YOU WANT TO SAVE THE BLACK YOUTH ? start in the home >>>>

this should go hand in hand with the black church ! the church needs a rude awakening

The church does indeed need an awakening. But UNITY can not be forged with "rude"; my brother we must love our broken and confused back to health and sanity. They/we are already the victims of hate, repudiation and minimalization; we cannot heal, empower and unify ourselves by perpetuating disdain and vitriol. Consider: it is only by rising above the fray that we can set a clear example for those who are lost and befuddled by/in the darkness.

Beautifully said and absolutely correct, yet Brotha David is also correct. Our boys do need to be schooled starting in the home. Problem is the father’s don’t know themselves how to teach, so Parental Training and Counseling is central to our continued existence like Brotha David sai, and yes Sista, we can’t do this unless peaceful progression is involved. Being hateful and preaching hate only eats you up inside.Others go on about their business. You can’t teach anyone when your vision is fogged with hatred.
A lot of churches are coming aboard. They are finally realizing that black men need an outreach and society is not offering it to them and if you don’t care for church, there are programs out there in most of our cities that also offer outreach. Problem is the programs need to come into the community, because the community is not going to go to them. Our black men are proud and hard up to admit that there are problems, but thank God that there is an awakening going on. I just pray its not too late.

David
I'm working on an assignment about adolescents, take a look and tell me how to improve on my responses.(today if possible)

2. Why do adolescents internalize the standards of their communities? They internalize the standards of the community when they learn to abide by the rules established by their group without being motivated by a need to avoid punishment for bad behavior. They conform and accept the rules as their own even though the rules were set by others.
Why do they become law-abiding citizens (or not)? Adolescents who have the ability to think abstractly begin to see themselves as part of their community. They begin to compare themselves and adapt to the morals of their communities standards, because abiding by the laws is a valid moral reason for co-existence.
How do social-cognitive theorists explain age-related changes in moral thought? Adolescents are exposed to others values and learn to imitate the observed actions of others. They recognize that others way of doing things is more valid then their own. Laws represent the ability of people to compromise in order to keep harmony with each other. They also learn that the making of laws involve a process where people within the society form a contract and agree to live by its terms. Adolescents form a better sense of how moral rules and regulation become a part of laws to teach people how to respect each other in society.
Does the social-cognitive approach do a good job of explaining moral behavior in your opinion? Yes, it does explain how the maturing mind internalizes social norms and the affect of its function from different perspectives.

ok ok ok
LETS really get down to business and take this conversation to the light of the matter '
when i say rude awaking in the church i meant just that the playing church should stop and the church needs to stop with all its mess im not going to waste rtime listing the things that are wrong with the church this is bigger than that ! i believe in right now ,,,yes right at this moment if we open the doors to the church and allow a place of refuge for the mind ,body and spirit of the black youth , mothers and fathers then we can build on that right now ,,,once the people get there then they can be taught and educated in what has to be done to save the black youth ,,the are so many programs that can be put in motion that will assist the parents in raising there kids right now
stop letting the pastors open the church just on Sunday or bible study night hold the accountable to making a change and if every black church in America will take collective stand then we will see the light at the end of the tunnel ! where is Jessie Jackson when you need him ?

black people are unequipped and need help and that help has to come from each other !

Excuse me Irma but my request was addressed to David. It sounds like you wanna be an instigator. You changed the entire topic, I can't turn in stuff that makes no sense(lol)

irma
you know i dont like the white mans agenda ,,and i will not delete your comments you are welcome to say what you want just like anyone else !

Hello to All,

This blog is nonsense. Let me explain why.

Black Americans were raising good children for years until White America interceded in the early 80s. White America through the schools began to tell Black children that if their parents disciplined them to immediately report it to the school officials.

What White America did was empowering the children against their parents. Many Black parents were hauled into court by Child protective agencies and in most cases their children were taken from them.

Again, our only permanent solution is that we must desire to become a sovereign people or have complete independence from White America on a portion of this continent that we could call our very own country with borders to worship God, pursue life, liberty, happiness and prosperity in our own way.

This nonsense about parental training and counseling is a bunch of hogwash and would only come from a person that does not know the history and circumference of Black America's ordeals.

Am I lying that White America did not intercede? Many Black parents just threw their hands up in the air. They did not know what to do or who to turn to.

What say you?

Irma.... you calm down in the beginning.... by mid ways your NUP shows up!! LOL

@Helen, "I" make no apology to those who support the White man's agenda...so if david wants to delete my statements he will. (smile)

@Helen, the best thing you can do for yourself is to do a paper on how you would be better off if you stop making the same mistake as the O.J. simpsons and the Charley Rangel and the Justice Thomas and M. Steele about what happens when black people get sucked into that trap of "I am too good to be Black" (NUP)

and far too many sport's SUPER STARS TO EVEN TRY TO MENTION. (OTFL) (SMILE)

@HELEN AND DAVID AND bia..."I" do apologize for allowing my pure (nup)


(SMILE)

What happened to your great book ...remember you are not suppose to ahve any problems at all? (smile)

@Helen now tah twas changing the topic...and like all of us david has a delete . (smile)

Harry , for once I am gald to see you nonsense, and just like myths what you just said has some truth to it...but Harry because you as so many others have no knowledge that we in our race have a Black think tank...

actually Harry of what you speak started with president L.B.J. and the then ( Calrk asways have to tell me tha tman's name) andy way he is the person who was the senator o fn.y. the H. calinto now has taken his seat in teh senate...any way he was a college professor of socialogy when L.B.J. taped him to do a study of the black race and why we were having all of tose complaints that we were having this movement...and guess what Harry his study's statistic proved to our president taht our disstres and violance came because we had Black males (now notice ho even we parrot this the Black male, not the female but since they are the ones who give birth in automatically included, huh)any way his conclusions and which got him a sentae seat for life geting all of that lobby money over a clooege professor's pay...worked so well...

