Top 10 Questions About Cheating
Adultery is back in fashion again - or so it seems. Whether it's a political wife standing stoically by her husband or a gorgeous celebrity humiliated by a dogging spouse, we often ask ourselves: What would I do? Kick him to the curb? Forgive and move on? These answers aren't easy. Read on for the top 10 cheating questions. Click here for more.
1. Should I forgive him and stay in the marriage?
It depends on his next step, Solomon says. Does he seem to sincerely want forgiveness? And how would you know?
First check: Is the infidelity over? If so, is your husband willing to do whatever it takes to mend the breach?
"A person has to be willing, at least for a time, to be transparent," Solomon says. "You have to be able to see emails, have passwords, see calls, reach him at any time, vent without him getting impatient or defensive."
Figure out what you'll need in order to stay and use that list as your yardstick: Is he sticking to your list or making vague promises to improve? Don’t decide based on his words, but on his actions over time.
After a while of having your needs met, you may no longer need to call as often, to check every call, to see his emails. ...
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1. Should I forgive him and stay in the marriage?
It depends on his next step, Solomon says. Does he seem to sincerely want forgiveness? And how would you know?
First check: Is the infidelity over? If so, is your husband willing to do whatever it takes to mend the breach?
"A person has to be willing, at least for a time, to be transparent," Solomon says. "You have to be able to see emails, have passwords, see calls, reach him at any time, vent without him getting impatient or defensive."
Figure out what you'll need in order to stay and use that list as your yardstick: Is he sticking to your list or making vague promises to improve? Don’t decide based on his words, but on his actions over time.
After a while of having your needs met, you may no longer need to call as often, to check every call, to see his emails. ...
Read More:
http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationshi...
