lets talk sisters ,,,,,,,,,,

We've all seen it. I know a black man who has such a low opinion of black women that he says his black female relatives are the only black women he respects. It's odd though that most of the white women he's chosen have treated him worse than any black woman ever did. So that shows me the problem for him is one of self hate and has very little to do with the condition of black women. I love my people "to death" but I have to call a spade a spade.

We as a people will find ANY excuse in the World to denounce the black woman. I have heard many excuses why my Black Brothers choose the white women.

1. "Black women have an attitude." (Ohh and white woman don't?)
2. "White women will do anything." (Ohh and you want a woman like that?)
3. "White women stick by their men." (Ohh and who's been sticking by you all's asses for the past 400+ years? The Blackwoman of course!)

Why don't they just be a man and admit it's their negative thinking that allows them to have negative experiences with black women? Like I said any excuse is better than none (in their opinion)! The white women who are bothered with these low self-esteemed fellow Black Brothers have to be from the lower classes. Why? Because the middle-class whites, upper-class whites, and the super Rich and power Elite have instilled in their children to stay on Top at ALL cost and keep the white race Pure.

Therefore, the only white women who will be bothered with these type of Black men are the lower-class white woman because they basically have nothing to lose ( wealth, position, rank).

All these interracial realtionships is not base on love, they base on lust. Same goes for black women dating/marrying white men.

I found this post and thought it might be good for this topic ;;;; ck it ,,,,

With the recent Tiger Woods drama with his white jumpoff’s, it got us thinking why are black men so fascinated with white women once they become successful?
Some say a black man might like to take part in a relationship with a white woman because they are not familiar with the race.This gives the relationship in itself a kind of thrill, and makes it one to store in the memory box. The white woman looks different, acts different, smells different, comes from a different world.
A black man knows a black woman like the back of his hand, so this makes the black woman a bit of a bore. They then seek out the unknown or thrill they think they’ll get with a white woman which they think will get them out of the little box which they live in.

HERE IS SOME FEED BACK FROM ANOTHER SISTER O POSED THE QUESTION TO :

I guess what I don't understand is why are we treated as the lesser? I mean as if we (everyone that is) doesn't have enough to contend with on a daily basis. We as a race are so divided and not because a brother or a sister decides to date out of their race, but simply because of the negative attitudes and lack of respect from both black men and women towards one another. I just have a few questions, if you're happy w/the person you're with then why do you have to make negative comments such as, "I'll never date a black woman"!!! WOW - such self hatred....not because of who you're with but just those words alone state what you really believe about yourself. Quite frankly, AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN are the only ones that make immature statements as such. I've never heard Robert Deniro get on TV and say, I'll never date an Italian woman and yet he has always dated African American women. Additionally, Caucasian men love Asian women, and yet I never heard/hear them say, "I'll never date a white woman"! What gives!!! I think mostly because they are truly (emphasis added) happy w/who they are and who they are with. Also my second question is African American men crack me up because they act as if Caucasian men are sitting around embracing them dating Caucasian women - NOT!!! My son's friend asked a Caucasian girl out, and she told him that "her father said she isn't allowed to date black men! Also my Caucasian girlfriend said one of her clients (African American guy dating Caucasian lady) broke up because the Caucasian young lady's father told her if she continued to date him, she would be written out of his Will" - she broke up w/him! So let's not get it twisted - let's look at this for what it truly is.... And as an African American woman, I say to the brothers at least have enough respect and dignity not to make such negative statements without trying to understand the heart of all women no matter WHO they are! The truth is we could all do a little mudslinging, but really what would and what is that accomplishing??? Guess what, no matter who you decide to settle down with, she/he will still have issues - it all depends on who you decide to allow in your row boat and go through the storm with!!! At the end of the day we're all human....and we all have issues because no one is flawless!!

Emmit Till got killed for whistling at a white woman, and just 40 years ago it was against
the law for blacks and whites to marry, so I think that's why people have strong feelings
about interracial dating, because of race relations in America.

CHARMELL

I truly understand what your saying broke brothers looking for the suga mama white girl to take care of him and put up with all his madness because again the brother lacks,,,and the brothers with money want the trophy whit woman ,,,,to me I dont like white woman never crossed my mind to be with them and trust me the opportunity was there I just got love for the sisters but hay that's just me ,,

What about the black men that would still date black women? I'm talking about the guy that doesn't have disparaging words for black women. From what I've seen and heard, black women write those men off because they have dated outside of the race in the past. I've never heard of women of other races saying, "I won't date him because he dated outside of the race before." So why is it that if a black man dates a non-black woman, he is suddenly classified as being no good to date by black women if he is indeed open to dating black women?

and whats up with a woman want a man with a lil thug in him ! humm
and yes a white woman is known to do **** in the bed room that a sister wont do !

We are all grown adults and are capable of making our own decisions when it comes to our love life. But if I had to choose, my first preference would be a Black man. A FINE CHOCOLATE BLACK MAN...ohhh I will make him famous...LOL

And yes I have quite a few White peers but I’ve never trusted White men to the point where I saw myself dating, mixing, or marrying one in the future. I feel Black women who date White men (and vice versa) have forgotten that we, as a people, have been targeted and taught to hate ourselves for generations to prevent the threat of us ever coming together and being (again) the force that we don't realize we are anymore.

I do realize that there are some valid (though WRONG) reasons why black men/women date outside their race. Sometimes it's psychological trauma, and it should be addressed professionally. For instance some sisters are physically abused by their relatives, ex-husbands/boyfriends, or other friends of their family and become turned off from black men totally.

Then there are the Blackmen/women that feel that having a white spouse/singificant other by their side means that they are moving up in the world (otherwise known as everyday Uncle Tomming).

The thing that I find disturbing with interracial relationships is when Black men/women date outside their race and simply forget where the h-e-l-l they come from. With that said, black women (and black men) in America must learn to love their own kind through reading more books, through better selection of friends and peers and through the pride which comes from knowledge of self.

"i" ADMIT i AM ONE OF TOSE WOMEN WHO CON'T LIKE TO SEE wHITEWOMEN WITH BLACK MEN AD FOR THE EXACT OPPOSOT REASON i LOVE TO SEE A wHITE MAN WITH A bLACK WOMAN...

i HAVE NOT SEEN THE WHITE MAN NOT TREAT TEH BLACK WOMAN AS THE QUEES SHE IS...JUST THE OPPOSIT FOR THE bLACK MAN AND WHITE WOMAN...

PLEASE NOTE MY SAYING, "I"...AM I AGAINST IT IN THE SENE DO SKIN COLOR, NOT, i AM AGINST IT BECAUSE i AM A WOMAN AND ON TOP OF THIS IF A PERSON DOES NOT DEMAND RESPECT UNCONDITINALLY, THEY DON'T DESERVE IT...

AND WE TEND TO LOOP INDIVIDULAS AS A WHOLE RACE NOT INDIVIDUALS AO AS A BLACK WOMAN WE AND OUT MEN GET THE NEGATIVE AS IF WE WERE ONE AND THE SAME. (NUP)