WE NOT ONLY BELIEVE THIS BUT WE ARE TEACHING IT TO OUR CHILDREN WHICH MEANS THEY AE TEACING THEIR CHILDREN THIS...

BUT HARRY...HOW MANY OF MY PEOPLE KNOW THAT REV. LOWERY WAS AT OUR BLACK PRESIDENT BEING SWORN IN MEANT...HELL NO WE HAVE NO IDEA WHY OUR PRESIDENT (RAISED BY A SINGLE MOTHER ALTHOUGH NOT BLACK)HAD HIM THER AND THE MESSAGE HE SENT OUT TO US WAS....HARRY CAN YOU ANSWER THIS????? I THAS TO DO WITH WHAT YOU JUST BROUGHT UP....

I WILL GIVE YOU A HINT...REV. LOWERY IS A BLACK LIBERATION PASTOR AND A MAMBER OF THE BALCK THINK TANK...

"I" CAN'T HEAR YOU HARRY NOR YOU HELEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (NUP)...AND THISIS WHY YOU NEVER WANT TO GET M PURE ***** UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (SMILE)


NOW THAT WAS TOALLY OFF TOMIC IF ONE BELIEVES IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR CVHILDREN KILLING EACH OTHER AND NOT LEARNING WHO THEY ARE A PROUD PEOPLE!!!

...now that I have calmed down,,,Harry the time you are speaking of was when the Black male was proud of is Black mother be they had a father in teh house...oh and Harry during the time you speak of and before by law the married father could not even live in the slme house as his WIFE and his male child...

AND, GUESS WHAT WE WERE NOT SAYING TAHT IT WAS BECAUSE OUR MALES HAD NO FATHER IN TEH HOME THAT THEY WERE DRUG ADDICTS, BOUNT TO GO TO PRISON AND NOT SCOOLS, HARRY THESE BLACK CHILDREN WENT TO SCHOOL RAIN OR SHINE...AND WALKIN ON DIRT ROADS FOR MAILE AND MISES TO GET THERE AND DO YOU KNOW WHY???/

THEY DID NO WANT THEIR MOTHERS TO BE DISAPOINTED...PLUS SHE WAS NOT HOME WATCHING TV OR TAKING DRUGS FOR THE AME REASON HER CHILDETN WERE NOT HANGING ON CORNERS...THEY WERE WORKING...

AND, THISI NOT JUST OFR YOU HARRY(OOPS I AM GETTING NUP AGAIN...WE WOULD NEVER SAY OUR FEMALES MARRIED OR SINGLE WAS WORTHLESS...OH AND SOMETHING ELSE AHRRY THERE WAS NOT BLACK TEEN HAVING MORE BABBYS THAN WHITES...

BUT YOU SEE HARRY TDHE WHITE PEOPLE ARE SO PROUD OF THEIR TEEN UNWEDMOTHERS THEY TAKE THEM OUR ON CAMPAIGN TRIPS AS THE BETTER CHRISTIAN VALUE REPRESENTATIVE THAT A BLACK MAN WHO SOMETHING ELSE WE WER CONVINCED THEY WERE RIGHT AND WE TRUNED AGAINS OUR OWN BLACK CHURCH...OH THE ONE OBAMA WAS IN NOT THE ONE THE CLINTONS WERE I ALL OVER THE COUNTRY SAYING SPEACHES...

AND YOUR KNOW IT NEVER DAWNED ON US THAT WHITE PEOPLE WERE ACCEPTED IN OUR BLACK CHURCHES BUT A BLACK MAN WAS NOT...I WONDER IF THIS WAS TO HAPPEN IF HE WAS A FEMALE AND NOT A BLACK MALE EVEN WITH A WHITE MOTHER!!!!!!!!!! PH , WELL...

DAVID YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO DELETE ME WITH ALL OF THISNONSENSE BECAUSE WE WOULD NOT PREVER A WHITE PERSON I OUR BLACK CHURCHES BUT NOT A BALCK MAN OR PREACHER BECAUSE THE WHITE MAN SAID WE SHOULD NOT DO SO...

OR WOULD WE....OH AL SHARPTON IS A BLACK LIBERATION PREACHER BUT THE WHITE MAN SAYS HE IS ALRAIGHT SO WE SAY AS THEY SAY HE IS ALRINGT...ON AND SO WAS DR. m.L. KING...AND HERE AGAIN THE WHITE MAN SAID HE IS ALL RIGHT SO WE CAN ACCEPT HIM ANS WE DID...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????? (NUp)

Persoanlly in my form of thinking...if my child is living under my roof and recieving the things neccessary for life like food, water and shleter plus having shoes and clothes thrown in and all for free...

I dictate all of the rules whichmeans they have no legal rights that I recognize for the legal systems such as...if you parents does something you don't like get on the cell phone that they pay the bill on and call us...an't gona happen more then once!!!!!!!! (smile)


so please give this a little tought Helen...does your reports say that the children started taking guns to school before or after they got all of these legal rights?!?

WAKE UP...STOP TAKING IN THESE LESsONS TAHT IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO TO KILL EACH OTHER OFF TO MAKE UP FOR THEY CAN NO LONGER HANG US AS THE SOCIAL NORM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (n.................U....................P) ALONG WITH SARAH PALIN FOR PRESIDENT IN 2012...