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The Queen's Chair: Celebrating The Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday

Marsha Jones · Monday, January 10th 2011 at 1:52PM · 496 views
I made the mistake of asking moms on my Momslikeme.com, if they celebrate the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday. And if they celebrate what they do? One mom's answer upset me. Her reply was that she used that "three-day break" to spend time with her children because she works too much. While I understood her answer as a mom; I wasn't happy. I bit my tongue.

It had happened. It was what Mrs. King had worried about when the holiday was enacted. This mom just looked at it as another day off. This "holiday" isn't that. No parties. No special sales. It's supposed to be a time of remembrance. To look back and see what we have left to do? How far we've come?

Typically, my daughters and I watch movies. Last year, we talked about and saw the films, The Great Debate and The Rosa Parks Story. I tried to get them to attend the MLK Service in our community, but that didn't work. Instead, we visited an exhibit on MLK at our museum. The weekend before, we saw a play about Frederick Douglass and Harper's Ferry. My girls began to understand the horrors of slavery and asked me a lot of questions about that time period.

I don't know what we'll do this year. We will do something though. What do you? If you do anything. Support a black business. Buy black. I know I'll be listening to our city's black-owned radio station for starters and may go around the corner to Jim Brown's Restaurant. The MLK IS NOT another day off. At least, not to me.

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Jen Fad Monday, January 10th 2011 at 8:25PM

@ Sister Marsha,
[My girls began to understand the horrors of slavery and asked me a lot of questions about that time period.]

How old are your girls? I have a 5 year old son and I worry about the time he'll enter history class at school and will be presented with Slavery as the only history of his people. Did you have any concerns like this?

Cynthia Merrill Artis Monday, January 10th 2011 at 9:25PM

the company I work for ((private)) doesn't HONOR the day!!! BUT I never work on the KING'S day!!! I tell em.... WE only Have one day with a BLACK Man's Face on the calendar!!! And I'm honoring that day!!! We Still Haven't Overcome!!! I'm waiting for an Oprah Holiday... and a Fantasia Day!!!

Marsha Jones Wednesday, January 12th 2011 at 3:56PM

@ Jen: I have a 14-year- old and a 10-year-old. Those were my concerns exactly. I take them out to different places, have them meet black entrepreneurs, and they go with me to arts concerts/performances. By giving them a wider variety of our history, I hope it will help them.

Marsha Jones Wednesday, January 12th 2011 at 3:57PM

@ Cynthia: The Oprah Winfrey Day will come sooner than Fantasia's. I like the way you think.

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