{ Be A Better Lover Challenge} Massage Their Cares Away
Tension is bad. Really, really bad. When we’re tense, we’re not as easygoing, not as carefree, not as willing to laugh at a corny joke, or give our spouse/lover the benefit of the doubt.
While any number of things can cause the tension, there’s one surefire way to help relieve it: busting out the lotions and body oils and getting a serious head-to-toe rubdown. If done properly, the recipient will be thankful that you took the time to help them relieve the pent-up stress they’ve been caring around in their back, shoulder, legs, and feet.
Some suggestions:
Make a Pandora radio station of their favorite artist. Have it playing in the background while you give the massage.
Aim for at least 25 minutes. This seems like a very long time, but that’s precisely the point. Spend him touching your spouse/lover in a way that’s merely relaxing, not necessarily leading to s*x.
Watch a couple YouTube videos to get some tips on massage techniques for particular areas of the body – shoulders, head, feet, arms, legs.
If your interested in massage techniques here is a excellent source from Terri of 'Life Essence Massage's Channel."
weblink: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBU5Jc5-Fm0...
Terri's webpage: www.lifeessencemassage.com
While any number of things can cause the tension, there’s one surefire way to help relieve it: busting out the lotions and body oils and getting a serious head-to-toe rubdown. If done properly, the recipient will be thankful that you took the time to help them relieve the pent-up stress they’ve been caring around in their back, shoulder, legs, and feet.
Some suggestions:
Make a Pandora radio station of their favorite artist. Have it playing in the background while you give the massage.
Aim for at least 25 minutes. This seems like a very long time, but that’s precisely the point. Spend him touching your spouse/lover in a way that’s merely relaxing, not necessarily leading to s*x.
Watch a couple YouTube videos to get some tips on massage techniques for particular areas of the body – shoulders, head, feet, arms, legs.
If your interested in massage techniques here is a excellent source from Terri of 'Life Essence Massage's Channel."
weblink: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBU5Jc5-Fm0...
Terri's webpage: www.lifeessencemassage.com
Massage therapy is the best way to smooth away tension and it also helps to get the mood set for love making, too. We have Johnson & Johnson Massage oils at our bedside as well as a massager that I bought from Victoria's Secret that you roll over the tension points. I have to admit that its challenging to get my husband do massages, foot rubs, back rubs, ect... But it is a good thing to relieve the tense muscles in the body. I know that this is off the topic, but exercise is also a good stress- tension reliever.