"I" AM SO GRATEFUL THAT MY CREATOR DOES NOT REQUIRE ME TO BE BRAIN DEAD/UNHAPPYOVER TIS BEING IN THE 'REALWORL
AND EVEN MORE SO, I DO NOT BELIEVE MY CHILDREN ARE AN EXTENTION OF ME THEREFORE MUST NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES I DID THAT MY PARENTS MADE THEM SELVES AND KNEW FIRST HAND WHY THEY TRIED TO PROTECT ME FROM THEM!!!AND, AGAIN I AM BLESSED BECAUSE MY MOM ALWAYS TRATED ME LIKE I HAD A WORKING BRAIN AND ALLOWED ME EVEN AT AN EARLY AGE TO DO MYOWN THINKING...SHE KNEW I TRUSTED HER TO NEVER DO ME ANY HARM CONSCIOUSLY AND SHE TAUGHT ME TO DO THE SAME THING TO MY SELF...THINK FROM ALL SIDES OF AN ISSUE NOT JUST FROM THE PRETEND SIDE THAT I WOULD BE HAPPY DOING SOMETHING BECAUSE THE REALWORLD WAS NOT THERE ONLY FOR ME...THE REAL WORLD HAD ALL KINDS OF SEASONS...TEACHING MOMENTS...
HARD WORK NOT WISHES AND PRETENDING WOULD BUY ME FOOD OR PAY MY BILLS ONE DAY WHEN SHE WAS NOT DOING IT FOR ME...
I ADMIRE PEOPLE WH O HAVE TRIED TO SATISY OTHER AND REMAIND IN TH ECLOSET OF BEING WH O THEY ARE...EXPECIALLY THOSE WHO RELIZED THEY HAVE TO GET OUT OF MARRIAGES THAT MAKE THEM SO UNHAPPY BE IT BECAUSE THEY SLEEP WITH SOME ONE CHOSEN BY OTHERS OR BY THEIR OWNSELVES JUST TO MAKE ALL BUT THEMSELVES HAPPY, SAFE, SECURE AT THEIR EXPENSE!!!
LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST...TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF FIRST AND IF YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGH IT IS SELFISH TO DO THIS THEN TALK YOUR SELF INTO BELIEVEING IF YOU DONT TAKE CARE OF SELF FIRST THEN YOU CAN'T BE ABLE TO REMAIN IN A POSITION TO TAKE CARE OF OTHERS...
THE MIND CONTROLS YOUR BODY AND STRESS CAN BREAK THE BODY DOWN IN A WAY NO DRUG CAN EVER REPARE...
LOV YA A-L-L (SMILE)
Your Creator may have made you brain dead...
But the First Words given to Mohamed from the Creator of Adaam(as) were:
Sûrat Al‘Alaq
(The Clot) XCVI
In the Name of Allâah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
1. Read! In the Name of your Lord Who has created all that exists.
2. He has created man from a piece of thick coagulated blood.
3. Read! And your Lord is the Most Generous in Understanding.
4. Who has taught the writing.
5. He has taught Mankind that which he knew not.
6. But no, man does transgress in disbelief and evil deed.
so there is no 'STRESS' or 'BRAIN DEAD/UNHAPPY' with the Creator of Adaam(as)