHINYERE FOR HER TO BE ANY PLACE NEAR THAT LAKE WAS TOO FAR OUT OF THE WAY OF HER GOING HOME THEREFORE SHE HAD TO HAVE BEEN DISORENTATED...THOSE WHO SAW HER CAR GO INTO THE LAKE AND WERE THE FIRST RESPONDERS SAID SHE WAS SLUMPED OVER THE STEERING WHEEL AS SHE WENT INTO THE LAKE....HER CAR WAS A 2010 HAD IF SHE HAD BEEN A WAKE SHE ONLY HAD TO PUSH A BUTTON ON THE STEERING WHEEL AND HAD A PHONE ...THE PEOPLE AT THE LAKE COULD NOT BREAK ANY OF HER WINDOWS AND HER DOORS WERE ALL LOCKED...SO THEY HAD TO WAIT UNTIL THE FIRE DEPARTMENT GOT THERE TO BREAK INTO THE CAR...
AFTER COMING OUT OF SHOCK LEARNING THAT THEY WERE UNABLE TO REVIVE HER AT THE HOSPITAL...THE WHY DIDN'T I TAKE HER CAR KEYS HIT HOME HARD!!!!...IT IS GOING TO TAKE A WHILE FOR ME TO COME TO TERMS WITH I HAD TO HAVE RESPECTED HER WISHS THAT THIS WAS NOT SERIOUS AS IT HAPPENS A LOT...YOU SEE MY FRIEND C. I. ABOUT 8 MONTHS AGO HAD, HAD HER EAR DRUM REMOVED BECAUSE IT HAD GOTTEN SO INFECTED AND SO OFTEN IT HAD BECOME A THREAT TO HER LIFE...HER HAVING A PROBLEM WAS ABOUT HER EAR BOTHERING HER WHICH MUST HAVE AFFECTED HER SENSE OF DIRECTION...NOW I DO EXPECT THE ARTOPSY TO SAY SHE HAD HAD ANOTHER STROKE AND THAT THE PROBLEM SHE HAD WAS HER EAR HAD HER DISORIENTATED BEFORE THE STROKE OR HEART ATTACK OR SOMETHING THAT HAD HER UNCONSCIOUS AS THAT CAR WENT INTO THE WATER...
SHE DID NOT SUFFER AND SHE HAD LEFT ME ON SUNDAY WITH A SMILE AND AN I LOVE YOU FOR BEING SO CONCERNED ABOUT ME COMING FROM MY DEAR FRIEND, CHINYERE IJEOMA.. (SMILE)
oh Wow Irma I'm sorry about your friend and what a heavy load. When my oldest brother was sick, I was the last person he talked to before he died... Let's say.. your story conjures up those memories.